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Date: October 29, 2022
Seems like a fine first date. The thing is, sometimes someone just isn't feeling it. You can't always predict that.
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I’m actually not ashamed of anything. It’s a thing called life and asking for help/advice. Calling names is so childish when you could have just passed this up if you had no advice to give or nothing nice to say. Unless you were in my shoes you would understand. But be careful because karma doesn’t miss.
People break rules all the time. I think most people's issue with ENM is that a lot of them at worst sound like cult members and at best sound like used car salesman. If you come at me like you're trying to sell me religion or drink the special kool-aid then I'll probably ignore you no matter the subject material.
You clearly have very mismatched sexual desires, it's best to end it. About 25% of men are low libido, your best bet is to try and fund one of them.
I’ve been on both sides of this and it sounds like he’s overloaded with the rest of the stuff on his plate and the small stuff takes him over the edge. He is also young. But he MUST see for himself that he needs to balance things better and take care of his mental health and learn to not react to these things in such a big way. You can’t make him realize it, you can talk to him but at the end of the day this is personal growth he can only accomplish once he realizes he needs to.
And it’s not your responsibility to stay with him through this. I know you feel strongly about him but don’t stick around past what you can handle. Talk to him calmly and directly about this but there’s only so much you can do.
Question does she bathe daily or go a few days without bathing, how clean is her car, does she run late for things often, are her bills paid on time ?
IMO it's manipulative that she is leveraging her 'change' on the outcome you propose to her first.
Think about it, she's not changing now. The goalpost (i.e. proposal) has been moved, a couple times now? Which isn't a bad thing imo given what's happening.
She knows she has to make progress for you to feel more comfortable about proposing. She's not done this. In fact she threw it all out the window and is refusing to budge.
The things she says to you, fuck you, I hate you, the manipulation that she claims you string her along, is in line with what emotional abuse looks like.
In her mind, you have to prove yourself to her by proposing, but she has zero interest in proving herself to you by doing any of the work.
Here's what will happen if you propose. You'll be sunk in further, she still won't change, throw in some spent money towards planning a wedding, another possible whoops pregnancy and you're going to be feeling stuck af which will make it much harder for you to leave.
If she has issues and trauma, that's really difficult and unfortunate however it's her job to work on her issues. It's not right or loving for her to dump on you or treat you like shit.
It's also alarming she seems to control your whereabouts and also doesn't respect your privacy with your phone.
You will continue to give and give, bend over and cave to her insecurities and she will do nothing for you.
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Definitely groomed. I'm glad you've gotten rid of him. I would warn your uncle about him. He's lyrically doing it to other girls.
Why would you have to win your own trust back? She's the one who lied without carrying about how she was hurting you
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I’d honestly rather her scream for 10 minutes than throw a multiple day fit involving her child lmao this lady sucks. Take your hour to nurse your ego if you have too but then put on your adult shoes and apologize for the overreaction. And don’t cause a scene in front of your young kid at all.
It may be all (or most of what) he has. Letting go may lead to a small identity crisis. He seems pretty dug in, like a tick on a hound dog.
Our time together is very all or nothing. It’s either like days or lately weeks in each other’s pockets and then to nothing for a day or two. It’s not stable.
And secondly, yes I have huge issues respecting that. I don’t give the space when he asks and it’s something I need to clearly work on. But I get frustrated and anxious.
And Yes, He is immature in how he communicates 100% when frustrated
It's wild to me how much anything beyond vaginal penetration is judged. And I'm saying this as an asexual person who is sex repulsed.
Anything done between consenting adults is fine. If he likes something she doesn't, I think it's great to want to find a way to make it work.
Watching porn seems to be one if his outlets, it doesn't hurt anyone.
You've been working 2 jobs because your girlfriend can't hold down a job. You've only been together for 4 months and sounds like half of it (2 months) has been the pits.
You, and your relationship, are too young to deal with this. Dump her ass. She needs to fix herself before being in a relationship.
