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It sounds like you've already tried. Repeatedly. He simply doesn't care, and has made it clear he prefers to masturbate. I think it's time to either accept the sexless and loveless relationship, or move on and let him and his hand have a wonderful life together.
A year is 12 months. A pregnancy is 9 months. What's an extra 3 months going to do? Keep the baby. He can choose to leave or stay. But do NOT terminate a baby you want and tried so naked for.
Pick yourself up off the ground. Dust yourself off and begin a new journey starting today that doesn't involve him or any of the others who have hurt you. Most importantly, respect yourself and demand better. You can do this!
He is my first so i don't have any idea what I should do and not do in a relationship :((
My boyfriend is usually great at communicating but he just can't control it at the time. yes i'm not that good at communicating my feelings so that might be why
How is it inappropriate to bring up prenups in a discussion about wants and expectations about marriage? It doesn’t even come across as an obsession either. He literally states “marriage would have to involve a prenup” then gives some reasoning for his expectation.
How is that any different from her stating her expectation that there’s no rush but she’d like to find her person and get married? Both have communicated their expectations like adults but somehow he’s the only one painted in a negative light?
You did the right thing. Sounds like your whole family has enabled his childish selfish behaviour all of his life.
He needs to make his own shit decisions and live! with them. I don’t know why you and Mia thought it was acceptable to start interrogating Lola about her intentions towards your brother.
You are both too involved in his life. He’s an adult, let him do his thing and don’t mKe any plans that would upset you if they get broken. He’s flaky because he’s been spoilt.
Yeah! And it was because I was just scared we were moving too fast because logically they say not to buy a house until you're married. We did still end up buying one before marriage, but we had been together for 3.5/4:years then so I felt more secure.
Also, we've always had a fantastic relationship. We had some hiccups recently, but we've been majorly refocusing on each other the last week and our relationship is feeling stronger because of it. So it isn't like waiting made our relationship really bad.
Correct, yeah. Nothing like infidelity since we’ve been together.
Yeah, If the shame is what’s it’s about, that’s a piece of cake. I can work with that. Hopefully we can have a good chat about it. I don’t see any reason to feel ashamed about it, but I know why he would, and that’s ok.
I think it sounds a lot like he has used NC distancing as a punishment, or some kind of way to get out of bigger discussions you two need to have. Like he wants to have you on the back foot and he can have things his own way. It’s not ok to ask for NC during an argument or big upheaval in a relationship. Space is important and having no contact can sometimes be a good thing but you have to plan for it and give people time to talk about how that will work and what it looks like. Not just walk on out during something. Sorry he had repeatedly done this kind of thing but you’re right. It’s time to let him go.
Yes, but, the person I responded to was mentioning the military on infidelity. The issue is their punishment is on soldiers who are unfaithful not their spouses. The issue is OP is in the military and knows the stats on military marriages that have issues and wants to bring up a prenup.
And he's not doing none that's an assumption on your part. When he IS up he'll blitz right along side me
OK. I was responding to what you wrote in your post:
he'll break plans, break promises, and all around let me down, usually to deal with whatever chores and things that need doing, by myself, with my chronic pain.
He'll then be genuinely baffled why I'm frustrated or annoyed about it, when I end up just alone and dealing with everything alone unless he randomly decides (which is occasionally) to have a manic period (bi-polar) and clean everything.
When you wrote that you “end up alone and dealing with everything alone […] with [your] chronic pain” unless he randomly occasionally decides to do chores.
I understood that as you are killing yourself doing daily household chores with your chronic pain and that he isn't doing his fair share of the work.
It sounds like you've already tried. Repeatedly. He simply doesn't care, and has made it clear he prefers to masturbate. I think it's time to either accept the sexless and loveless relationship, or move on and let him and his hand have a wonderful life together.
A year is 12 months. A pregnancy is 9 months. What's an extra 3 months going to do? Keep the baby. He can choose to leave or stay. But do NOT terminate a baby you want and tried so naked for.
Don’t you just hate that moment of realisation?
