This is largely a cultural and world-view clash. Cut contact way back and stop hoping she will alter her behavior, as I don't think that possible. When you do have contact, if she even so much steps a toe into these kinds of comments, tell her you won't tolerate her remarks and end the contact that day.
In her mind, she is doing the right thing. You will never convince her otherwise.
He will pretend for a while and then slip back into the same routine. He will never change. He won't even try. He will fake it until he thinks you are stuck. Soon, he will probably trap you with a baby.
Platonic relationships are a thing, but some of the touching you mention are not what I’d consider appropriate for a platonic relationship.
And really apart from a hug to say hi, or goodbye the rest is totally subjective.
I have some good platonic friends, and we’ve been out on the town, and when walking back we’ve all linked arms, kinda to keep each other upright. Hugged and draped my arm over their shoulders to stop some creep from bugging them at a bar etc.
How would you feel if your husband put on 6 stone, would you be the same loving person if you were fit and healthy?
Sounds like you're the side FWB. I wouldn't be surprised if he already had a girlfriend.
This is largely a cultural and world-view clash. Cut contact way back and stop hoping she will alter her behavior, as I don't think that possible. When you do have contact, if she even so much steps a toe into these kinds of comments, tell her you won't tolerate her remarks and end the contact that day.
In her mind, she is doing the right thing. You will never convince her otherwise.
No get this….
Under my moms name and my mom has blocked me
He will pretend for a while and then slip back into the same routine. He will never change. He won't even try. He will fake it until he thinks you are stuck. Soon, he will probably trap you with a baby.
Platonic relationships are a thing, but some of the touching you mention are not what I’d consider appropriate for a platonic relationship.
And really apart from a hug to say hi, or goodbye the rest is totally subjective.
I have some good platonic friends, and we’ve been out on the town, and when walking back we’ve all linked arms, kinda to keep each other upright. Hugged and draped my arm over their shoulders to stop some creep from bugging them at a bar etc.
Could it be the soap he uses, some soaps have a terrible smell. Otherwise he may need a drs appt