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Adam and Cassie, 21 y.o.
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Date: October 20, 2022
Adam and Cassie, 21 y.o.
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I agree with you
Thanks! its insanely coincidental that you had almost the same situation! Can I DM you?
Make sure you know what you mean by “love,” and that she knows what you mean by it.
A lot of people mistake the desire early in a romantic relationship for love. This is something called limerence, and isn't love at all.
Actual love is a choice, a way to treat someone so that they know you respect them, value them, care for them, etc. But if you use “I love you” in this sense, when the person you speak to only thinks of the phrase in terms of sexual love and desire, you aren't communicating.
So you can convey all the elements without saying the phrase. “Hey, listen up: You are very important. I care about you very much. I worry about your safety. I want to make sure you feel you are being treated with respect by me. I want you to know that I value who you are. I want to comfort you when you feel upset. I'll spend time with you if you need me.” To me, that's love.
You can have a conversation about what love means to each of you, some time when you aren't in an emotional crisis.
And in a few months we’ll be reading “My boyfriend and I opened our relationship at my request, but now he’s breaking up with me. What should I do?” Go ahead and break up now. If he’s not enthusiastic about it now, he’ll never be. Break up and be FWB maybe, but not in a relationship.
You absolutely tell her, she deserves to know.