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Date: October 3, 2022
Why do you need to give her an ultimatum? Why does she need to run everything she does by you?
Welp, I know what I'm getting my boyfriend as his wedding gift when we marry.
Let’s see it
we had an agreement that we would leave it behind after i have my revenge. I did successfully had my revenge
What are you, a middle schooler?
Partnership isn't about tit-for-tat, or competition, or keeping score. If you're trading transgressions to even the score, your relationship is already a disaster, and it's just going to get more acrimonious and resentful as each of you keeps pushing the boundaries.
Lay your expectations out clearly and explicitly, and if he violates your boundaries, you decide how or if the situation can be repaired.
Imagine your female friend doing all the things she does to another female friend. I bet she doesn't. I bet she's not possessive of other girls, getting upset when they leave to see their boyfriend, throwing surprise parties (like you'd expect a gf to) then throwing a tantrum when you go to a similar restaurant with your gf.
Why doesn't she do this to ger female friends? She doesn't need to want to date you, to feel like your attention belongs to her and you should be prioritising her. I would be curious how her finance felt if he heard all the things she said about you and your gf, and how she acted with you both.
Your gf should be a priority. That is why you are in a relationship in the first place, to be with someone who's always got your back, I'd always on your team, is always there for you and puts you first. Why else do you want a relationship? You can get everything else including sex without one. That's what commitment means.
If you dont like the person shes becoming leave. If it dies down and she realizes it wasnt all it was cracked up to be then she will come back. But dont sit there in misery and not live your life while shes living hers. You'll resent her for it.
If you imagine life would be better then give it a shot. I was in your position and I waited. She got it all out of her system and I could never look at her the same. So i left. My only regret is jot leaving sooner and wasting that time.
He sounds like a child ?♀️?♀️
I'd bet money this person also uses terms like “alpha” without any sense of irony.
For starters, you can stop arguing with the people here and take some constructive criticism lol.
She doesn't even know what a personal boundary is
Enlighten us.
Well sister you shot yourself in the foot.
Being bi is a sexual orientation is just that, sexual.
Here being afraid of the sexual side of things you let your husband being emotionally attached to someone else.
In my opinion going forward you should either ask him to stop exploring out of respect for you or be sexual with other men (honesty ideally under your supervision. For transparency) but cut out this new boyfriend.
Well, he tried your town if i were you i would try his. If you don’t like it and are miserable you can always move back and know you gave it your all. my husband was always a city person and i always lived on lots of land. When we first got married we lived in town. I hated it. It was convenient for shopping but so loud and crowded. We moved out of town and my husband was surprised at how much he loves living out in the country. He didn’t think he would but we wouldn’t online anywhere else now.
Its a rant out of their hurt for not being in the relationship, its pain not rationality, just ignore it, don't respond
Lmao oops I guess?
So she's attractive and not stupid (her actions really suggest otherwise) but otherwise lacks empathy, is a liar and a cheater?
she definitely said she wanted me to get “screened” for abusive behaviors
Is this even a thing therapists can do? How do you 'screen' somebody for being a shitty person in a short therapy session, when the person who has been intimate with them for 5 years apparently can't tell?
The background check is weird too. What kind of background check is she talking about? Like, a criminal record check? Is she going to get one too?
The background check doesn't seem super onerous to me. But honestly, if a person pulled this on me I would just start to question how rational they are and how well I know them. I probably wouldn't stick around.
No one is pushing for late term abortions that are not medically necessary and certainly not fully murdering a child. Clinton is not a pro abortion activist
Have you talked to him about feeling this way? Not everyone is naturally a gift giver and he may not realize this is important to you.
This is morality/sexuality ocd. You don’t need to talk to your partner about this or confess anything, but exposure therapy and cbt might be worth looking into if you aren’t already
why do people do this??♀️
I'm almost tempted to grade this with a B plus….
The scene where she followed them to a motel and watched them as they had passionate sex with the windows open.
