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Date: October 22, 2022
i’m not trying to be controlling at all which is why i came on here before i even say anything to him . i’m honestly laughing about it now ?? he’s snoring and everything
Jfc. The way they were treating you seemed criminal, or extremely close to it.
If anyone is in such a situation, call the adult abuse hotline for your state (us). They can help get you out and charge those responsible.
Think about this living human being you claim to want before your desire to have a baby. Raising a human with a father like that is a disservice to them. Yes you’re craving a baby but they’re people and don’t deserve to grow up in bad environments with unstable parents z
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Just divorce her and let her marry her new boyfriend
He was literally with (who he thought was) a friend. He assumed he was safe. Also, some people don’t really think about it too much if they’re drunk
Your boyfriend sounds super homophobic. Definitely have a serious conversation about this ASAP and make it clear that if he cannot change his bigoted views it will mean the end of your relationship.
attentive to my emotions
Either you’re an absolute liar, a troll, or are have a critical inability to be honest with yourself.
A few days ago, you said he refuses to pick you up, and it’s come to a point where it’s affecting how you feel about him. Does that sound attentive?
He took photos of you, while intoxicated, without your consent. Does that sound attentive?
Look, if you’re a troll, fuck off. If you’re a liar, then you have way bigger problems than who to date. If you have a critical inability to be honest with yourself, then you have way bigger problems than who to date.
If your post history is true, then you need to get out of a romantic relationship with this guy and into a professional relationship with a therapist. If your post history is true, you also don’t seem like you should be dating anyone at the moment. If your post history is true, then your response to all of these problems shows a marked level of immaturity for your age, which 100% justifies what your parents are saying about your relationship. Because all of this together is trainwreck level stuff.
So what is it, OP? Are you gonna answer real questions from the comments about the inconsistencies in your story? Because I just looked through your comments and you seem to be actively avoiding anyone questioning inconsistencies in your story. So here is your chance, this is an opportunity for you to address these questions that everybody is asking you. Or are you a troll? Or, even more pathetic, are you just making shit up for attention? Which one is it, OP?
He didn't really threaten me. He says it jokingly. It unsettled me, but maybe I'm taking it too seriously?
Not working makes it a bit harder to meet random people. What kind of disability do you have? Are you able to serve coffee, then maybe you can volunteer at a local ymca, or senior citizens centre? Can you commute, then you could volunteer at the local library to read to children? I don't know what you are able to do, but I would look at an activity that let's you be around people to help with the loneliness
Yeah….her reaction is oddly understated
Look, they already have discussed having sex together behind your back…most likely several times. And only THEN your bf talked to you.
This is a NO-GO.
I just don't want to give it out
They're going to have sex if you agree to it or not.
Typically someone who hears no and then drafts someone onto their side to coordinate trying to coerce you into agreeing isn’t ever going to take “no” for an answer.
Self improvement is work. It sucks. It’s going to be hard. But if you don’t do it it’s going to make things worse.
I see it so much. So many people say not to reveal too much on a first date. You should. Those first few dates should be figuring out if you're compatible. And there are VERY HOT no's for relationships. Thus is your very hot no. I suspect you want marriage and kids too. Just a hunch. Let this relationship go. Find someone who wants all the things you want.
Not to discredit what you're saying, because the sentiment is nice, but you did say you like natural women but you are dating someone who gets regular fillers. If she's getting them that often then they are probably very noticeable. So it seems you do like alerted women as long as you don't know about the alterations.
You’re complaining that men don’t have a choice- he did, he chose wrong. ?♀️
Fully agreed. And I’m not sure if it’s some sort of breakdown but I’ll try to talk to him from that perspective and see if he’s willing to consider it. Don’t know if he’d even be able to know if he was having a breakdown though. I personally am aware when I’m cracking apart under stress (like right now! Lol) but I’ve never done anything on THIS level. Crying in front of my thesis advisor is the worst I’ve done lol
Look, you’re an awful person. Period. You don’t love your gf. You love her taking care of you. But that’s not her job. Her job isn’t to make your home. She goes to school whether you respect that or not. She contributes more both financially and in terms of chores. You are literally useless. You make the bed now and fold some blankets at night? Bruh, your 40 hour a week deal job doesn’t excuse anything. It’s not gold digger vibes to not want to be used. Which is exactly what you’re doing. You’re using her. Grow up. Your gf deserves a lot better than you. So either be her match or let her go find someone who is willing to be a mature adult.
