I love how people put literal games ahead of their real life relationships lol.
Like, a game, whether you watch it or not will have zero impact on your future… your relationship however is something that will impact you every day, and it's YOUR literal life.. not those you see on a screen.
Priorities are important, and if you can't see why she'd not feel valued because of her vs a game then I think maybe you need to just sit with yourself and ask some naked questions.
Not saying this as a bad thing, or having a go, it's just the simple fact that you are torn between something that will not impact your life, whatever way it goes… and something that will impact your life on a day to day basis.
Make the day about your relationship, about each other. If it just so happens she goes to bed or whatever and you get to watch the game… then that's a lucky break and not the priority of the day.
On the other side, you are an adult I assume, so you have the right to adult your life the way you want – just be aware of the consequences of how you prioritise what's important.
Personally, if I were her, I'd incorporate the game into our day as it's important to you… this would be how I show you where you stand in my life by making your wants a priority in our relationship… and hopefully being respected and adored for the full length snugged up with popcorn and beer.. wine and cheese … whatever you two enjoy… but again, the focus would be us, not the game, or a bunch of mates.
Let go of her, the situation, and anything associated with those relationships. Clean start and new you ?
I love how people put literal games ahead of their real life relationships lol.
Like, a game, whether you watch it or not will have zero impact on your future… your relationship however is something that will impact you every day, and it's YOUR literal life.. not those you see on a screen.
Priorities are important, and if you can't see why she'd not feel valued because of her vs a game then I think maybe you need to just sit with yourself and ask some naked questions.
Not saying this as a bad thing, or having a go, it's just the simple fact that you are torn between something that will not impact your life, whatever way it goes… and something that will impact your life on a day to day basis.
Make the day about your relationship, about each other. If it just so happens she goes to bed or whatever and you get to watch the game… then that's a lucky break and not the priority of the day.
On the other side, you are an adult I assume, so you have the right to adult your life the way you want – just be aware of the consequences of how you prioritise what's important.
Personally, if I were her, I'd incorporate the game into our day as it's important to you… this would be how I show you where you stand in my life by making your wants a priority in our relationship… and hopefully being respected and adored for the full length snugged up with popcorn and beer.. wine and cheese … whatever you two enjoy… but again, the focus would be us, not the game, or a bunch of mates.
Anyway. That's my 2c.
Fr going NC is the only way for OP to move on
Angry at them about what? I’d love to hear all about this 🙂