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Date: October 20, 2022
People can change but sounds like bein a manipulative ass is his style that he knows well to make promises then act like he never shows his true colors
Wow that sounds intense. This is the best definition I could possibly find. Thank you
Why can’t she just get her tubes tied? Why sue gotta pressure a 20 year old who hasn’t figured everything out yet and doesn’t want to make such a big decision? I wouldn’t do it unless you’re 100%. Your body, your choice.
I don't think he missed it much.
Sounds like OP just wants to find an excuse to make herself feel better. You’re literally doing mental gymnastics at this point. You know it was wrong and everyone is telling you it’s wrong and you even admitted if it was the other way around… it’s wrong.
Came here to say this! My fiancé admitted to me he cheated by drunkenly kissing a girl when was 16 who wasn’t his girlfriend, he immediately ended his relationship which he said was only 2/3 weeks in anyway and has never cheated since, he told me on the first date and let me make my own decision, considering it was 15 years ago and it was a one off and he is still friends with the girl he cheated on who also said he was very remorseful and she wasn’t even that bothered
But the fact he still admits to it almost 2 decades later shows he wanted to change
This women does not
Nothing needy about this at all. Just keep it simple – “the feelings I have towards you are the type of feelings I reserve for people I'm in an exclusive, defined relationship with. Totally respect that you don't feel the same way – if you change your mind I'd love to discuss, but this is where I'm at and this is what I need to continue”.
They LOVE to spin the “needy” angle. Cool, fine. Be needy, there's nothing wrong with having needs – and bouncing when they aren't met!
Why would he have told Op the little details about his trauma? And before making the post OP didn’t talk to him about the trauma specifically. It could have still involved urine
I'm an only child and I don't put liquid in a traffic area.
Make him lie to his previous boss. Recently got put on new medication that makes him do terribly insane things, sell it by saying he recently got addicted to gambling or something too. Try to get pity
You did it right. She probably didn't expect otherwise. You would be dumb to take her back, and she would have treated as a moron.
Transactional!
I say “I want a pizza” and anybody answers me with “You dont need it” this person gets to be thrown out of my life in an instant. This should have triggered you instantly, and it didn't.
Yours isn't a normal response either.
What do u think about all of this? What could be his intention and how should I move on from this?
who cares what his intentions are. What are your intentions? Sounds like you are sitting around waiting for him to come back and really want another go..which seems to be the opposite of moving on. For the life of me I cant understand why people dont just say what they want. Turns out it clears up situations and you tend to get what you want also…so decide what you want, not what someone else wants, then make that happen.
She's a girlfriend chameleon
Break up. His penis size is irrelevant. The only thing that's relevant is his shitty treatment of you and your family.
Wow, so many things to unpack.
So he hasn't worked since you've known him, so I assume he's supported by his parents. Given what he does all day it doesn't sound like he has much ambition to support himself, let alone contribute to a household.
He has no personal hygiene to speak of, nor any boyfriend skills (ie making a woman feel special, pretty, appreciated, etc) and not only that but tears your self esteem to shreds. Oh and he's cheating also.
You have dropped 90 lbs, you should drop him as well and up that number.
You have absolutely no reason to stay around him. Find someone who appreciates you and deserves you.
Oh, I agree, but I didn't mean it like that exactly. I'm thinking that when you decide to marry someone, you hopefully want them to know everything about you.
Any mental health professional will tell you that it's good for you to “share the burden” of past or ongoing trauma with people that you trust, such as a spouse.
I'm thinking more along those lines.
I do agree 100% that she should know better, but she was likely 15/16 when she met him, and he was 25. Although her actions are definitely wrong, we can't overlook the ages and consider whether grooming is a factor in this. She was a legit child when they met. OP's been with this guy 2 years. How do we know he wasnt taking advantage of her always trying to one up her sister and manipulate her into this?