That's kind of making me downgrade from A-
He said he was shook as I’ve never hit his hand like that and I usually just gently move him if I don’t want something. I think it shocked him
She's in pain but she manipulated you. You did the right thing, sounds like she is not ready for a healthy relationship
Choose school. I chose “love” at 18/19 and gave up truly focusing on my school and career, and completely fucked myself over for someone who was 100% not worth it. Not saying he’s not worth it, but if it’s really meant to be, the relationship will survive your medical school.
Thank you for your response. It’s nice to know I’m not being completely unreasonable. Definitely on a different wavelength
I agree. I’ve been afraid to even touch this subject with him for that reason, as I don’t want to make him feel weird about a decision that is completely valid. I think these days I just end up catering to his wants for our weekends and it’s a bit draining. I have a high stress job and would really love to go out some weekends with friends, but it’s been months now of us just sitting at home alone playing the games he likes. I have some thinking to do. Thank you so much again for your response.
Some of the best engineers I've met have been women. Mostly because they want to be there rather than been told it's a career that a technically minded man should have.
Also none of them take any shit.
Some of the best engineers I've met have been women. Mostly because they want to be there rather than been told it's a career that a technically minded man should have.
Also none of them take any shit.
If you stay together, have the wedding by your family and make them travel. Don’t be surprised if most of them don’t make it. Limit weekly dinners to once a month. These expectations will eat you up once you have a family of your own.
I think the conversation happens between them.
Of course this sucks for you and you're the one on the losing end here but your ex is the one that has to decide who she wants in her life more.
Now, I understand that you two have moved on from the relationship there is nothing lingering between the two of you but unfortunately you don't get a vote or say in this. It's harsh but true the decisions is out of your hands.
Now, I know I feel nothing for my exs, I know I would never cheat on my husband but I also know that from the moment I knew I wanted to spend my life with him I would never disrespect him or our building relationship but keeping an ex close in my life.
Knowing it won't happen, trusting it won't happen doesn't change the fact that for a lot of people this is a naked boundary.
Thanks for your comment and I have to say that it’s nice to know that I’m not the only one who needs more space!
Re: quality time, we definitely do one activity together as a family every weekend ie. The three of us going to the zoo, camping, on a hike, out on the boat, maybe a weekend trip. During the week, my husband and I usually watch a movie together after our daughter’s in bed, and we pretty much talk incessantly from the minute he walks in the door also. He just gets really tight if I reach for my phone or open a book.
Date night sounds like a good idea to me, but my husband doesn’t like eating out (we live in a city with very sub-par cuisine options and he’s a snob from SF). I don’t care either way, honestly — we’re both great cooks.
After work, I’m honestly exhausted too. I guess I can’t imagine doing much more than what we do already, but I’m willing to push myself to try!
Why so sure?
She seems very into herself. Is she a narcissist or just immature. She cheated. Now she is punishing you for her cheating
It doesn’t make it any less of a deal breaker.
Which idea there are a few. Lol.
I think you may have read the post wrong. He has invited his friends out for a camping trip and trusts they will bring what they need for said camping trip because they are adults who have camped before. As far as he is concerned, all the planning needed for the trip has happened.
OP wants to organize extra stuff while they're there to have a full on party, pot luck, etc. He said he doesn't want that and just wants everyone to show up and have a good time. It's at this point that OP should stop pushing for the stuff that she wants and let this be the chill, low-key affair that he wants. Instead, she is fighting with him to plan more stuff for the trip.
It’s called compassion fatigue; he’s exhausted his supply of empathy. He signed up to be a husband, not a caretaker.
My dad is dying in the ICU. We had a very estranged relationship but once this happened I wish more then anything to have a day with him.
You don't have to be legally married to do any of those things.
I cannot think of which epic reddit revenge on a cheater thread it was, but the man noted his cheating spouse was taught by her friend who also stepped out on her marriage that the best thing to do was to use employment language with the affair partner(s) so any evidence going to a lawyer in a divorce would not look suspicious.
E.g. the spouse cheated on was the boss, the cheating spouse and affair partner were always contacting one another about work, scheduled hook ups were business meetings, etc.
Tell him it's you or his friend. Then a lawyer, he isn't being honest with you.
When you prefer your retarded culture than your wife, you dont deserve her.