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I’m not sure what advice you want. You’ve told your boyfriend not to let the cat out and why and he disregards your wishes.
He simply doesn’t care what you think on this topic.
So if you’re found to stick around, get the cat chipped if not already and put on a breakaway collar with a tag and phone number.
I personally would ditch the boyfriend for this. But I don’t get the impression that you intend to go that far. So at least make it easier on the local neighbors and rescuers so that when they find your cat alive or dead, they don’t have to spend so much time identifying the owner.
Cats do not belong outdoors. They get injured by other animals—including some asshole humans, they pick up illness, they get hit by cars, and they kill off native song birds. They also get picked up or trapped by either annoyed neighbors or caring ones and dropped at shelters that usually are full and tell people to just go release them again.
If he wants the cat to have outdoor time, he could walk her on a harness or build a catio.
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No chance, she’s trouble… she made it clear she didn’t like me and tried to turn my bf against me…
I’m not sure what advice you want. You’ve told your boyfriend not to let the cat out and why and he disregards your wishes.
He simply doesn’t care what you think on this topic.
So if you’re found to stick around, get the cat chipped if not already and put on a breakaway collar with a tag and phone number.
I personally would ditch the boyfriend for this. But I don’t get the impression that you intend to go that far. So at least make it easier on the local neighbors and rescuers so that when they find your cat alive or dead, they don’t have to spend so much time identifying the owner.
Cats do not belong outdoors. They get injured by other animals—including some asshole humans, they pick up illness, they get hit by cars, and they kill off native song birds. They also get picked up or trapped by either annoyed neighbors or caring ones and dropped at shelters that usually are full and tell people to just go release them again.
If he wants the cat to have outdoor time, he could walk her on a harness or build a catio.
Seriously lol. “Babe, you knocked the armrest right into my balls again”
Haha this actually sounds like a really good and fun idea