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She's either trying to protect your feelings, worried how you'll react if you know the truth, or trying to get away with less blame than she deserves by not admitting that she was physically unfaithful.
But regardless, if she's willing to do that live!, and then they spent time alone together, 100% they physically cheated and she's just not telling you.
Yeah, she gets mad if I don’t talk to her. I can’t even hangout with anyone without her getting in a “mood” she does what she wants. And I don’t expect her to talk to me all the time. The reason I said what I said above was because after she got what she wanted was the money that’s when she quit talking to me. She has done MANY sketchy things as in reaching out to a guy on tinder that was still on her instagram because she was bored and she lied telling me that was her friend which they were never friends even he asked her why she reached out to him. But I had to forgive her for that. She doesn’t do anything with me and when we are together she’s just always on her phone. I didn’t bring the trauma into this marriage from my past, but she has said and done things that’s brought those past behaviors that I learned from that traumatic past back.
About the food, definitely no abuse. I agree with others here that you need to get at least 50 $ worth of shelf stable groceries from one source or another. Yes it’s embarrassing for you, but hopefully it’s a one time thing until you get the refund.
This is a toughie. Maybe there’s something in there where you’re projecting romance and excitement without real stability? Hard to say without more info about who you are, but there might be a mismatch in there somewhere that’s messing up the ability of these women to see a real future with you and want to work with you to get there. I would venture to say though that it could be the type of girl you’re picking up. Where do you meet them generally? Are they generally around your age or younger?
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Sounds like a mental health issue. I talk to myself as well. Full on conversations and didn't realize I was doing it until I saw myself on a playback on my security cameras. I have CPTSD, but talking to yourself us pretty common across many mental health diagnosis
I'm not repulsed by monogamy lol I'm monogamous/demisexual. I'm repulsed by you thinking you get to 1. make the rules for everyone based on your own preferences, and 2. degrade other, for a self-righteous and self-centered, opinion.
It is not in his best interest to be friends with you and it is not in your best interest to be friends with him. You need to figure out how to let this go.
He raped you for his own enjoyment and played the victim afterwards to get you to stay. Look, if he was a normal guy and really horny, asking a few times when you were sick. Maybe a dick move, probably ignorant. But whatever at least he's asking and he will respect your answer. Your boyfriend wasn't asking, he was telling you. He would have preferred you say yes but clearly it wasn't a requirement.
Leave him, please. Block him on everything. Don't let him get his toxic words in.
Tell him you're sorry about his situation, but the damage he caused is real and lasting, and you're happier without him. He gets your sympathy, but he doesn't get a do over. He doesn't get a free pass.
It’s not just something to fill a void. I’m quite content with my life as it is and I think a baby would amplify that, not saying that it won’t be tremendously difficult also. I think we could provide a loving stable and happy home for a child which is something I’d love to be able to do.
Hah that’s what it is. I do dread socializing with him and I feel terribly about it. I know I want to be with someone who is proud to have me at their side at events, but I get really nervous he’s going to offend someone by saying something a bit callous. Something I will keep in mind, thank you for you input.
Saving yourself for marriage may have been a turn off– also you're a Christian and you feel like mentioning it for what purpose? I don't care what religion anyone is unless they don't shut up about it.
Yeah from day one when he asked me to be his girlfriend right away was a red flag I think and the second date when he got mad I was wearing a crop top tank top before bed and my brother in law unexpectedly came over to get something he told me he has connections for better more modest women. Yet he chats with porn girls live! every day and has tons of girls send him nudes
I am just curious here. A lot of people says she needs to divorce him and run away.
Divorce is expensive, how would it make her situation better? She has a low income salary, struggle to keep herself a float. He has nothing, i guess no savings the way she made me think about it.
He made a stupid mistake, maybe his old job had him stressed and he hated his boss. He made a very poor call, he burned his bridges and now he got burned while doing it. No one here disagrees on that.
I just feel that he might need some support, hopefully someone can get through to him and help him understand that he made a stupid mistake.
He has to own up to this mistake and learn from it. Maybe he has some serious mental issues.
To immediately just divorce him for being this stupid, not the best move.
If he does not want to work on himself and try to improve his mental capacity and he does not realise he made a stupid mistake, sure, cut him lose before he sinks your ship too.
His profile gave both long and short term as his options but if he’s not talking about who you are or what your status is then he’s not seeing you as anything other than casual.
Okay let’s say she really does have 6 years to online. I personally would not want to waste my last 6 years in this world on this loser, would you?
I call bullshit – tell her, block him and move on.
It’s a horrible situation to be put into, and it’s not your responsibilty to feel guilty about his actions. Send him “decisions, meet consequences” and block him.
If I ask a question I want to know the answer to the question lol. If you say yeah haha just kidding that’s different lol. I don’t understand the disconnect here
The best course of action is to let him be and move on with your life. The guy has cheated on you. TWICE. He’s not going to change, and you’re just going to continue to get hurt by him and his actions. You deserve better.
She's either trying to protect your feelings, worried how you'll react if you know the truth, or trying to get away with less blame than she deserves by not admitting that she was physically unfaithful.
But regardless, if she's willing to do that live!, and then they spent time alone together, 100% they physically cheated and she's just not telling you.
