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The cheating is one thing. You might be able to learn from that. She could become a valuable resource to you and give you a honest answer to why she dont respect you.
But you wont get to that conversaripn if you dont realize that you arent jealous and thoroughly put your foot down and stop allowing her to tell you that you’re jealous.
Sounds like she is pregnant or her boyfriend broke up with her. Neither is a reason to see her. Though I hope at some point you two can heal this relationship
Except no because since you don't mention poly in a sub where people presume mono and are usually right in doing so, this reads as the affair partner wondering what the best way to destroy the husband's life is.
Yeah, I’m not seeing OCD here or anything like that. She’s got thick dark hair growing on her face and that would be hellish and I also would be plucking them out every night. And she’s trying to get the ones under her skin because you can see them before they come through.
She definitely needs to see a doctor with regards to the hair. Get that problem solved, the root-cause problem, and then worry about armchair mental health diagnosis…..Jeez.
You know how to not get into drama- you don’t get involved- mate she isn’t coming across well on your post honestly. But your feelings are yours no one on Reddit can really tell you what’s what- just make sure you’re taking a good look at the big picture and don’t get lost with love goggles on 🙂
I think you just need some time to recover. FWB does involve being…well friends and not just fuck buddy’s so the movies and cooking on occasion is what makes it a FWB situation instead of a FB one.
Finding out you have an Eskimo sister is always a bit strange, especially the first time it happens. Hormones and bonds stemming from a physical connection are also real so even if you were both happy not to be in a relationship with each other, emotions are going to come up when you hear about these things!
You’d very likely feel similarly when he inevitably came to you saying he met someone he really likes so he wants to cut ties with you to focus on them.
Have a nice self care day. Remind yourself that your complicated feelings are okay and normal. Journal some of that helps. Decide after a few days if you truly wanna stop being FWB with this person. Aside from that I’d continue on with life as usual
he's implying he wants to have sex with you. you don't know him at all, so do not go.
I've given my all and it just hurts cause it's a cycle of mixed signals. My goal at this point is just to have a conversation about this and then no contact. It hurts all the time.
If it has taken you years to accept yourself and move on from this don’t let this guy drag you back down a dark path mentally! A bf of 4 months is not worth throwing away all your progress.
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I’d also be tempted to get his children by his ex tested as well, just so that there’s no doubt.
But on the whole,he doesn’t deserve the time of day & you deserve a gold plated apology. I amazed you still allow him to stay in your house.
Therapy. You need to learn how to exist without being an energy/emotional vampire.
Try friends and family for meeting some of your social needs – spread your need for human contact and socializing around among several dozen different people so that you're not overwhelming a single person by demanding hours of emotional labor daily.
All that said, I'm not understanding why you're in this relationship in the first place. You don't seem to be getting anything you want out of it, and neither of you seem to like you are all that interested in the other.
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My sister is a bit of a serial cheat; every relationship she’s been in she’s cheated.
She’s been in a relationship with a guy for just over a year now, he’s nice and thoughtful and seems the real deal, and I really don’t want my sister to screw this up and for him to get hurt. I’ve told her to tell him about her past but she said that it’s not necessary, it’s the past and she won’t cheat on her current boyfriend.
A couple nights ago I popped round my sister’s, she wasn’t home just yet because she was still at work which is why I went there, because I knew her boyfriend would be there and I wanted a word with him. I asked him if my sister told him about her cheating past and he said no. I then discussed it with him, as a warning.
Later that night when I was back home I got a call from my sister angry that I’d told her boyfriend about her past. I told her he needed to know the type of person he was involved with, and she wasn’t going to say anything to him so I felt I had to; after getting to know him for over a year I felt I owed him that, and he deserved to know.
It hasn’t affected their relationship, he’s still with her, but my sister and parents think I shouldn’t have said anything and that I was interfering and should’ve shown more loyalty and faith in my sister, and telling me I might’ve ended up sabotaging their relationship when my sister is apparently trying to turn over a new leaf.
