โSo have you been dating recently? Iโm personally wondering about this guy from my Chem class ? What about you? Surely youโre one step away from a relationship with [insert very famous woman as a joke]โ
I couldnโt have said it better, after reading and getting to that part I immediately thought he literally broke up with you so he can go explore and his depression was his guilt trip.. and when things with the other women fizzled out of the honeymoon stage and things didnโt work out he came back running to you since he realized he fucked up. I will bet a vital organ that this is exactly what happened.
When people lose a loved one, they may not think straight and make decisions they wouldnโt normally make.
Give it some time and respect her boundaries.
It would be tough seeing her hang out with another friend, but I think right now just give her some space and reconnect after a week or so and just check in then.
Imagine you saw a 16 year old girl say this guy she likes keeps pressuring her to drink at large parties when she really isn't into it. Would you be urging her to give him a second chance, or would you tell her to run?
You are in the wrong. Why are you entitled to know if your sisters gf was trans or not? You're not. She's a woman who the hell cares if she used to pass as male. That's on you. You're not entitled to someone's sexuality. You're not effected by it so why would you think it's something you should know? Are you sleeping with her gf? No then butt out. You caused this. YOU. Not your parents but YOU.
From woman to woman how do you have the nerves to hurt another woman like that? Literally a big fuck you for doing that to another woman, had this whole ass affair for you to even want him??? So what was the point?? A goldigger since you said he financially helped you??
He was a family friend?? So that must mean his wife personally knew you as well? You're a homewrecker, like ok great you told his wife but this shouldn't even happened in the first place not to mention he's a creepy ass groomer.
I'm sorry I just can't stand women like you who will happily and knowingly have an affair with a married man. Would you like it if you were in the wife's place? Would you love to be cheated on? It's women like you and men like him that drive the wife that was cheated on to depression, their mental health going down all because you couldn't keep your hands off.
No seriously a big fuck you to the both you, it's just sad when another woman will happily hurt another woman. Honestly I hope in future you get cheated on so you know exactly how it feels to be betrayed, you and him deserve the worst to come your way.
You'll get used to it, there's at least one every day. I feel like someone is trying to use really bad AI to write posts for this sub or some weird creative writing exercise
I donโt know, Iโm assuming 17+, hopefully 18 because this whole situation goes from fucking awful to catastrophic for all parties involved. Like I said, I didnโt ask a lot of questions. I donโt even know if it happened while we were together – 21+
I was just focused on trying to be a good partner at the time and consoling my crying wife.
Spot on comments about staying to avoid commute costs and then leave and ghost. However, thereโs one very critical comment missing: GET TESTED FOR STIs IMMEDIATELY.
Lol not his responsibility. What would be fair and kind would be for the girlfriend to be happy for her boyfriend getting an awesome job and moving forward. This is a college resident advisor job. This isn't a career. Again, ITS NOT HIS MONEY.
“Yeah, hey mom and dad. I'm going to need you to give my girlfriend that $10,000 you are saving on my tuition for the job I landed. I mean, it's totally your responsibility to pay her for something I've done!”
Watch Adam ruins everything on pregnancy they really stress how possible it is to have kids later.
It should be something you include in your life plans, because knowing helps you plan better but there is no sharp cut off or limit and you won't know until you try.
I see this so often too. I wonder what it is that conditions women (because I mostly see women do this) to not see the red flags. As you say they start talking about how great their partner is and then describe a monster in the rest of the post.
I gave my number to another guy literally one hour before I met my future husband. I went on dates with other men while we were โjust talking.โ Iโve had men ask my number, beg me for a date, buy me gifts and flowers and the entire time they are dating someone else or doing the same thing to another woman. Nothing before matters. Itโs how he treats her on the date and relationship.
She did, but she initially told them earlier in the morning when I just had a small purple lump over my eye and not a huge ugly mass that covered the whole thing. We also got majorly caught in with the whole doctor fiasco before dinner that we never gave them an additional heads up. It's kind of tough to not be embarrassed though; I'm getting stares everywhere I go.
Why would you keep being with someone who canโt โhandleโ more kids? Thereโs clearly no future there
โSo have you been dating recently? Iโm personally wondering about this guy from my Chem class ? What about you? Surely youโre one step away from a relationship with [insert very famous woman as a joke]โ
I couldnโt have said it better, after reading and getting to that part I immediately thought he literally broke up with you so he can go explore and his depression was his guilt trip.. and when things with the other women fizzled out of the honeymoon stage and things didnโt work out he came back running to you since he realized he fucked up. I will bet a vital organ that this is exactly what happened.