Yeah, she gets mad if I don’t talk to her. I can’t even hangout with anyone without her getting in a “mood” she does what she wants. And I don’t expect her to talk to me all the time. The reason I said what I said above was because after she got what she wanted was the money that’s when she quit talking to me. She has done MANY sketchy things as in reaching out to a guy on tinder that was still on her instagram because she was bored and she lied telling me that was her friend which they were never friends even he asked her why she reached out to him. But I had to forgive her for that. She doesn’t do anything with me and when we are together she’s just always on her phone. I didn’t bring the trauma into this marriage from my past, but she has said and done things that’s brought those past behaviors that I learned from that traumatic past back.
About the food, definitely no abuse. I agree with others here that you need to get at least 50 $ worth of shelf stable groceries from one source or another. Yes it’s embarrassing for you, but hopefully it’s a one time thing until you get the refund.
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This is a toughie. Maybe there’s something in there where you’re projecting romance and excitement without real stability? Hard to say without more info about who you are, but there might be a mismatch in there somewhere that’s messing up the ability of these women to see a real future with you and want to work with you to get there. I would venture to say though that it could be the type of girl you’re picking up. Where do you meet them generally? Are they generally around your age or younger?
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Sounds like a mental health issue. I talk to myself as well. Full on conversations and didn't realize I was doing it until I saw myself on a playback on my security cameras. I have CPTSD, but talking to yourself us pretty common across many mental health diagnosis
I'm not repulsed by monogamy lol I'm monogamous/demisexual. I'm repulsed by you thinking you get to 1. make the rules for everyone based on your own preferences, and 2. degrade other, for a self-righteous and self-centered, opinion.
Reap what you soe
It is not in his best interest to be friends with you and it is not in your best interest to be friends with him. You need to figure out how to let this go.
He raped you for his own enjoyment and played the victim afterwards to get you to stay. Look, if he was a normal guy and really horny, asking a few times when you were sick. Maybe a dick move, probably ignorant. But whatever at least he's asking and he will respect your answer. Your boyfriend wasn't asking, he was telling you. He would have preferred you say yes but clearly it wasn't a requirement.
Leave him, please. Block him on everything. Don't let him get his toxic words in.
Tell him you're sorry about his situation, but the damage he caused is real and lasting, and you're happier without him. He gets your sympathy, but he doesn't get a do over. He doesn't get a free pass.
It’s not just something to fill a void. I’m quite content with my life as it is and I think a baby would amplify that, not saying that it won’t be tremendously difficult also. I think we could provide a loving stable and happy home for a child which is something I’d love to be able to do.
Hah that’s what it is. I do dread socializing with him and I feel terribly about it. I know I want to be with someone who is proud to have me at their side at events, but I get really nervous he’s going to offend someone by saying something a bit callous. Something I will keep in mind, thank you for you input.
You've posted this multiple times over the past couple of days, so what kind of advice are you looking to get that you didn't get already?
Saving yourself for marriage may have been a turn off– also you're a Christian and you feel like mentioning it for what purpose? I don't care what religion anyone is unless they don't shut up about it.
Lmao this made me laugh
You’ve been with her for 11 months and have been almost fully supporting her for 9?!?!?
My friend. You’re being taken for a bit of a ride.
Yeah from day one when he asked me to be his girlfriend right away was a red flag I think and the second date when he got mad I was wearing a crop top tank top before bed and my brother in law unexpectedly came over to get something he told me he has connections for better more modest women. Yet he chats with porn girls live! every day and has tons of girls send him nudes
Info: does said girlfriend have a job or at you fully paying for everything so she can be a stay at home mom?
Well, he does bathe for me, is sweet and tells me everyday that he loves me and he's so happy to have me.
There's way more than this. Also, we just talked and he'll shower more from now on! 😀
You're really the only person to make a decision here.
People having different political/religious viewpoints is a part of life. It's up to you to decide whether its a deal breaker.
His faith and politics are deeply personal things. And you don't really have a right to try to force yours on him.
I am just curious here. A lot of people says she needs to divorce him and run away.
Divorce is expensive, how would it make her situation better? She has a low income salary, struggle to keep herself a float. He has nothing, i guess no savings the way she made me think about it.
He made a stupid mistake, maybe his old job had him stressed and he hated his boss. He made a very poor call, he burned his bridges and now he got burned while doing it. No one here disagrees on that.
I just feel that he might need some support, hopefully someone can get through to him and help him understand that he made a stupid mistake.
He has to own up to this mistake and learn from it. Maybe he has some serious mental issues.
To immediately just divorce him for being this stupid, not the best move.
If he does not want to work on himself and try to improve his mental capacity and he does not realise he made a stupid mistake, sure, cut him lose before he sinks your ship too.
If you are the reason he wants to kill himself, you should not be around him.
Would the possibility of it not working make trying a waste of your time?
Move on.
His profile gave both long and short term as his options but if he’s not talking about who you are or what your status is then he’s not seeing you as anything other than casual.
Oh, this is the troll that supposedly married his daughter's highschool friend?
Okay let’s say she really does have 6 years to online. I personally would not want to waste my last 6 years in this world on this loser, would you?
I call bullshit – tell her, block him and move on.
It’s a horrible situation to be put into, and it’s not your responsibilty to feel guilty about his actions. Send him “decisions, meet consequences” and block him.
Those are red flags for sure. You definitely need to have a very hot conversation about the debt and parents moving in and go from there.
If I ask a question I want to know the answer to the question lol. If you say yeah haha just kidding that’s different lol. I don’t understand the disconnect here
For now.
The best course of action is to let him be and move on with your life. The guy has cheated on you. TWICE. He’s not going to change, and you’re just going to continue to get hurt by him and his actions. You deserve better.