32 thoughts on “???? ????? ♥ ?????????? ????? the nude live! sex chat with hottest babes with a Live HD”
I don't think you should tell him you told what he was entitled to know which was how many partners you had and even that isn't really needed unless it was a big number and you think your current partner might not appreciate being with someone who had that many previous relationship The only thing I thing you should tell him is what you won't be doing with him sexually as you didn't like it maybe you could try with him to see if you could like it with him but if you're not welling then that should be the end of it However don't tell you don't want to experience with him and be adventurous like you did with the other in that case just leave because you'll be hurting him You should be with someone you're comfortable and desire adventure with obviously except for thing you're not comfortable with
The easiest way out of a lie is to tell a little bit of the truth. Not the whole truth, just a enough to be plausible, and then you can deny the rest. It's framed as a reveal 'ok, here's what I've been hiding from you' and that's true! They were hiding it from you. You feel like you've gotten what you were digging for, they seem repentant, and everyone feels better because it's not as bad as it seems.
Okay that “source” bit is generalizing af. Obviously OP’s boyfriend has a problematic / invasive mother but there is absolutely zero detail in the original post indicating she would treat OP like this. Each family is different. Each Mexican family is different. Not all Mexican mothers act the same. I can’t believe I had to type this.
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
I dont know about you but asking to tweak my meal when I am paying top dollar for it does not seem unreasonable. I don't care what rich people norms are, I want it that way and I better get it. Otherwise, I am leaving to eat at the places I used to and leave nice tips.
No, she doesn't have any personality disorder or any history of one. She has just had problems with depression, anxiety, suicide and the like before. However, the second paragraph of abandonment fear sounds exactly like her.
He's 46. Did you do a blowout for him on his 40th? If so, did he enjoy it? Was it worth it?
I mean, you should do whatever makes you happy, but it may just be that he's gotten to the point in life where birthdays are just “meh” and he can't find the personal energy. You, yourself, said that you didn't have the energy to do anything much for yourself.
You’re not respecting her decision right now tho. Her body, her choice. You act like your choice to have an abortion somehow sets the tone for this persons life? She doesn’t have to abort a baby because you or anyone else says to. Don’t be glib.
7 years ago, A girl said I love you to me, while we were having sex. We met each other two weeks prior. I married her last year. I Rationalize a lot of things in life. I don't rationalize love.
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.
I don't want to type out the entire incident, but my best friend (21M) of six years raped me a few weeks ago. It was a complete shock to me, I was saying “No” and “Stop” over and over, and physically trying to get him off of me for a solid half hour before I gave up. I was bleeding afterwards, and he left bruises on my legs and chest, which I did take pictures of, if I choose to report him in the future, but also as a harsh reminder to myself that he is not the person I thought he was. I've been feeling different and kind of “empty” since it happened, having difficulty focusing on simple tasks, not feeling present, sleeping on my floor, crying out of nowhere… I've just been feeling terrible, I feel betrayed. I have also been in denial, it's just so hard to wrap my head around this, and I still can't believe it sometimes, but I recently started to reach out to a few close friends, my brother, and my therapist to help me start to manoeuvre through all of this.
Unfortunately, if something this impactful were to happen to me before, my “friend” would have been the first person I turned to, and if not him, it would be my mom. My mom and I have an incredibly strong and close bond, I am very open with her about any difficulties I face, and vice versa. I'm having an insanely very hot time trying to bring this up to her, but her mom instincts have clearly kicked in, as she keeps texting me and asking me if everything is okay and if I am alright. I on-line in my own apartment, but I came back home earlier this week, wanting to feel safe and hoping to talk to her about it. I want to speak to her so badly about this, but it's just a very vulnerable and embarrassing thing to bring up. I don't want to tell her that someone I've spent so much of my life with, someone she adored, did this to me, that would just make this all so much more real. I do not want to see her upset or angry. I've been debating writing out a note for her instead, because I know it'll be really nude to say it all out loud, but I just don't know what I should even say.
I guess I'm just hoping for some support or some advice on how to go about talking to her about this, I know it will not be a pleasant conversation, but I also know she will only want to help me. I just don't know what to do, but this whole situation has already made me feel so isolated, I don't want to keep feeling so miserable and alone with this.
Everyone is already informed of the trip. It’s just a matter that OP is trying to plan a potluck and have more organization. Which there’s nothing wrong with, but it’s her boyfriends birthday, not hers. If he wants a laid back birthday, then let him have a laidback birthday.
Have some self respect for the love of god. Abuse is a cycle and you’re walking right into it. Your fiancé doesn’t care about your wishes or comfort level, he cares about his needs and wants and now his ability to control and manipulate you by forcing you around your abusive father.
I don't think you should tell him you told what he was entitled to know which was how many partners you had and even that isn't really needed unless it was a big number and you think your current partner might not appreciate being with someone who had that many previous relationship The only thing I thing you should tell him is what you won't be doing with him sexually as you didn't like it maybe you could try with him to see if you could like it with him but if you're not welling then that should be the end of it However don't tell you don't want to experience with him and be adventurous like you did with the other in that case just leave because you'll be hurting him You should be with someone you're comfortable and desire adventure with obviously except for thing you're not comfortable with
Ysah pretty much my first thought.
Shes fully xhecked out and spending her time elsewhere. It definitely isnt him.