Why tf did you marry him? I think you should divorce him and then think very nude about why you destroy yourself.
You seem pretty reasonable. You understand that she’s going to be busy before and during the wedding, that people can invite who they want how they want, and you know that these are your feelings to work through. So you’re ahead of the game for this sub already! LOL
Your feelings are yours to have, they’re not right or wrong, they just are.
Go to the reception. Have a blast with your girlfriend! Weddings are pretty meh. The reception is the fun part. And they may have chosen a venue or had a budget where they had to keep the guest list down. It’s very hot to do when you have a ton of family or family friends. Planning a wedding is a goddamned nightmare in my mind—someone is always hurt or has an opinion and it’s just….exhausting. And some people don’t want a ton of people at the wedding itself due to stage fright if you will. It’s become more and more common to have a smaller group at the ceremony and invite more to the reception.
I dunno. I don’t think there’s really anything for you to say/discuss here. I can appreciate that you feel slighted but there’s really no fix. You can’t ask your GF to ask the bride to add you to the guest list. You’re not going to ask her to skip it to make a point. So make the best of it and go enjoy the reception with her.
She with held information from you which made it so you had no chance to make a decision for yourself about whether or not that was a deal-breaker for you. She knew exactly what she was doing. It's not fair for her to call you judgemental. Everyone has their own boundaries but she took your decision away from you. Not everyone is OK with being with an ex porn actor or actress. Everyone is entitled to their own boundaries, they don't necessarily have to make sense to others.
Also know that for her this is a long ways in the past. For you it's like it just happened. So it's all brand new to you and you need time to digest. The lying by omission is the real problem here. Everyone has a past but that doesn't mean we all have to be ok with whatever past that is. I will never be with anyone that is an active or recovering addict. I lived through that and will never do that again. Doesn't mean recovering addicts don't deserve love it just won't be from me.
Your wife is trying to minimize what happened here but she knew exactly what she was doing and chose to not share this. What else has she hidden from you?
Don't make any rash decisions. Take the time to sit with and work through your emotions. There is no right or wrong action here. You're totally not wrong if you decide you want a divorce because if you cannot 100% accept her past it will always be on your mind. Or you may find with time that you can. But give yourself a break and take the time to deal with this because this is like it jsut happened for you no matter how long ago it was for her
Divorce, STD test and DNA test for your kids
Get rid of him. Get some therapy for yourself so you can understand better why you think this is all you are worth.
He is within his rights to find you less physically attractive if you modify your appearance. And he is within his rights to feel hurt if you make a change that he's repeatedly told you goes against his sense of aesthetics. I'd be hurt if my partner got a bunch of subdermal implants on their face despite me repeatedly telling them how repulsive I find them – it would make me feel like they cared little about my opinions, and didn't care about how much I desire them.
What I don't find acceptable is his being “angry” about it. Anger is a very ugly emotion that should only be directed at your partner in the most dire situations… if ever.
And in today's culture, a tattoo seems like such a small thing to expend so much emotional energy on.
I guess the only advice I'd give is to have a deeper conversation about it. See if you can better explain to him why it's so important to you. Listen to his reasons and how this tattoo would make him feel. Then, weigh your priorities. And do a cost/benefit analysis.
Sounds like OP has had the photos for a while now but that's a good point.
He likely was never a danger. Something extreme happened with the fiancé for the friend to cut contact like this. It’s super suspect that the fiancé isn’t saying what happened.
In the moment of heat, his peepee fell into his hoohoo.
It absolutely is. I heard a story exactly like this one. He had spent years trying to train himself to be the guy she wanted and she had actually turned him down several times before
He's got zero reason to lie.
People don't need reasons to lie, but there's a several reasons why he would.
Ex-Friend and OP didn't part on the best terms. EF could be lying for payback for perceived slights.
Some people just like to watch the world burn. OP's description of his ex-friend comments put him in that class. This wasn't a sorry we screwed up response.
EF could want a go at OP's wife. Assuming she's been faithful getting her divorced makes that more likely than if he tells him nothing happened.
As you mentioned EF could have lied to avoid repercussions.
The job thing, since the wife tried to use the “think he might” work there it would appear that they are not in direct contact at work and that the employer is rather large. Most large employers only restrict relationships between subordinates and those above them in the chain of command.
I don’t count like that ? reddit made me mention it in months, I mentioned 5+ years in context
Not really because I know and talk to his boyfriend and his girlfriend is my girlfriend as well and neither have heard from him?