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Fuck staying. You’re not even 30 !!! You have your whole life ahead of you.
Do you honestly want to stay with a cheater? He’s only sorry because he got caught. Cheating is a CHOICE, no accidents happened here.
Respect yourself. If you stay he will 100% do this again further down the line.
Updateme!
I presume that these special menu nights book out? So you'd be taking a paying seat. This is his business.
I guess it's less humiliating hiding behind a front.
Laugh it up about the red flags and how he has you while you can. It’ll get much worse. You need to stop denying your own agency because if you stay you are choosing abuse and it will get bad and miserable. Full stop. We’ve all warned you and you’ve laid out the standard lead up to it. Don’t be stupid. Leave. This has nothing to do with his religion and everything to do with the nightmare he is.
If you have the time, look into “love bombing” and the cycle of abuse; my ex would shower me with praise and tell me I was her “soul mate” and things would be great!… until they weren’t again. As soon as something made her upset, even if it didn’t involve me, she would make it my problem and take it out on me. Then eventually she’d apologize or things would be okay for a bit, and then something would happen and we were back at square one. I’m so sorry you’re in this position, if you need someone to talk to my dms are open!
It sounds like you know what you need to do. It also sounds like you’ll be a single mother regardless of whether you stay with him or not. At least if you break up, you won’t be caring for a baby and a man-child.
Tried masturbating before, it doesn't change much.
It's not even making out for hours, sometimes it's just hugging or holding hands or occasional kisses that get me aroused and after a while the pain comes.
his behavior is beyond bizarre. it’s not normal response for this situation.
So lemme get this straight- you pressured him into breaking his own boundaries, watched him get assaulted, heard him say the words ‘I’m not in the mood to talk right now’ and you’re still trying to make this about you and your hurt feelings ? Give your man his space
That’s where I’m conflicted. We’ve only dated for 2 weeks and pulling this kind of behavior makes me question him.
I was going to say that reconciliation may be possible if you keep him at arms length, until you said what he said at the wake. Fuck that guy
Bc she doesn't remember it? How are you honestly confused
I’m saying that you shouldn’t bring it up to him. This is something for you to work through on your own.
Oh yes! I journal frequently! Honestly sometimes reddit is a bit of that for me too lol. Just to have other people share similar experiences, to be heard and related to.
Our trauma bond was certainly real, he was very sick (eating disorder and alcoholic) at the time we met, I was in an absolutely terrible situation at home, and I felt he could save me and I could save him. I realize now that's what kept us together during those naked times…. reliance.
Ma’am. Your TEN year older partner is randomly accusing you of being a pedophile for absolutely no discernible reason?
Sounds like the biggest case of projection I’ve ever heard.
Getoutgetoutgetoutgetout
im disagreeing with all these comments you have been friends with them BOTH for more than a year and only recently began to date lucy and all of a sudden shes demanding you stop being friends with kate? that's not ok. Men can be friends with women as much as Reddit disagrees (Bi people cant have any friends apparently). She has an insecurity problem and its her issue to work out, there is nothing wrong with continuing to be friends with someone you have known for just as long as your gf. I doesnt sound like this relationship will work out tho with how hellbent your gf is on accusing you of cheating for having a female friend.
Can you give an example of a situation you misunderstood?
You don't feel good enough. You worry that she'd leave you for someone more successful. You need to talk with her and ask her why she wants you, in particular, in her life. And not the superficial reasons (like she thinks you are cute, or good in bed, or enjoys your cooking, or you like the same TV shows), but something more profound.
The kinds of things I'm thinking of are like these:
“You accept me in a way no one has, not even my parents.” “I feel safe with you in a way I haven't felt since I was a child.” “You get me to see the humor in my life, when I thought I was boring and dull.”
You can see how these work on a more fundamental level, on our vulnerabilities. If your girlfriend told you something like one of those, it would probably help you understand that you mean more to her than extra cash coming in.
However, if she's not used to reflection, or thinking about herself, she might not have a ready answer. You can talk about what profound reasons to want a relationship may be (give those examples), and ask her to take a few days to think about it, and tell you later what ideas she's had.
Listen to what she says.
He's generally been having a worse overall mood and feels more stress, which I understand is largely due to work and our circumstances as of late. But I also know that his mood and confidence was improved when he was jogging regularly. Even in my personal circumstances I see huge improvements to my own mood when I exercise regularly as opposed to being sedentary.
I understand that people's weight can fluctuate overtime, but he's weighed about the same the entire time I've known him, so I just want to make sure that if there's an underlying issue impacting his health, we can address it early on. Something I wish I'd done for myself years ago.
I also know how shitty it makes you feel when you neglect your hobbies and stop doing things you enjoy, which for him are things like jogging, biking, and working out.
I'd say the best thing to do would be talk to him about this. I know it would be hot to do but communication is key in relationships and it will help with what you want
When someone is actively telling you the kind of person they are, listen. That would have been the last time I considered visiting with my kids, when she said that.
That's exactly what I thought happened. Especially as the stress could have triggered it.