The easiest way out of a lie is to tell a little bit of the truth. Not the whole truth, just a enough to be plausible, and then you can deny the rest. It's framed as a reveal 'ok, here's what I've been hiding from you' and that's true! They were hiding it from you. You feel like you've gotten what you were digging for, they seem repentant, and everyone feels better because it's not as bad as it seems.
But the truth is rarely that simple.
You do have agency, to end this thing you've both dragged on and on despite being incompatible the whole time. Knowingly.
Oh dear, you can’t think of something a smidge more romantic?
Okay that “source” bit is generalizing af. Obviously OP’s boyfriend has a problematic / invasive mother but there is absolutely zero detail in the original post indicating she would treat OP like this. Each family is different. Each Mexican family is different. Not all Mexican mothers act the same. I can’t believe I had to type this.
Hello /u/Dangerous-Novel6826,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Hello /u/MeaningConscious3429,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Did the new wife know he was married? If so I would never be able to accept her let alone be friendly. She’s for the streets.
what about marriage vows?
I have two daughters, one married. In absolutely NO reality would I ever wear their SO's shirts to bed.
Something is going on.
Thats….not an accident. That's the equivalent of touching a red naked stove and being shocked that it's naked. I mean, what exactly did you expect?
It's 430 in the morning and that's already enough reddit for me.
I would go with YES, because she thought he gave her the ok. ?♀️
I dont know about you but asking to tweak my meal when I am paying top dollar for it does not seem unreasonable. I don't care what rich people norms are, I want it that way and I better get it. Otherwise, I am leaving to eat at the places I used to and leave nice tips.
No, she doesn't have any personality disorder or any history of one. She has just had problems with depression, anxiety, suicide and the like before. However, the second paragraph of abandonment fear sounds exactly like her.
He's 46. Did you do a blowout for him on his 40th? If so, did he enjoy it? Was it worth it?
I mean, you should do whatever makes you happy, but it may just be that he's gotten to the point in life where birthdays are just “meh” and he can't find the personal energy. You, yourself, said that you didn't have the energy to do anything much for yourself.
He does not sound like someone you enjoy being around. He’s miserable, and stubbornly so, with little regard for how you are feeling.
You’re not respecting her decision right now tho. Her body, her choice. You act like your choice to have an abortion somehow sets the tone for this persons life? She doesn’t have to abort a baby because you or anyone else says to. Don’t be glib.
He honestly wouldn’t drive you?
7 years ago, A girl said I love you to me, while we were having sex. We met each other two weeks prior. I married her last year. I Rationalize a lot of things in life. I don't rationalize love.
Indeed, if he wants the rights he needs to take them. No need for you to make it easy for him. It could also be he didn't want to be a father anyway.
The explanation is both the Snapchat and bumble accounts are his own.
You also found his profile, don’t be naive
Anything happened during one those time you were out?
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.
I don't want to type out the entire incident, but my best friend (21M) of six years raped me a few weeks ago. It was a complete shock to me, I was saying “No” and “Stop” over and over, and physically trying to get him off of me for a solid half hour before I gave up. I was bleeding afterwards, and he left bruises on my legs and chest, which I did take pictures of, if I choose to report him in the future, but also as a harsh reminder to myself that he is not the person I thought he was. I've been feeling different and kind of “empty” since it happened, having difficulty focusing on simple tasks, not feeling present, sleeping on my floor, crying out of nowhere… I've just been feeling terrible, I feel betrayed. I have also been in denial, it's just so hard to wrap my head around this, and I still can't believe it sometimes, but I recently started to reach out to a few close friends, my brother, and my therapist to help me start to manoeuvre through all of this.
Unfortunately, if something this impactful were to happen to me before, my “friend” would have been the first person I turned to, and if not him, it would be my mom. My mom and I have an incredibly strong and close bond, I am very open with her about any difficulties I face, and vice versa. I'm having an insanely very hot time trying to bring this up to her, but her mom instincts have clearly kicked in, as she keeps texting me and asking me if everything is okay and if I am alright. I on-line in my own apartment, but I came back home earlier this week, wanting to feel safe and hoping to talk to her about it. I want to speak to her so badly about this, but it's just a very vulnerable and embarrassing thing to bring up. I don't want to tell her that someone I've spent so much of my life with, someone she adored, did this to me, that would just make this all so much more real. I do not want to see her upset or angry. I've been debating writing out a note for her instead, because I know it'll be really nude to say it all out loud, but I just don't know what I should even say.
I guess I'm just hoping for some support or some advice on how to go about talking to her about this, I know it will not be a pleasant conversation, but I also know she will only want to help me. I just don't know what to do, but this whole situation has already made me feel so isolated, I don't want to keep feeling so miserable and alone with this.
Take it from an older women,
When all his ex’s are crazy, what the common denominator?
maybe you're not the only guy she's talking to ??♂️
UpdateMe!
Everyone is already informed of the trip. It’s just a matter that OP is trying to plan a potluck and have more organization. Which there’s nothing wrong with, but it’s her boyfriends birthday, not hers. If he wants a laid back birthday, then let him have a laidback birthday.
r/survivinginfidelity might help you there but I know I couldn't trust him again. I would be completely done after finding those texts.
Have some self respect for the love of god. Abuse is a cycle and you’re walking right into it. Your fiancé doesn’t care about your wishes or comfort level, he cares about his needs and wants and now his ability to control and manipulate you by forcing you around your abusive father.
Just online the present and stop caring about the future? That isnt a bad idea i guess