Find a new boyfriend. Your body hair is normal. If you don't want to shave daily you don't have to. But you need a man who isn't obsessed with you being hairless.
AITA is a terrible sub. too much name calling. Too many angry people. its also the home of the deadbeat dad society of reddit. Lots of angry deadbeat dads on there who get mad if someone says “support your kid”.
I have seen people get attacked on there for not wanting to date a trans person. Its not any different than you not wanting to date me since I am a guy and you like women.
It is a really negative and toxic sub. The whole concept of the sub is to invite unnecessary judging.
Under no circumstances should you be having even vanilla sex – never mind BDSM play – with someone who you are scared to disappoint.
Under no circumstances should you be having even vanilla sex – never mind BDSM play – with someone who you “dread” sex with.
Under no circumstances should you be having even vanilla sex – never mind BDSM play – with someone who you can't talk to.
What the hell is he doing that you are being injured all the time? That's not normal for most play.
Do you have a safeword or words? If so, why are you not using them? This is literally what they're for. Given how you say he behaves after sex, is he under the impression that you're enjoying yourself? Have you ever told him that he has inflicted actual injuries?
On the other hand, if you don't have a safeword and this guy's going full-medieval on your ass to the point that you are constantly in pain and he doesn't care, you're in an abusive relationship and you need to get away from this guy.
Ummm…if they get triggered by being mad and as a result curse, and then you get triggered by being cursed at and as a result curse. Aren't yall for the most part doing the same thing? ?? Getting triggered and cursing.
When you brought up them cursing during arguments, they said that it was unrealistic( I tend to agree), yet you stayed. If something is important to you, you can't just stay with people and expect that they'll change when they say they aren't. You obviously didn't care enough to end things so why should they care enough??
And I think that the very hot part for your girlfriend (assuming that yall don't argue a lot), 99% of the time, they are free to curse but 1%, they aren't. When it comes to children for example, depending on your beliefs, you never curse around them so it's easier to stop around children (though you may slip). Here you want them to not curse during a time when it's hardest to control but it's okay every other time. That's a WILD request.
You can't dictate how other people behave, you can just handle you and try not to be bitter about not getting what you think you deserve
Me two
Find a new boyfriend. Your body hair is normal. If you don't want to shave daily you don't have to. But you need a man who isn't obsessed with you being hairless.
Never, just on-line with the regret and thoughts of “what if”
AITA is a terrible sub. too much name calling. Too many angry people. its also the home of the deadbeat dad society of reddit. Lots of angry deadbeat dads on there who get mad if someone says “support your kid”.
I have seen people get attacked on there for not wanting to date a trans person. Its not any different than you not wanting to date me since I am a guy and you like women.
It is a really negative and toxic sub. The whole concept of the sub is to invite unnecessary judging.
I think he gave you the best advice, and you should take it: Find someone better.
Under no circumstances should you be having even vanilla sex – never mind BDSM play – with someone who you are scared to disappoint.
Under no circumstances should you be having even vanilla sex – never mind BDSM play – with someone who you “dread” sex with.
Under no circumstances should you be having even vanilla sex – never mind BDSM play – with someone who you can't talk to.
What the hell is he doing that you are being injured all the time? That's not normal for most play.
Do you have a safeword or words? If so, why are you not using them? This is literally what they're for. Given how you say he behaves after sex, is he under the impression that you're enjoying yourself? Have you ever told him that he has inflicted actual injuries?
On the other hand, if you don't have a safeword and this guy's going full-medieval on your ass to the point that you are constantly in pain and he doesn't care, you're in an abusive relationship and you need to get away from this guy.
Yeah thats not an obsession. He's going to work and then coming home to do what he enjoys. Thats what a normal TEENAGER does.
You're lucky hes not playing 16+ hours a day as soon as he wakes up.
It’s not cheating but this is a weird boundary you guys have
That's an 8 year age gap. Closer to a decade apart than a high school experience apart.
He owns his business.
Ummm…if they get triggered by being mad and as a result curse, and then you get triggered by being cursed at and as a result curse. Aren't yall for the most part doing the same thing? ?? Getting triggered and cursing.
When you brought up them cursing during arguments, they said that it was unrealistic( I tend to agree), yet you stayed. If something is important to you, you can't just stay with people and expect that they'll change when they say they aren't. You obviously didn't care enough to end things so why should they care enough??
And I think that the very hot part for your girlfriend (assuming that yall don't argue a lot), 99% of the time, they are free to curse but 1%, they aren't. When it comes to children for example, depending on your beliefs, you never curse around them so it's easier to stop around children (though you may slip). Here you want them to not curse during a time when it's hardest to control but it's okay every other time. That's a WILD request.