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Date: October 11, 2022
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Maybe you should see a doctor? Any number of medical issues can cause this
why are you even here tho? OP said it was a boundary for them, nobody cares about your personal boundaries baby please
What is wrong with your Gf? It is totally fine she thinks about other people….But she really didn't have to tell you that.
That is a strong deficiency of social awareness and respect. She could easily keep this to herself and all will be fine.
Kind of , but all of this was before I met her, when we met I was already on track to graduate with a job
After reading your comment, he’ll do some research and he’ll have to have a serious conversation with her about this new thing he’s just learned about called cunnilingus.
This^
Update: I found out hes been avoiding me through exposed dms, like texting my friend whenever I'm in his hall to let him know so that he can lock the door to ensure I don't go in. And that when I suggested joining them for the gym, he'll go on his own time or try to make an excuse saying he already went.
You will be fine- if she cares (I doubt it) she is not a good person. It doesn’t matter if your a virgin or had 20 partners, anyone who cares about such are just not the people to be with. You can tell her if you think it’ll help.
You shouldn’t have stuck around for this freaking long if you knew the whole time you were going to leave. Tf?
YaBoiToe has a point here.
It’s not unhealthy to enjoy release or pain as a form of stimulation, physically or psychologically (or both), as long as it’s communicated and experimented with in a way responsible to the needs and safety of all parties involved. Similarly, it’s not unhealthy to enjoy bringing somebody that pleasure or stimulation. Some people like aggressively tossing each other onto the bed, some people like restraint, some people like smoking weed before sex and blindfolds and tickling.
What is unhealthy is to enjoy causing someone distress and pain they don’t want and enjoy— whether it’s in BDSM or in another context.
Unfortunately, that’s the clear concern here. OP doesn’t like or want this and BF is either ignoring those signals or doesn’t care and doesn’t want to do the work required to engage responsibly in BDSM.
Things have gotten far out of hand.
Even if OP is trying to pretend to enjoy things they’re scared and uncomfortable with (which, OP, is not something you should do— people shouldn’t have sex they don’t enjoy to “keep” someone— that’s not what healthy intimacy are about), OP’s partner is looking like a shitbag because it’s also unhealthy to be so poorly attuned to your partner that you are ignoring or (somehow, magically) unaware that your partner is experiencing fear and distress around the prospect of having sex with you.
OP, your partner as a person interested kink has been harmful and irresponsible toward you by diving in without carefully establishing what the things both of you enjoy actually are, and opening healthy communication and preferences and limits along the way. Not to mention prioritizing your preferences period, which you make clear are not for kinky sex.
Whether it’s a result of behaving in a way that’s abusive, or dangerously ignorant, or some mix, it is not okay to rope people into BDSM dynamics without reliable and actual communication throughout any exploring, and clear enthusiasm.
OP, the best case scenario is likely that this person is toxically immature and using motivated reasoning to get what they want. I’d get away from this situation quickly. It may not be the best case scenario.
Again, best case guy is still failing to respect or take care of you.
Even if you’ve truly tried to bottle up all your negative reactions and are ignoring all your own needs and boundaries in an effort to be a people-pleaser, you deserve a partner who will make sure you feel safe and have space to express your real needs, preferences, and boundaries.
This is not what healthy kink or healthy dating is like. A good partner doesn’t drop their likes 5 months in and then decide make your sex life revolve around their needs exclusively. Take care of yourself first.
The people you love and trust are processing the fact that your relationship is over, they are also sort of breaking up with your ex in a way, give them time and stay firm that you will be keeping the baby, they can either have you and their grandchild or in their lives but you and ex won’t be getting back together.
You say you wear baggy clothes and now want to reveal yourself but struggle with body dysmorphia- do you have an eating disorder? Wearing more revealing clothes is typical for women who have anorexia because they are looking for validation on how their bodies look when restricting food.
I know I’m going against the grain here and am going to be downvoted to hell but I think you’re in the wrong here.
You’ve made this about you and Bob, not your friend’s wedding. All you had to do was write something along the lines of “I’m not going to pretend I’m thrilled you’re attending but for the sake of our mutual friend let’s be civil to each other on the day.”
That’s all. No ultimatums about how he should behave towards you.
What if he had written back a response saying “go suck eggs. You’re not my friend, I don’t owe you anything.”? Would you have insisted he be uninvited?
Accepting the role of Man of Honour means making sure the day goes as well as possible for your friend and being civil to people you don’t necessarily like. If you couldn’t do that, you shouldn’t have accepted the role.
Ok folks. Downvote away.
You know what you have to do. Whatever you had with him is gone. The sooner you end things, the sooner you'll become happy again. There is someone out there that will appreciate being with you. Sooner is better than later. Be happy. You deserve better.
Well, hopefully he doesn't reproduce.
3 years is a long time to still be talking about an ex that frequently. Sounds like your fiancé still has resentment and hasn’t fully processed it. He definitely needs some counseling.
HUGE RED FLAG. ALERT,ALERT
OP,
He is holding these things hostage so she has to keep contacting him. I am sure if you found out why the relationship ended, this will tell you the story.
I would seriously think naked about your relationship and if you should continue.
You don't seem to be doing anything wrong.
Be you. Be a good person. Be there if she needs. Be communicative.
If she wants to be hateful? angry? Jealous of your youth? hateful of stuff like piercing's or tattoos? Listen and take her opinion into account if you feel you can…
otherwise? Study. Work. Be “greedy” by spending your hot earned money. Tell her “I love you” directly… or indirectly by caring about how she cares for herself.
Eventually? you'll move out and if she doesn't like you? you don't have to force a relationship.
My door is always open for family but I won't force them to take it if they are too busy. Or don't like me – and many don't. I'm loud, obnoxious and all that fun stuff. I am who I am and I'll adjust for family within reason but beyond that? accept me or don't.
Your mom will either not accept you… or she'll eventually realize she's wrong when you've moved out and moved on.
yup! I second it
nothing beats the continuous TLC
Did it to me also, the fucking weirdo.
No, what you said was that she should let Mr Noncommittal get her pregnant for the sake of having a baby before her biological clock runs out.
This is such a non-issue I'd be more embarrassed making a post about it than offended my partner counted the money.
Wait a minute, please try to have a more positive outlook!
Have you made a profile on a dating app or two or three? Also you are allowed to reach out to others. You can comment on something in their profile to break the ice, you could try flirting with some, try to make connections. Even if they don’t end up in a date, maybe you ll make new friends, or learn some things. Or you can just practice being open. Or practice being flirty.
If you don’t want to date maybe take a class to learn a new hobby like painting, stained glass, mushroom picking, etc.
Find groups to participate in like hiking, biking, gardening, UFO hunting, cooking, sewing, geocaching, so so much more.
There is a whole world out there that can occupy you, teach you, thrill you so that you are not wasting your life playing stupid games with some boy.
Get out there and ON-LINE 🙂
True, but your BS about aluminum in deodorant has zero basis in fact. The fact that you think you “know a lot about medical stuff” and lord it over her is not a good look for you.