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? We are Monika and Nicole ? New lesbian couple ? PVT open, 18 y.o.
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Date: October 18, 2022
Im doing just that, but there are still some instances that i remember my ex, im trying to be more active in school, socializing with other people, but when im alone, its just hitting me with full force
Therapy…. If he will even do it
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You are not overreacting at all. You said she called you controlling and that you hate being called that. She knows you hate it, and that's why she called you that. A friend of mine calls this metamanipulation. Basically, the manipulator tries to make you feel like you are controlling or manipulative for setting boundaries and for not trusting them after a transgression on their part occurred. My ex did that in a very insidious way, and it's nude to detect until after it happens. I am glad you are moving on from that crap. Best of luck my friend and keep looking for there are so many fish in this ocean.
My area does them (well used to pre pandemic) at the local legion/elks branch… because it doubles as an event hall, and I swear you will never see as many drugs in a room decorated like your grandparents basement then those nights. It’s a shit show. They also don’t require proof because we’re a small town and everyone in the industry knows everyone else…
She isnt saying it was rape, she is saying he was so persistent that in her drunk state she didnt know how to shut him down. But why go to his room?
Someone said they think she might have been thinking about breaking up with you, and that makes the most sense to me, with the “why today” comments and not really having a reason for being upset ..
She was gonna break up with you soon. Maybe that day. Y'all should definitely talk, don't bring your ego
I knew a girl who worked at mcdonalds and this guy was a jerk at the drive through, so she took out her tampon and dunked it into his pepsi, like some horror tea. She told us this story so casually too…
Do you enjoy going down on her? Is the rest of your sex life okay?
Haha i see! What happened to your blind date?
Yes.
When they’re older? Yeah not a big deal. But she was 18. By the time I was 21 the freshmen 18 year olds coming into college looked like children to me- because they were when it comes to life experience, maturity, relationship experience, and just general shared activities.
I would suggest couples therapy
DO NOT GO TO THERAPY WITH AN ABUSER. Abusers weaponize therapy. Never go to therapy with an abuser. This is an absolute rule and does not have exceptions.
. It appears that if you want this to stop, you need to get your sex drive back. I’ll be honest. I’m sick to my stomach typing this.
Next time the thought of typing something makes you sick to your stomach, don't. This is actively harmful, god-awful advice.
You definitely need to sit down and talk about this
OK I’m gonna be really blunt with you here when somebody in a monogamous relationship wants to open up for threesomes. Usually the relationship is at its end. It doesn’t usually work out very well for either of them and long-term trust is broken. Boundaries are broken and somebody likes somebody better than the other. one on Reddit recently found out she was pregnant and they didn’t want to be with her. So the truth of the matter is this relationship is probably over and would be more conducive to your long-term happiness just leave it behind you heal from the situation and find somebody who really wants to be with you only you.
Nope never dated a gamer, I have seen far too many relationships of this sort.
Personally and through friends.
A boss sharing his leftovers and taking his employee to lunch is not crossing any boundaries, but a husband getting jealous about his wife having a friendly relationship with her boss sure as hell is.
We’ve been friends for 5 years, a couple for 4, married for 1. I still get a thrill when I open my eyes in the morning and see him next to me. When something happens, good or bad, he’s the one person I want to tell.
Don’t stay in a relationship that isn’t working for you. This man isn’t awful clearly; there are many many positives, but you’re looking for something more. And this isn’t it.
You can choose to settle. Many do. But your heart isn’t in this and you’ll become increasingly restless and resentful. And that never ends well.
Of course there’ll be regrets. That’s natural. Because there have been good times and he’s supported you through difficult times. Reading your post it feels like this is part of your life’s story. If it’s no longer what you need, be grateful for this relationship and move on. It can be painful when things end, but sometimes necessary.
If he keep doing it and disrespect you then do it , you don’t know if he slept with some of them behind your back … tell him you’ll end everything if he don’t stop it . At least if he care he will look for different job .
Yeah seriously, grandparents and other close family (who aren't in the bridal party) often make up the tail end of the processional. They just go to the front (or second) row of seats rather than standing.
You can't just tell your husband flat out? How bad is your communication?? You just say, “Hey, I noticed you haven't been putting your share in? How come? You need to start.”
And you can reply that once was enough obviously. He was underwhelmed by her. Thank you for making him realize I'm it for him. Shut the bitch down.
If he fucks up again. No more take backs. He's out!
Tell them the truth. You outed your guy's moonlighting to his GF and they were both upset and you got 86'ed permanently.
Some will respect you and some will think you're a fool.
Well, you can't really have a future until he does mention you, right?
Have you given him a timeline? Have you asked him his intentions?
This is the worst TROLL post by far
Yep, you are right. He is a selfish little man who doesn't deserve you. I am glad you found out before you made any long term commitments to him.
Thing is, even if you talked to him and told him how upset you were, you can't trust him and he isn't honest with you anyway. Those two are relationship fundamentals and once broken are super hard to get back. You are not his prison guard and don't want to spend your life investigating him and what he is doing.
Good luck with moving on. I hope grieving for the loss of the relationship you thought you had is super quick and you bounce into something else that is awesome. Where I am from, break up cake is a thing as we celebrate new found freedom.
You did good and it was not a healthy relationship.
Everything in that relationship could be perfect, but attune end of the day your partner was unable to do the thing that I believe to be most important in your(specifically you two's) relationship. And in doing so caused you mental anguish.
I don't believe that he is a bad person, but he was not the right person(for you). I'm sorry you guys couldn't hack it, with what you were going through.
Instamacy. It isn’t healthy
With all do respect, if you are this miserable this early, you should get a divorce. Don’t waste more of your time being miserable. Don’t subscribe to a sunk cost fallacy. Take some time by yourself and figure out why you accepted being treated the way you did in this relationship. Make sure your next relationship is a healthy one. And take every step possible to make sure no kids are brought into this.
If she’s giving ultimatums over texts with someone you barely have anything to do with anymore then it’s time you guys have a serious conversation about what you both need from the relationship then you can decide how you go about it from there