I haven’t looked far enough to see if anyone else is suggesting this but… once you have your ducks in a row regarding this inevitable divorce, if you emotionally feel you can stomach it… consider reaching out to this woman, with absolutely every single bit of the information you have.
Your husband sounds unhinged regarding her and I think she should at least be armed with the knowledge of the full scope of the situation. I don’t want to push dramatic true crime narrative here but you just really never know with men who are behaving this way. Always better safe than sorry.. and tbh, serving him the embarrassment he deserves is a nice bonus.
This will be an ongoing problem and will probably get worse the more secure your GF gets. Once married with kids I bet she will object to having the children spend time with your mom, and ice her out slowly. She just has to wear you down over time. This will be a continuing battle until you give up.
A lot of older people have outdated ideas and beliefs. Rather than argue, I humor them. Some things aren't worth fighting about. Just agree to disagree. Even with their quirks older people are worth spending time with. My mom is gone now, and I miss her terribly. I wish I had spent more time with her. I have no audio or video images. Just photographs. I wish I had recorded some of the stories she used to tell about growing up. You only get one mom, many people have had more than one wife.
Its his choice to cheat and lead the life he is having now..he is still lusting after women… surely not a good grandfather figure for your family…Im just afraid he will share those women details with your boys…
I would suggest not to contact him too much.
Even if you went back the foundation is destroyed just be breaking up a bit later
? you must have never been in a relationship. Reassurance is important. Being mean when I’m litteraly crying is not okay. No matter what.I didn’t invade any of his privacy. And I didn’t plan on it either. In a relationship you should try to hide anything for the sake of “privacy” I wasn’t going to read any messages or open any apps. I could have done a lot worse.
Well, he cheated on his girlfriend with her sister, so that might been a red flag. Also, you didn't have kids, and that's when abusive people drop their mask sometimes, as its much harder to leave. And you're right, she is younger and might not be in a position to leave him as easily as you. Bottom line is: it's not your fault.
Jesus. He did ask you when he received an invitation. You blew it out of proportion in your mind and instead of responding to the question in front of you, you just continued whatever was the story in your head.
You end the relationship.
Yes you broke/betrayed her trust, but she broke/betrayed your trust.
She cheated on you with her crush.
I wouldn’t bother with a discussion, as you are in a LDR just phone her. Tell her that you know she cheated on you emotionally, and planned on cheating physically with him. Tell her that the relationship is over. Then you hang up.
Block her on everything
Take some time to process everything, and then find someone else who hopefully won’t cheat on you.
How the hell is watching porn and indicator for wanting something else? Its just porn. I get the point with messaging other girls with the interest of f* them but porn?!?
I’M NOT THE PROBLEM SHES THE PROBLEM – that’s what I got from the 1st two sentences
Grow up, dude.
You’re gaslighting yourself to get some sympathy from us, when you need to also be empathetic to your girls needs.
You clearly know your problem, is a problem but take offense when your girl calls you out on it.
“He’s my only friend” – this is a problem. It is never healthy to put all of your needs onto a single person. You cannot move on from him if you have no one in your life. You can’t stay friends with him if you can’t move on. You need to expand your connections with humanity.
If you have to ask, they’re a creep.
I read the first thing you said they were doing, and your boss is a creep.
Dude no matter what you do. Just PASS YOUR FINALS! Ace your tests while keeping an eye on her the next two weeks but dont get carried away yet. Handle your Masters requirements and THEN confront/ deal with her, but do you first. Just study and continue your stressed state, without letting her know what's up. And do your best to keep studying while keeping an eye on your wife, then confront her or know it all up after you ace your tests and after you gather some evidence on her. If you try to do this before your finals, you will never take them or you will fail miserably.
Make your (future) self a priority over your (currently) cheating wife.
Could also be as simple as health issue, does OP exercise? Does she get nauseous then as well?
Feeling nauseous when your heart rate goes up could be a sign of a health problem…