My sister is now not talking to me. Her boyfriend has messaged me to thank me and ask follow up questions. I haven’t replied because I already feel like I’ve betrayed my sister. I just need some advice on the situation, and if I should reply to his questions.
TL;DR: I told my sister’s boyfriend that she’s cheated on her previous partners and now she’s not talking to me, but her partner has messaged me with more questions and I don’t know if I should reply
Do not go back to him alone. If you are with family now, take someone you trust and only go back to him to pack your things and LEAVE. You shouldn’t have to feel pressured into changing your body, plus at 19 you’re quite possibly not even done developing, not that it should matter either way.
You're not gonna want to hear this, but sliw the hell down!!!
You're two months in. You cannot force trust. It has to have time to grow. The fact that you're impatient about it so soon is not healthy. The fact that you feel obsessively committed to her after so short a time is not healthy. You're latching on naked and it's not healthy.
You think she knows you'd never hurt her, but she doesn't know that after only two months.
In fact, at this point you're pushing her to share stuff when she's not ready anf you're NOT RESPECTING HER BOUNDARIES! In other words, you are currently hurting her. So no, she doesn't know you won't hurt her. Here you are looking for ways to make her feel things she doesn't yet feel. That's not how feelings work.
If you think this level of obsessive commitment on your part is true love, you have a lot to learn yet. You are looking to make her your everything and that is not healthy.
Please seek out friends to talk to. Preferably people who are older than you with more life experience, because you don't sound entirely balanced.
Actually, I don't think you're the only person who can answer this. I think I can answer it. You should go back to Miami.
At this point I’m trying to figure out how imma get her out of my house then. She’s got a kid she fucked her life up drinking and driving
I'd suggest you talk to her and not strangers on-line who have no idea about how you two are together almost 3 years after those texts were sent
Oh man…thanks for sharing
One of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you!
I absolutely understand this point. People’s opinions change based on others people’s opinions. But in this situation, it feels different. He’s my first boyfriend, he’s such a sensitive, kind and gentle human. My mom knows him and know his positive qualities, which I also talk to her about. She genuinely thinks very positively of him, so much that she told me that she’d approve if we were to marry and have a family together (she’s exaggerating on purpose but still means it)
Wait… apologize for what?
Let's look at this:
Your partner knew exactly what he wanted. Like, 100% exactly. Which makes me believe that he googled it, which makes me wonder why he didn't order whatever he wanted online. Best explanation I have, as someone who lives in Germany and has huge issues getting stuff from overseas, is shipping costs or stuff stuck in customs for months. Which, yeah, is a hassle, but not as rude as sending your partner, who's on vacation, to seemingly run around in different places to get your shopping done so that you can save on a few dollar and a few weeks of shipping.
So even before things went wrong, it's pretty clear that your boyfriend already didn't really value your (vacation-)time.
Now, getting stuff similiar to what you wanted, but not exactly what you wanted, can really, really suck. Like, really. I get that, I had that happen to me. I wanted to get a specific phone and waited for someone to sell a used one in good condition live!, as I'm not rich. Then, my family gifted me a used phone of a totally different brand on Christmas, which was super-nice of them, but it wasn't the phone I wanted, which really sucked. I didn't want to be ungrateful, so I used it, of course, but all the time, I was basically waiting until 2-3 years were up and I could finally buy myself the phone I really wanted. So yeah, if you get a gift that can't be returned and which is now filling the spot of what you really want, it sucks, because your choices are either to upset the gift-giver or to use it and possibly be frustrated because it's just not what you wanted.
But, you know, that doesn't mean one single bit that you should be an asshole to someone who did a nice thing for you.
If getting the exact thing was so important to him, he should have ordered it online. As simple as that. If you send someone else to get something for you, you take what you get.
There are two bits of advise I have for you:
1) You might want to drop the ungrateful guy, as you can clearly do better.
2) If someone asks you to get a very specific thing, which ends up not being in stock, I would suggest sending them a message and asking if you should get something similiar or nothing at all. Saves a lot of trouble, money and heartache sometimes, as it's frustrating for both people even if no one is an asshole.
