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Date: October 16, 2022
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100 rejections don't matter you only need the right one to say yes. That happens at different times and places for all of us. You sound young don't be desperate you have the luxury of time.
Why do you feel the need to be engaged? Why not wait til youโve been together a few years
Did yโall ever have that talk within the 3 years yโall have been together? Thatโs one of the first questions I ask when talking with a potential partner.
Weโve been together for 3 years
but this ends in an argument in which the two sides are: me saying “im expressing a boundary so if you cared about how I felt maybe we could change something here”, and him saying “we're adults, neither of us should control the other and you need to be okay with anything I do and give me full trust until I give you reason NOT to, which I'll never do”
The problem here is that you aren't setting a boundary and properly explaining it to him. You're talking about preferences and not being firm about it.
Boundaries are rules you put on yourself, not rules you put on others. Your boundary here should be something like _you won't tolerate him being flirty or hanging out with flings or exes one on one.
I think your first and second examples are something you can set a reasonable boundary against. The third not so much.
It goes without saying that everything he did was wrong. have you or him ever considered if he has depression? In my personal experience, a gaming addiction is often times an indicator. Not that it justifies his actions, just to consider. He has to want to change, and recognising things is necessary to do so. With the way he's treated you, you don't really owe it to him to stick around though.
However, what you did would personally be something i would only do if i was certain i was burning all bridges and hated the person, and idk how people are trying to justify it. Using extremely personal trauma shared in vulnerability as an insult is one of the most emotionally abusive things a partner can do, and in my eyes it's one of those lines where there's no justification for crossing, just like physical abuse.
If you want to leave, you've set yourself up perfectly and there's no better time. If you want to work things out, it's become a lot harder, and for things to progress he has to be as committed as you. I know it can be frustrating, but if he isn't committed to improvement the same way you are, you're better off leaving for your own sanity.
This is one of the saddest stories Iโve read here. Neither of you did anything wrong but you still suffered an unfortunate incident that is coming between you. You need time, for sure. I fully understand your feelings.
Itโs so weird to me. Iโm gay, I canโt imagine being in a relationship where I wasnโt allowed to hang out one on one with any of my female friends.
Omg stfu. Stop calling everyone a predator. 22 isnโt that young and 30 isnโt that old.
To me, that wasnโt okay for her to say to you. My boyfriend wanted to buzz his hair and i didnโt think i would like it, but i didnโt tell him that. I supported him and was actually the one who buzzed it for him. Turns out i was wrong about not liking it tho – i actually think he looks hotter.
How you get them is how you lose them.
Cheaters that get together usually end up cheating on each other.
Cheaters are the cause of trust issues right behind not trusting the government. And they spread coodies.
This is just part of being an adult in a relationship. If she wants to stay in Minnesota and not leave because her family is there and you don't want to live in Minnesota ever again, then you two have fundamentally incompatible life goals. Sometimes two people are good together but want different things. When that happens, it's best not to keep investing time, energy and emotion that could be better spent moving on from the relationship and finding someone who wants what you do.
As for the money, double check how cost of living in the Arizona city/town you'd move to compares to where you currently are. It may be that you'd truly have an extra $15k minus taxes, but it may be that you'd be spending more on COL. You may not care if you functionally have the same amount since you'd like the climate better, but make sure you're informed about the decision.
So what was her excuse for wanting to go home with another guy?
This may be a past experience but this person is still an important person in your life today. Plus, sounds like you were in a relationship with them but you were not honest with your current fiancรฉ about it.
All that going on and you STILL married him?
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Sounds like he has social anxiety or something. People like that get into live! relationships to try to fill the void of not having anybody.
The other 2 likely answers are:
Hes married or has a GF
It's a catfish pretending to be somebody else
I cannot say this loudly enough – do not prioritize this or any other romantic relationship over your education. If you have the opportunity to secure your future independence do not compromise that, it's the single most important thing you can do.
This has nothing to do with trust, and everything to do with respect.
No he's the oldest son. We have a lease for a year though ?.
Is she a good mom? She's bringing strange dudes in the house with their son at home.
Contact a family lawyer wherever you on-line and divorce his ass. Take
Yeah I was gonna say introducing a significant other to your kid at three months is pretty fast
No it's just who she is. Don't act like women do and just ignkr the clear red flags only to blame her when it all doesn't work out.
She didn't want you to meet her friends actually should be enough for you to want to break up