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You’re going to get a lot of people confirming invalidating your view. They could be completely right. They can also be wrong.
There’s a few things to ad here. Has there been anything since the infidelity that’s cause you to question this at all?
I want to say I completely understand where you’re coming from. It seems like there’s a lot of signs there that could be warning signs and you want to make sure he is being faithful. At this point anything can be suspicious even if it’s harmless. The first thing you were going to have to do , in my opinion, which is the hardest thing to do, Israel, the emotions back in.
Sometimes as guys, we just talk about our day and the people we are around the most because of whatever the job is or our day brings we end up talking about. This very well could be a red flag, it also very well could be him just talking about his day. I also understand you really don’t wanna hear about this time he has with another woman.
As far as adding her on Facebook, I would let it go. It’s very common for people to do this in today’s day and age. I personally think if he was going to hide some thing, he wouldn’t be adding her on Facebook. It would just be a way of getting caught.
One reason I hate technology is that everybody is accessible at any point during the day. There should be a boundary that he should set that if somebody needs something they directly ask the question and he gets back to them when he can, or they call and get to the point if it is an emergency . I am the kind of person if I just need something I will ask are you up? I’ve also had to set boundaries with other people about messaging me at certain hours needing information.
I can understand both sides to this. I’m not saying he is innocent. I’m not saying he’s guilty. If everything has been good since the infidelity, he might deserve the benefit of the doubt here.
Your fiancé is likely going to have to be the one to set up boundaries. You may want to talk to him about a plan to move forward, since ignoring things doesn’t seem to be enough.
A good retort for the fiancé’s ex thing could have been: “That’s great; I hope they are as happy with each other as I am with u/SoftOrganization01” and an added hug for good measure.
When she tries to show him pics of women he should reply that she doesn’t need his permission or approval to start dating again. Then play dumb and ask why else she would show him the pictures?
Or he could simply but immediately get up, give you your coat, thank his mom for the visit and guide you out of the house. If she asks why, he can simply say that she is making him uncomfortable and disrespecting his relationship so he is leaving. If he does this every time she tries to pull stuff like this I guarantee she’ll get the hint and stop.
Why don't you just end it between you two and not tell the bf?
I feel like you're a bit too far along to actually tell him… it seems disingenuous. Just tell her you've had a change of heart and aren't comfortable seeing her anymore.
So, could he sustain himself without you? Because what I hear with what he said was basically “im along for the ride in your great life, so i shouldn't have to pay for any of it.”
It really is dumb ? They just pull out the stupidest stuff. I guess he lives with his mom so my petty a$$ would go over there and ask her about the bra. I wouldn't buy it if she managed to cover for him but I have a feeling she'd be confused af.
I don’t ever let them be alone. Mama bear comes out when it comes to her. I’ll ask my friend to practice sticking up for myself though. Thank you so much for your input
First the distancing and anger at you. Yeah, for that I would just go NC.
Second the copying – ignore it unless she’s trying to actually insert herself in your life. Take it as a compliment. When coupled with NC, it doesn’t matter anyway.
Ummmm…I'm kind of stuck on the bullshit about needing to picture someone else in order to cum while he's having sex with you. That would definitely be a sticking point for me.
Yours isn't unusual at all. I on-line in Scotland. People fuck off to the hills weekly and monthly.
Every month I have one weekend where I do absolutely nothing but sleep and chill. I absolutely need that. Every 2 months would burn me out. Keep your monthly get away and tell your boyfriend to fuck off. It's controlling how clingy he is and argumentative. I'd personally leave him the next time he blows up. Then go on a long weekend get away glamping before taking 2 weeks holiday glamping to make up for the additional stress you've had to suffer.
I had a friend like that once. She also always made fun of my boyfriend. I have then also always felt super uncomfortable and insecure. I wish I had ended the “friendship” earlier. Such people are simply poison.
An open relationship either works for both of you or it ends the relationship. It’s a “two yes, one no” decision.
You don’t want to do it, so your response is straightforward: you tell her “If you want to fuck other people the relationship is over. Confirm that’s what you want, and we can go out separate ways today.”
You’re going to get a lot of people confirming invalidating your view. They could be completely right. They can also be wrong.
There’s a few things to ad here. Has there been anything since the infidelity that’s cause you to question this at all?