“Be a better fan” is a jerk comment. She supported him before his friend did as much.
It's not worth holding a grudge over, but anyone who treats their fans like that shouldn't be surprised when they have less fans and views. Your wife would be in the right to decrease or stop watching him.
He's a nobody in this business and he already lacks self awareness and appreciation.
am I being insecure And paranoid
Yes, yes you are. She is out with you and randomly smiled at an employee on her way out. If you are going to 'interpret' every random face she makes out of being polite in public, you will appear crazy and controlling. And lose her. Relax OP and show her how kind, supportive and interesting you can be.
Look… the think about feelings and dating… they're confusing if you're in a position that is enabling the confusion.
You don't need to tip-toe around things and wonder “does this mean he likes me?”… we can't tell that to you.
Be forward and get that information from him. Don't involve yourself in situations that feel like a game. Do you want to play games with your heart? No…
The best way to protect yourself is going after clear cut, no brainer information.
Red flags.
It has nothing do with porn. That's just the example I used.
She literally makes the same noises and faces when I've seen her in actual pain.
I compared it to porn because I have seen it in porn and thought it was on purpose to be like a force fetish or something popular in Asia.
Look, you did what you did. Not everyone would. That doesn't mean they are wrong. They just view what you did differently than you do. They wouldn't do it. It may be because it puts the bride in the middle or the fact that it could have gone worse than it did.
I think the tone is a bit harsh, but the message isn't unwarranted. I wouldn't repeat it or Alice may decide you're stirring the shitpot and the actual problem.
Like a lot of people learning to set boundaries, you are walking the fine line between setting boundaries and using boundaries as a weapon or as punishment. You did manage to set boundaries with him, but I think it's more because he didn't challenge you back. So keep working on it.
Damn, get rid of her. If he knew you asked her out, get rid of him too
I'd move on. She isn't interested. She maybe was going through the motions but wasn't being honest. She's probably into a different guy. Take the loss. Find someone more stable and more honest.
As someone else who is “annoying”. This hurts so much. I am so sorry for how you are feeling.
Someone will be able to tolerate your quirks without making you feel bad about it.
I had a boss like that. The only time she respected me was when I lost my temper and yelled or cursed at her. I lasted less than a month there, because I didn't want to be that person.
Well that, and I was actively daydreaming how to murder her and make it seem like an accident. She was a TERRIBLE person.
Look, dude, your gf has serious gender issues. Bad ones. Ones you shouldn't keep dating around.
This is only going to get worse, until she becomes one of those people who accuse you of flirting with every cashier and waitress. I bet if you ask her who bisexual people can be friends with, the answer will be hilarious.
Run.
She needs to put herself in your shoes. I’m sure she would be upset if it was the other way around
I'm not good at “banter” or teasing and I really don't understand it.
Is this the same guy you changed his name to disappointment in your phone? If so, sounds like things haven’t been great for while.
It's telling you don't state what her issues are vs what you think the real issues are.
This could just be a case of she brings valid complaints about your behavior and you condescend about how you know what this is really about.
Her: Stop leaving your dirty clothes in the floor for me to pick up You: I think the real issues is you being frustrated at work. Nothing to do with me.
He also found this out by snooping through her phone. He might not be the most trustworthy of individuals either if you ask me. I would never go through my Partner's phone, that too is a breach of trust. People do coparent without getting it on. I'm not saying she's completely innocent but I am saying there are valid reasons she might have hid this. Either way I am pretty sure this relationship needs to end because he can't trust her and she doesn't feel comfortable enough to tell him what's going on in her life with her ex and kids and co-parenting.
I just typed whatever reason popped into my head lol. You are right though…” I'm sorry I only like women with at least 3 or more missing teeth.”
First of all “send her back into the dating pool in her condition?” Man, you sound like a real prize. I’m sure women find your misogyny unbearably attractive.
There have been a few occasions on which he did the dishes or swept the floors, but man did I hear it when he was done. I guess if he has to take care of something, that means I’ve failed.