Ok, but you can't just abandon your relationship with your brother because you don't like his girlfriend and don't want to compromise. You need to recognize that while you might not always like who your brother dates, you need to also at least attempt a compromise to keep a good relationship with your brother. Ask your brother to have a chat with his girlfriend about your need for privacy, and if she is willing to respect your wishes, put up with her for your brother. If we all abandoned our siblings when they have a relationship with someone we just don't like, we're not going to have much family in short order.
All of this sounds wonderful. Please just be cautious with your feelings. It’s very possible that he isn’t in the same place you are. He’s more experienced and so sexually driven. Just be careful. If you continue be aware you may find that he’s just not as emotionally invested as you.
I think give it a bit more time since galing breakup sya and she's in therapy. she may just be enjoying your company and missing a male presence in her life and she probably wants to feel safe. maybe hang out a bit more pa before you say anything or confess your feelings. as a woman, based on your story, I believe she trusts you a lot but as a friend (not saying this can't change ha). pero kasi ako if I like a guy I reserve the meetup with my girlies kapag medyo established na na this could be romantic. usually eto na yung part na “if you wanna be my lover you gotta get with my friends” hahahah. BUT, meeting the friends can also be a tactic if gusto nya iestablish na things are platonic. I know plenty of women na nagaaya ng additional friends so the person they're with won't think that it's a date. eto yung mga moment na “kaibigan ko yun walang malisya pero para sigurado eestablish ko na friendly lang talaga to by inviting other people”. it's really too vague for now so best to give it a bit more time imo. I wish you luck OP.
The fact that he's encouraging you to date women and get into a sexual relationship…kinda makes me feel that if you were satisfied with someone else takes the pressure off him to be intimate with you. Seems like it's a brother/sister or a good close friendship you have with him. Maybe he's a sexual or even gay. Maybe he's struggling with his own sexuality or repressing it. Maybe he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you and pushing you into something with someone else so you can move on. It just doesn't sit right with me for some reason…I feel there's something else going on with him that he is not saying.
Way to be proud!
You better not keep that shit a secret dude
Ok, but you can't just abandon your relationship with your brother because you don't like his girlfriend and don't want to compromise. You need to recognize that while you might not always like who your brother dates, you need to also at least attempt a compromise to keep a good relationship with your brother. Ask your brother to have a chat with his girlfriend about your need for privacy, and if she is willing to respect your wishes, put up with her for your brother. If we all abandoned our siblings when they have a relationship with someone we just don't like, we're not going to have much family in short order.
All of this sounds wonderful. Please just be cautious with your feelings. It’s very possible that he isn’t in the same place you are. He’s more experienced and so sexually driven. Just be careful. If you continue be aware you may find that he’s just not as emotionally invested as you.
I think give it a bit more time since galing breakup sya and she's in therapy. she may just be enjoying your company and missing a male presence in her life and she probably wants to feel safe. maybe hang out a bit more pa before you say anything or confess your feelings. as a woman, based on your story, I believe she trusts you a lot but as a friend (not saying this can't change ha). pero kasi ako if I like a guy I reserve the meetup with my girlies kapag medyo established na na this could be romantic. usually eto na yung part na “if you wanna be my lover you gotta get with my friends” hahahah. BUT, meeting the friends can also be a tactic if gusto nya iestablish na things are platonic. I know plenty of women na nagaaya ng additional friends so the person they're with won't think that it's a date. eto yung mga moment na “kaibigan ko yun walang malisya pero para sigurado eestablish ko na friendly lang talaga to by inviting other people”. it's really too vague for now so best to give it a bit more time imo. I wish you luck OP.
The fact that he's encouraging you to date women and get into a sexual relationship…kinda makes me feel that if you were satisfied with someone else takes the pressure off him to be intimate with you. Seems like it's a brother/sister or a good close friendship you have with him. Maybe he's a sexual or even gay. Maybe he's struggling with his own sexuality or repressing it. Maybe he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you and pushing you into something with someone else so you can move on. It just doesn't sit right with me for some reason…I feel there's something else going on with him that he is not saying.