I want to say I completely understand where you’re coming from. It seems like there’s a lot of signs there that could be warning signs and you want to make sure he is being faithful. At this point anything can be suspicious even if it’s harmless. The first thing you were going to have to do , in my opinion, which is the hardest thing to do, Israel, the emotions back in.
Sometimes as guys, we just talk about our day and the people we are around the most because of whatever the job is or our day brings we end up talking about. This very well could be a red flag, it also very well could be him just talking about his day. I also understand you really don’t wanna hear about this time he has with another woman.
As far as adding her on Facebook, I would let it go. It’s very common for people to do this in today’s day and age. I personally think if he was going to hide some thing, he wouldn’t be adding her on Facebook. It would just be a way of getting caught.
One reason I hate technology is that everybody is accessible at any point during the day. There should be a boundary that he should set that if somebody needs something they directly ask the question and he gets back to them when he can, or they call and get to the point if it is an emergency . I am the kind of person if I just need something I will ask are you up? I’ve also had to set boundaries with other people about messaging me at certain hours needing information.
I can understand both sides to this. I’m not saying he is innocent. I’m not saying he’s guilty. If everything has been good since the infidelity, he might deserve the benefit of the doubt here.
Your fiancé is likely going to have to be the one to set up boundaries. You may want to talk to him about a plan to move forward, since ignoring things doesn’t seem to be enough.
A good retort for the fiancé’s ex thing could have been: “That’s great; I hope they are as happy with each other as I am with u/SoftOrganization01” and an added hug for good measure.
When she tries to show him pics of women he should reply that she doesn’t need his permission or approval to start dating again. Then play dumb and ask why else she would show him the pictures?
Or he could simply but immediately get up, give you your coat, thank his mom for the visit and guide you out of the house. If she asks why, he can simply say that she is making him uncomfortable and disrespecting his relationship so he is leaving. If he does this every time she tries to pull stuff like this I guarantee she’ll get the hint and stop.
Why don't you just end it between you two and not tell the bf?
I feel like you're a bit too far along to actually tell him… it seems disingenuous. Just tell her you've had a change of heart and aren't comfortable seeing her anymore.
You’re right, if we can be friends at all it’d be still too soon for that
Thank you, I’m going to try my best to think through this logically without too much emotion. I’ll take my time
So, could he sustain himself without you? Because what I hear with what he said was basically “im along for the ride in your great life, so i shouldn't have to pay for any of it.”
What benefit to you for being his breadwinner?
Oh wow. No wonder why I sensed something was off about the Post.
It really is dumb ? They just pull out the stupidest stuff. I guess he lives with his mom so my petty a$$ would go over there and ask her about the bra. I wouldn't buy it if she managed to cover for him but I have a feeling she'd be confused af.
I don’t ever let them be alone. Mama bear comes out when it comes to her. I’ll ask my friend to practice sticking up for myself though. Thank you so much for your input
There’s two issues here, not one.
First the distancing and anger at you. Yeah, for that I would just go NC.
Second the copying – ignore it unless she’s trying to actually insert herself in your life. Take it as a compliment. When coupled with NC, it doesn’t matter anyway.
He’s preying on the fact that you’re young and inexperienced. This man is not somebody you want to be with. Please leave
Ummmm…I'm kind of stuck on the bullshit about needing to picture someone else in order to cum while he's having sex with you. That would definitely be a sticking point for me.
Yours isn't unusual at all. I on-line in Scotland. People fuck off to the hills weekly and monthly.
Every month I have one weekend where I do absolutely nothing but sleep and chill. I absolutely need that. Every 2 months would burn me out. Keep your monthly get away and tell your boyfriend to fuck off. It's controlling how clingy he is and argumentative. I'd personally leave him the next time he blows up. Then go on a long weekend get away glamping before taking 2 weeks holiday glamping to make up for the additional stress you've had to suffer.
I had a friend like that once. She also always made fun of my boyfriend. I have then also always felt super uncomfortable and insecure. I wish I had ended the “friendship” earlier. Such people are simply poison.
An open relationship either works for both of you or it ends the relationship. It’s a “two yes, one no” decision.
You don’t want to do it, so your response is straightforward: you tell her “If you want to fuck other people the relationship is over. Confirm that’s what you want, and we can go out separate ways today.”
But you will worry about what they do off the internet even when it has no bearing on your life as well? Okay then. Kinda ironic.
Ohhh so a case has been made
oh I wasn’t aware of that sorry, thank you for letting me know :’)