Pick yourself up off the ground. Dust yourself off and begin a new journey starting today that doesn't involve him or any of the others who have hurt you. Most importantly, respect yourself and demand better. You can do this!
He is my first so i don't have any idea what I should do and not do in a relationship :((
My boyfriend is usually great at communicating but he just can't control it at the time. yes i'm not that good at communicating my feelings so that might be why
I’m this case, the government can claim they were defrauded.
It’s not like in a personal injury suit where someone has to get hurt. Different set of rules apply here.
How is it inappropriate to bring up prenups in a discussion about wants and expectations about marriage? It doesn’t even come across as an obsession either. He literally states “marriage would have to involve a prenup” then gives some reasoning for his expectation.
How is that any different from her stating her expectation that there’s no rush but she’d like to find her person and get married? Both have communicated their expectations like adults but somehow he’s the only one painted in a negative light?
You did the right thing. Sounds like your whole family has enabled his childish selfish behaviour all of his life.
He needs to make his own shit decisions and live! with them. I don’t know why you and Mia thought it was acceptable to start interrogating Lola about her intentions towards your brother.
You are both too involved in his life. He’s an adult, let him do his thing and don’t mKe any plans that would upset you if they get broken. He’s flaky because he’s been spoilt.
Yep. The “inexplicable” personality shift is going to be cheating and/or drugs. Every time.
Telling a woman her vagina isn't tight enough is the same as saying a man's dick is too small. This man is disgusting and sad.
You’re 28. Stop dating teenagers.
He probably had his workplace down as a reference…
Wow this much older man doesn't want to commit?! Shocking
How long usually does it take, I'm soo anxious rn she just goes with her friends
What I should do
Good point, guess I’m not being used. Just in a weird situation
I have male friends that I don't kiss Daniel was just different
Yeah! And it was because I was just scared we were moving too fast because logically they say not to buy a house until you're married. We did still end up buying one before marriage, but we had been together for 3.5/4:years then so I felt more secure.
Also, we've always had a fantastic relationship. We had some hiccups recently, but we've been majorly refocusing on each other the last week and our relationship is feeling stronger because of it. So it isn't like waiting made our relationship really bad.
i get the feeling the comments would have a lot less support if OP was male…
whenever a guy brings this up the responses are “you didn’t ask to be exclusive so you’re not allowed to be mad!”
Does anyone else have access to your phone?
Has he done other things that would make you suspect him?
Maybe install cameras an see if she brings him home.
Correct, yeah. Nothing like infidelity since we’ve been together.
Yeah, If the shame is what’s it’s about, that’s a piece of cake. I can work with that. Hopefully we can have a good chat about it. I don’t see any reason to feel ashamed about it, but I know why he would, and that’s ok.
I just don’t want to be lied to.
I think it sounds a lot like he has used NC distancing as a punishment, or some kind of way to get out of bigger discussions you two need to have. Like he wants to have you on the back foot and he can have things his own way. It’s not ok to ask for NC during an argument or big upheaval in a relationship. Space is important and having no contact can sometimes be a good thing but you have to plan for it and give people time to talk about how that will work and what it looks like. Not just walk on out during something. Sorry he had repeatedly done this kind of thing but you’re right. It’s time to let him go.
Yes, but, the person I responded to was mentioning the military on infidelity. The issue is their punishment is on soldiers who are unfaithful not their spouses. The issue is OP is in the military and knows the stats on military marriages that have issues and wants to bring up a prenup.
And he's not doing none that's an assumption on your part. When he IS up he'll blitz right along side me
OK. I was responding to what you wrote in your post:
he'll break plans, break promises, and all around let me down, usually to deal with whatever chores and things that need doing, by myself, with my chronic pain.
He'll then be genuinely baffled why I'm frustrated or annoyed about it, when I end up just alone and dealing with everything alone unless he randomly decides (which is occasionally) to have a manic period (bi-polar) and clean everything.
When you wrote that you “end up alone and dealing with everything alone […] with [your] chronic pain” unless he randomly occasionally decides to do chores.
I understood that as you are killing yourself doing daily household chores with your chronic pain and that he isn't doing his fair share of the work.