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Date: October 19, 2022
prettiboiflacko, 21 y.o.
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The date is his CHANCE to impress me. What is so very hot to understand about that? had he paid, said he was grateful to see me, thankful for my time, etc. I would be honored and keep seeing him.
Instead he pulled what he did. And then had the nerve to text me a week later claiming he wants to see me again and did appreciate my time and him not paying doesnt mean he devalued me….i look at ACTIONS not words though and he devalued me
I would agree with except the fact that op has already expressed that she just doesn't like eating off the same plate with him beforehand… That and she never said she was being greedy with her food. She literally agreed to share with a minor condition, and that's as simple as grabbing another plate for yourself. There's ways to work around this rather than getting upset. You can still share food with your partner with terms like these to my understanding.
Well if you’re already jumping to her cheating in the future after only 3 months then this is very much a “you” problem.
If you don’t think you can trust her then do her a favour and break up because you’re insulting her with your assumptions.
It can be easy to jump into this kind of dreamy honeymoon stage of extravagant promises and happily ever afters, but you’ve gotta slow it down and have serious discussions about what you want in the future. It sounds like she’s shelving her baby dreams (for now) as a way to please and keep you, but this is a big dealbreaker for a lot of people. Staying with someone who you know wants kids when you don’t is cruel. It fucking sucks when you love them, but staying with them will be killing then slowly over the years.
Sounds like you know what you like and it’s working out for you, let things happen naturally, it seems like it already is anyway. You are a busy woman and if it works for you it works. Although I would maybe have a conversation with him, that if he ever wants to talk about your situation it’s ok with you.
Is it bad that I want to find out for sure before deciding on anything?
Furthermore, the sex is only that good BECAUSE you are the other woman. If the two of you were legit, he wouldn't be half so interested.
Oof that's a bit harsh. I've definitely had good sex without being a possible mistress
Search this forum. There have been so many posts like this its easier to just read through a few of them and see what people have consistently t9ld the OP. Each situation is a little bit different but it might give you some perspective.
he called the bluff on you. and you did his. good for you!
In a strange way it will make you both better.
he needs therapy for his addiction. and you need therapy for setting boundaries.
All the best!
Simpler than you think. Say “hi” next time you see him. No pressure to initiate a relationship. Just interact in person and make sure you don't have any boogers hanging out. See what happens. Drop hints.
Yeah, I see no problem with asking him to stop hanging out. He can find other guy friends to do that stuff with.
I’m not as progressive as some people on Reddit, so I don’t see the need to hangout one on one with people of the opposite sex without my wife there.
I’m not entirely convinced this isn’t a troll, you’ve been in an abusive and unhappy relationship for 4+ years and the issue that makes you leave is… porn? If you are actually serious I’m sorry but you’re focusing on the wrong thing here. Porn is a symptom here, not a cause. You need to pack your bag and your baby and leave. You need to seek individual therapy and please for the love of all that is holy do not go to couples counseling, that will only speed up/aid the abuse. Get a divorce, have no contact except through a mediator, and live! your life away from this person. If not for yourself at least for your child.