Also his behavior just indicates that he might be someone who objectifies women and yeah that’s not someone who will bring a healthy relationship to the table.
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Im for prenups as well and I’m not projecting, I bring it up because it’s talked about in the comments but also in society’s standpoint, generally it’s the man that asks for the prenup and the woman will feel some type of way.
The projection was you making a scenario that what she wrote read like “as he looks deadly types you must get a prenup if we get married!!!” Then looks over at his massive gun collection on the wall over his bed. You’re literally making him seem like something he isn’t based on no evidence other than you “got a vibe”
He only brought up being married because she asked and he only mentioned prenups because she talked marriage. Cause and effect is all that happened here but apparently it’s all being viewed as he is the big red flag for having his past that was revealed only when asked and having preferences on a topic she brought up
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Is she being looked at or being harassed?
Also his behavior just indicates that he might be someone who objectifies women and yeah that’s not someone who will bring a healthy relationship to the table.
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Im for prenups as well and I’m not projecting, I bring it up because it’s talked about in the comments but also in society’s standpoint, generally it’s the man that asks for the prenup and the woman will feel some type of way.
The projection was you making a scenario that what she wrote read like “as he looks deadly types you must get a prenup if we get married!!!” Then looks over at his massive gun collection on the wall over his bed. You’re literally making him seem like something he isn’t based on no evidence other than you “got a vibe”
He only brought up being married because she asked and he only mentioned prenups because she talked marriage. Cause and effect is all that happened here but apparently it’s all being viewed as he is the big red flag for having his past that was revealed only when asked and having preferences on a topic she brought up
Of course 🙂 it’s great to hear from others. Good luck! You can’t really mess it up. It’s so amazing how life gives us exactly the lessons we need, when we need them.