Dump him.
You're an adult. You are being abused.
Carry out what you said. Leave for a while.
Also, go nc with your brother.
You wanted to be single with a husband who stayed monogamous with you. You are now going to be single with an ex who is monogamous with someone else.
You asked for it. Deal.
When people lose a loved one, they may not think straight and make decisions they wouldnโt normally make.
Give it some time and respect her boundaries.
It would be tough seeing her hang out with another friend, but I think right now just give her some space and reconnect after a week or so and just check in then.
Me either. Even if infertile doesnโt equal sterile, the first thing Iโm doing is a paternity test.
A lesson is being learnt the very hot way here.
Imagine you saw a 16 year old girl say this guy she likes keeps pressuring her to drink at large parties when she really isn't into it. Would you be urging her to give him a second chance, or would you tell her to run?
All I can say is: Welcome to Islam!
Then congratulations on “outsourcing” yourself.
Hope the guy you opened it up for was worth it.
You are in the wrong. Why are you entitled to know if your sisters gf was trans or not? You're not. She's a woman who the hell cares if she used to pass as male. That's on you. You're not entitled to someone's sexuality. You're not effected by it so why would you think it's something you should know? Are you sleeping with her gf? No then butt out. You caused this. YOU. Not your parents but YOU.
From woman to woman how do you have the nerves to hurt another woman like that? Literally a big fuck you for doing that to another woman, had this whole ass affair for you to even want him??? So what was the point?? A goldigger since you said he financially helped you??
He was a family friend?? So that must mean his wife personally knew you as well? You're a homewrecker, like ok great you told his wife but this shouldn't even happened in the first place not to mention he's a creepy ass groomer.
I'm sorry I just can't stand women like you who will happily and knowingly have an affair with a married man. Would you like it if you were in the wife's place? Would you love to be cheated on? It's women like you and men like him that drive the wife that was cheated on to depression, their mental health going down all because you couldn't keep your hands off.
No seriously a big fuck you to the both you, it's just sad when another woman will happily hurt another woman. Honestly I hope in future you get cheated on so you know exactly how it feels to be betrayed, you and him deserve the worst to come your way.
You'll get used to it, there's at least one every day. I feel like someone is trying to use really bad AI to write posts for this sub or some weird creative writing exercise
We were friends before she became mentally ill. I'm not going to give up on her like everyone else in her life.
I donโt know, Iโm assuming 17+, hopefully 18 because this whole situation goes from fucking awful to catastrophic for all parties involved. Like I said, I didnโt ask a lot of questions. I donโt even know if it happened while we were together – 21+
I was just focused on trying to be a good partner at the time and consoling my crying wife.
Spot on comments about staying to avoid commute costs and then leave and ghost. However, thereโs one very critical comment missing: GET TESTED FOR STIs IMMEDIATELY.
Lol not his responsibility. What would be fair and kind would be for the girlfriend to be happy for her boyfriend getting an awesome job and moving forward. This is a college resident advisor job. This isn't a career. Again, ITS NOT HIS MONEY.
“Yeah, hey mom and dad. I'm going to need you to give my girlfriend that $10,000 you are saving on my tuition for the job I landed. I mean, it's totally your responsibility to pay her for something I've done!”
GTFO with that dumbassery.
I think you might have misread them (I know I did) to quote her: “Iโve decided to not meet up with him anyway”
Watch Adam ruins everything on pregnancy they really stress how possible it is to have kids later.
It should be something you include in your life plans, because knowing helps you plan better but there is no sharp cut off or limit and you won't know until you try.
(Also fertility treatments are great now)
I see this so often too. I wonder what it is that conditions women (because I mostly see women do this) to not see the red flags. As you say they start talking about how great their partner is and then describe a monster in the rest of the post.
I gave my number to another guy literally one hour before I met my future husband. I went on dates with other men while we were โjust talking.โ Iโve had men ask my number, beg me for a date, buy me gifts and flowers and the entire time they are dating someone else or doing the same thing to another woman. Nothing before matters. Itโs how he treats her on the date and relationship.
She did, but she initially told them earlier in the morning when I just had a small purple lump over my eye and not a huge ugly mass that covered the whole thing. We also got majorly caught in with the whole doctor fiasco before dinner that we never gave them an additional heads up. It's kind of tough to not be embarrassed though; I'm getting stares everywhere I go.
Ice cold, man.
Two year barrier before sexual relations.
She could have started the whole situation. Are you planning to be still friends with her?
Well he is dumb. Common law marriage exists. Like others a prenuptial agreement is a good idea.