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Yeah fair enough, i'll try to get myself to try and say something, this wouldn't be asking for a date though, it would be asking if she'd want us to date, we've hung out before, and i don't feel like we need like a first date experience due to the stuff we've been through already, like, she told me that one waiter even asked her where her bf was when she went alone to this bar we went to one time.
Do you think we should have a “first date” type of thing though? I never actually had that in my life even, idk what to expect
Thats totally it. She has an avoidant personality, so that's how it works
This guy is a sicko.
You did good OP i am sorry you have had those experiences but i am proud you are learning from them. I also hope you find a therapist that works for you.
If she had no interest in coming black she wouldn’t care about stopping the visa process.
She wants to fuck other people while still being able to get her visa. Take off your blinders. If she was just frustrated with the visa process she wouldn’t be asking to see other people. If she didn’t care about the visa she wouldn’t care about you withdrawing it.
I feel like it's either a really, really sad story that the parents, friends, etc never pointed out to her how disgusting he is…
Or someone just made up this crazy story to gain karma.
Not saying that this is impossible to happen just really unlikely.
He is a cheater, a liar, and has wasted years of your time. Do not allow him to waste any more.
I missed like one detail my dude, and like you said it changes basically nothing. Misreading happens.
I am so sorry for what you are suddenly going through. There is so much to unpack here. And so much pain emerging. Remember to focus on your children because they unconditionally love you and ground you as well.
Please get a referral to an excellent psychologist for individual counseling. You need to get clarity on your own choices and the goodness of your life. I'd also recommend some kind of meditation practice or visiting a retreat center so you alone can have a noise-free environment to let your thoughts and feelings happen. It's going to take a long while to process all this new information about a loved one in your life.
i was told i must be fatherless for thinking it's weird how he seems to enjoy dressing up his kids – then he edited his post to remove it
troll or world class asshole. very hot to tell anymore.
You have been. You've been taking care of all her basic needs for the last 5 years. That's more than enough. You aren't a therapist…
She is mourning the 9 years she wasted with that guy
Every hot the term “weaponized incompetence”? Look it up. Might help you look at your over-age bf in a whole new light.
He told you he is a cheater. Don’t be surprised if he does this on you. Leave if you’re not ok with it.
Are we done? Can you leave me be please?
Oh fuck off. You posted your opinion and if you don't want to have the conversation then walk away. But you are being highly inappropriate and irresponsible for suggesting any mental health diagnoses for someone you have never met, and you clearly know that because you knew exactly what I was getting at. Now again, fuck off.
Fuck that, watch out for #1 kid, world can be a dark place.
Couples counseling to work on healthy communication and to discuss her excessive social media usage. Discussion to limit the amount of phone time. Call for family time or relationship time and phone,computer, and or tablet go in a basket in the other room for everyone and you spend time together, you need to learn to reconnect and she needs to detox from social media. Play a game, do a puzzle, watch a show, just talk about your day without technology clouding it. Good Luck.
Yes
Ooh good idea. I have a feeling he just does it to see me react with disgust ?
“I had a midwife appointment today and she told me that she was aware as the police had informed her”
Wait… what? How could that be true?
Ask police. Or ask midwife first.
Don't stress yourself, it's no use. If it's true police will come to you in time. If not… stop fretting. Now.
“I just feel so stressed about it all, he’s not supportive at all,”
totally understandable you are stressed out.
“whenever i become upset from his behaviour it’s my ‘hormones’ and to wait until the baby is born”
He had a point there. Hormons can make a pregnant woman turn into an upset monster with an itch to use her childs father for a darts board.
It will fade away in time.
Also just consider: you are totally right! He us unsupportive. Nothing to discuss there! These are mere facts!
“so I’m struggling to feel sympathetic towards him in this situation.”
I not only felt totally unsympathetic with my childs father. I ended the relationship because of his unsupportiveness.
“If I have to do it all on my own I would like to raise just one toddler, not two of them. One being a man in his thirties.” was my thinking back then.
It sounds like you're spiraling without all the information. You don't know the cause yet, so you don't know whether or not this is treatable. All there is to do is be bluntly honest. “I got my results, and there was no sperm in any of my samples. I need to follow up to get tests to find the cause to see if it's treatable.” Then do that. This may also be a good time to start discussing the possibility of IVF via sperm donor if the cause isn't treatable.
So you’re talking with and/ or about the ex while you’re with your girlfriend so much so that you knew you needed to cut it down?
Well, for example we'd be hanging out or out at dinner and my ex would text to talk about and I'd respond and have conversations about him, it didn't occur to me in the moment but she called me out on it and I realized how it made her feel, so if it's not an emergency I just don't respond.
Your ex booked a vet appointment for your pet? Wow… What the actual fuck. I bet there’s a lot more ridiculous examples like that but that is preposterous. Grow up dude and yeah that’s enmeshment way too much
I didn't ask for the appt to be made, I had mentioned to her some issues I was having with the cat. She took it upon herself to book it with her vet, because the vet has history with the cat and does pro Bono work for her since she works with a cat rescue company. Again, another learning opportunity because if I flip roles and put myself in her shoes I have no issues with it.
Is this the first time you and girlfriend moved in? Or did you just move places I can’t quite tell.
She moved in Dec of 2020 because we both got covid at the and time and she had a roommate with a kid who told her not to come back until she was over it. So she just stayed.
I'm not saying I'm blameless at all here. I'm looking to improve myself if I need to, or dig my heels in if I have a leg to stand on. My parents divorced when I was a kid… It didn't really bother me at all, but it took a while for my dad to get over it. My mom remarried a few years later and they became better friends after the divorce than before. That was 30 years ago. To this day you'll find my dad at my mom's for every holiday. Even the times he's had a girlfriend.
His next victim. Good riddance. Go find the person who gets you. It wasn't him.
Thank you so much, I really am trying to only use my money for Investments – and proving my home, I just got the roof done remodeled the bathroom because it really needed it and I'm doing the kitchen right now. I'm only spending money if I think I'll make it up in the future – my plan is to sell this home or rent it out so I can continue making more money.
My partner's going to school, so for now we're going to stay in this house until they graduate and after I'll look into selling or renting.
I’m not in the United States. Average houses in my state go for between $570,500 – $671,000 USD. Very very rarely a 1-2 bedroom place will come up and they’re still around the $300,000 USD mark and to get one you’d be up against investment home buyers who generally have more money to spend than first home buyers.