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Date: October 9, 2022
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Don't marry her for one, but why are you afraid of leaving her? Damn dude ,pick 'em up and hold her accountable for what she did! You are being lied to and disrespected!! Ok, I'm done talking if you don't see what a liar and a cheater she is!!
He wanted long icy blonde hair which I keep up.
We guys get caught up in the moment. Our feral side comes out and we only care for our needs. It's not something we can control, it's just nature.
Personally I think your relationship sounds fine. Take stock of your post. You said many lovely things about your partner and relationship. The only negative was calling it mundane or a little stale. I'll say as well, maybe you'd enjoy going out more together. My partner and I are home bodies, and our area doesn't offer a lot beyond shopping/spending money/crowds of people. So we go for hikes/nature walks a lot when we have off days together.
This may not be the solution to this issue. But for myself I have found indulging more in my own hobbies myself helped some of this issue.
You are 30, please start dating women in your age
You don't explain. You don't convince. You say: “I consider nudes cheating. You don't have to share my view but you have to respect that if you're going to date me. Can you?” And then you say what you'll do if your partner sends nudes. And then you do it.
Well, I disagree with you. The situation I’ve described is a matter of respect for me, and that’s where our views differ. Still, I’m grateful for your time.
OP, I do not agree with you saying up her getting a job within x time frame as a condition of your marriage. It's manipulative and controlling and I'm surprised the therapist didn't tell you that. And holding the status of your marriage as a consequence – not only are you saying that you are going to punish her (are you get father?) but you are saying , by threatening to throw the entire marriage away, that the paycheck is more important than the marriage. Again, manipulative, controlling, and let's add abusive. If she weren't having issues she probably would have left you since you have been threatening to leave if she doesn't find a job. When I was told it would be over if x didn't happen, I went ahead and left because you done threaten the relationship of you value it. But like another poster said , you don't sound like you like her or value her. You say you're considering leaving just because does not working? That's not the only reason, it's it?
Is your sex life healthy? I think if it is, I would be more at peace from what you say.
He’s never been married but had was engaged but apparently she was physical towards him so he apparently left her. And no kids..says he’s always wanted to be a father.. he’s sweet but he’s trying to rush and he’s not respecting my boundaries. Also concerned that I can’t trust what he says because once he told me he doesn’t believe people are capable of being truthful. So idk it makes me think like what he thinks he can make up.. anyways he had it rough with his parents and so he moved out when he was 16or so and right now he lives in a trailer (he doesn’t let me over because it’s apparently a disaster) and he has 2cats that piss on everything and all this stuff always smells like cat piss and he’s so used to it I guess he doesn’t notice..apparently the smell was a deal breaker for his ex.. it is really bad and I’ve had him put things in plastic bags and tried killing the smell in the freezer, I try to have compassion and help but anyways I think I’m going to leave him because it’s all too much. Sorry for rambling, hope I answered all your questions
What I love about this is how mature and understanding all three of you have been. Since you all work together I hope your ex can become a kind of aunt to the baby. She'll be grieving hot for some time but happy for you as well.
This is going to sound harsh, but it sounds like she didn’t like the sex. If she isn’t honest about that, there is nothing you can do. You guys can probably work out the sexual compatibility part if you are both honest and work on it. If she wants to end a marriage over what she says, there is nothing you can do about it without her help
I really do think he’s just taking out his anger on you. Maybe he has a different communication style from you. Maybe you’re not the smoothest communicator on the entire planet. Guess what? It doesn’t matter. Why? Because you literally are sitting there giving him love and care to the best of your ability. That is the part that matters and we are lucky to have people like that in our life. If there’s some way he wants you to respond he can give you a clear guideline and express himself kindly. But acting like there’s something wrong with you just because you don’t communicate the same way as he does is mean and is only going to put a bug in the back of your ear saying everything you do is wrong. He’s the one who’s in the wrong here because he’s the one who’s being mean. You’re just trying to help.
Do you suppose those other guys also got fulsome affirmations of contentment?
If she was cheating the whole time with that one fellow, why did she get into a relationship she didnt want?
You are being lied to by a habitual liar. If she isnt already cheating the probability she will is astronomical. Do not be tricked by her honesty – often its a way of future proofing the revelations to come. “I did tell you who I was” followed by the weak refrain “I have not been happy for a while”.
You can believe in Easter bunnies, father Christmas, your magic dick that transforms the mental issues that drive a serial cheater if you want to. Prepare to have the belief demolished…
Reading your previous post and this one, yes it sounds like he has a substance abuse problem. If he can no longer drive because of his drinking (I'm assuming DUI?), that indicates that his relationship with alcohol is unhealthy.
I'm not sure what you're getting out of this relationship. You are his maid and chauffeur and in return he lies to you and doesn't seem to have any interest in making positive changes. You can't make someone a good partner by sheer force of will. Whether he's an alcoholic or not, which he likely is, he's not contributing anything of value to your shared life together. Wouldn't your life be less stressful if you weren't constantly worrying about him and cleaning up after two people?
To begin with “I can't really make it. How about next week?” doesn't sound as if you are being played. It sounds as if he genuinely wanted to and needs to reschedule.
Having sex and then kind of disappearing, however, doesn't sound great to me.
So, there is one green flag and one…yellow-ish towards red flag?
I guess you have to decide on if you believe in the green flag, or if the red flag still stings enough that you feel that he cannot be trusted.
Yeah I seriously had a chuckle at this, I'm sorry OP but your man must be satire.
He could block his family and insist they use SMS or call. Then they can’t see if he’s live.
I dunno. I (44F) work weird hours to facilitate global teams. I’m in the US so sometimes this means I’m working very late or early in the morning. As it’s all meetings that I take on my phone, and my phone is always logged in to my social media and such, people see me “online”.
Even when I’m not working and am just cleaning house or riding my horse or something, I’m usually listening to a podcast or audible book.
My family and friends know that if it’s an emergency, they need to call and I will call back as soon as possible. But I don’t even have text or messenger notifications turned on as they’re distracting. I check texts about 2-3 times a day. That’s it. If something is going to require more than an “okay, got it” or “I’ll call you in an hour when I’m done”, I’m not going to respond until I have the time to focus.
Now…I do reach out to family and friends pretty regularly so their need for interaction is met outside of texts.
Maybe he could call or text his mom more often on his own? Try to check texts once a day at least? Or let her know when he plans to call after work? I suppose he could go the nuclear route and tell them that if this is such a problem, perhaps everyone needs a break from communication altogether until they can wrap their minds around the fact that he’s not there on demand to respond.
Just because we have the technology doesn’t mean people should expect someone to be available 24/7.
I’ve just explained to family and friends
he's barely known him
This is precisely why you should not have moved him in. By the time you move a partner into your home as a single parent, your child should already have spent significant time with them not only so they can feel comfortable around them, but so you can see how your partner treats them in a variety of situations.
Your son's home is his safe space, you should not be bringing near-strangers in and insisting he share that space with them.
In any moral dilemma, the solution that is the hardest is the correct one. A saying from my wise old Scots granny.
In this case completely ignoring your old friend would be the hardest to do, and consequently the right one. You must, at all costs, protect yourself and your life. Granny was also very keen on people accepting the consequences of their own actions.
Honey, she doesn't care a flying fig about you.
She is ashamed to have a stepchild with speach issues and a step daughter with mental health issues.
That's all.
If you like this guy, who cares what others think? Their words and thoughts don’t have anything to do with your feelings and your life.
Why are you waiting for him to make the move? If you want to kiss him kiss him.