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Date: October 22, 2022
If you're considering dumping your boyfriend for a friend (and the only difference to you between the two of them is their level of ambition) you have outgrown your relationship and need to cut him loose. Focus on your own goals for a few years.
Do they usually do this? Honestly it sounds like they're just having a bad day.
Doesn’t necessarily have to be her personal normal TikTok, it’s just that Gen Z and the Tik Tok generation really know how to drag a mf. Also the more evidence out there the more it protects her when this world is utterly fucked and not known for taking sides of abuse victims when they defend themselves. Like that’s why I can’t recommend her keeping a knife or anything.
This isn’t a beautiful relationship. It’s a big red flag that he doesn’t want to marry you.
No dude, you need to run, she needs to abort.
Is she actually pregnant? Or is she just baby trapping you/faking it?
Sounds like a last ditch effort to have you not leave her because she's desperate and loves bringing you down to her (shitty) level.
You both made up your minds before hand and actually had a discussion about it. If she has this baby you can kiss your life (or what's left of it) goodbye. You on-line for her, if she's not happy you're miserable, if you don't always make sacrifices for her you will be miserable.
Don't do it! That feeling you're feeling is just fear of being lonely because you've been stuck in this life for so long it's all you know.
Grass is definitely greener on the other side and a baby will NOT FIX ANYTHING
Before, I think they were friends for a few months when I found out and called Jill about it. I’m okay with staying friends with Jill if she doesn’t bring this up again and I don’t ever have to hear about OW. She’s the kind of person that if I said it and made a boundary I think she would get it but I haven’t done that yet
He’s trying to have his cake and eat it too. If you want something more serious, you’ll likely need to end it with him and move on. You both are on different paths. And despite your feelings for him, he likely won’t change his mind anytime soon. So you’re either stuck with him and unhappy, or you move on so you can find someone who matches better with what you want. I know that sounds difficult and scary, but it’s much better than being with this guy and not feeling important or truly loved/appreciated by him. You deserve better.
24 is not a child, he’s probably had 14+ years of awareness that sex = babies. Christ.
And when you accept this it strengthens her position. She's supposed to make you better not ruin your life.
I have it, and I’ve been with my husband for 12 years- he still doesn’t have it. I’ve also never had an outbreak.
He wants to keep his options open but not have his fwb chick sleep with anyone else either. “I don’t really want her but I don’t want you to have her either”. Not much you can do and hey they’re open. I would remind him that but doubt he’d care
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Maybe your dad is cheating and projecting it on her?
It would be easier for him to justify his cheating later if he can say, you cheated too!
“He believes” – did you ask him what proof he has?
Your mom is abused victim so don't do your dad's dirty work for him to attack her even more!
Clearly I'm not updated on this. What is this thing?
She didn't blame me, every time before she explained herself she prefaced that, “I'm not blaming you for what I did” or “This does not justify my actions” She never tried to explain herself until I asked her why she did it.
I do feel like it was cheating now, and it hurts. Thanks for the link.
No. Don’t marry her and make it harder than it has to be. Co-parent and cut off the relationship if you will never be what she needs.
Texts can be a contract, but only if it is freely and voluntarily established. Him sending you all those threats is a big issue. Do you think he needs the money or is this his attempt to maintain contact with you?
School first. Always. You are going to be an entirely different amazing person in these three years coming up and even after. Your heart might still be aligned with his, and if it is then he will help and support your dedication to your career. Being a doctor is a badge of honor, service and naked earned commitment, he should be proud of you not diminish you for his own gain.
Soooo…what it would be like for me. I wouldn’t want to start anything serious if i was going to leave. When i was that age all i wanted to do was spend all my time with my girlfriend. The school term is nearly over and the kids coming to my city for school normally come early summer/ late spring. If you’re not going to be together past graduation i don’t see the point in getting into it.
The way this is worded screams gold digger vibes, so unless you’re in a position to provide that’s when she’ll start getting attracted to you? I get it that she’s used to dating older men, but both of you are at that stage where you guys are still building something for yourselves; and it’s not like your a bum or something.. Does that mean when you get older and lose your job or something she’ll start going back to not being attracted to you?
Relationships are usually great the first few years since rose-tinted glasses/fairy dust and all, but now that it’s all settling down she’s starting to show her true colors and it’s up to you to determine if she’s gonna be just something casual or truly something more..
We got one so she could see where I was but it works both ways. She agreed without hesitation but didn't promote the idea. I had to find the app and set it up and everything like that.
Saying she wants to test her willpower means she is already attracted to him and wants to see if she's strong enough not to act on it. Don't you see that? If she wasn't attracted to him she wouldn't be “testing her willpower” because it would be very easy to say no, so there's no test there. She is into him.
Thank you guys for all the advice! To clear some things up I’ve told her that I’d like to have a child in my late 20’s (27-29) at the earliest. I’ve told her what I think needs to happen before I’m ready for a kid. I want her to have a steady job and make decent money. I’d like to save up money and have a house as well, all before having a child. She claims my expectations for her are too high and that she’ll never meet them. She has a timeline for when she wants certain things in life and that’s what she’s going off of.
She used to be on birth control but she decided to quit after about 6 months of being on it. She lies to her family about being on it still. She said it could ruin her ability to have a child and she doesn’t like the way birth control makes her feel. Her mom is highly against her having kids right now as she knows that we are not ready, so my girlfriend doesn’t want her opinion on anything. As a matter of fact she says “anyone else’s opinion doesn’t matter because our relationship needs to be OUR relationship”.
The reason I came here for advice is to get opinions outside of the guys from work and close friends. She honestly makes me feel like I’m being unrealistic, and too demanding on what I expect before having a child. I appreciate all the kind advice and we will see what happens in the next couple months before our lease is up.
He cares about not wearing condoms than your feelings. Simple as that. I’d move on to the next Dude who will understand you and wear the condoms with no complaint.
Though, I understand you don’t want to be on the pill, I would look into birth control methods that you can be in control of. Condoms only have a real use effectiveness rate of ~77% because they’re easy to mess up/put on incorrectly/use a weak one etc. there are other methods out there that you should look into!! Doubling up on birth control options with a condom for him and something for you is always a good idea of you can.
Right so it wouldn’t have happened eventually with anyone it would have happened with him specifically. Giving advice to you is useless you don’t listen to a word anyone is saying and you seem to genuinely believe none of this is your fault. I hope they both find out. Bye Felicia ?
Well, you ruined a perfectly good night and ended up on the couch. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Lesson learned. Buy her chocolates, jewelry, flowers, apologize to the point of harassment. Ask her how you can further rectify the situation.
I’m sorry but the “handing you the clown makeup and asking you to put it on” is both hilarious and very apt. I hope OP wises up
The throwing stuff away is not ok.
But guys are allowed to not ‘be in the mood’ at times. You need to respect his choice. This stuff doesn’t just apply to women. He shouldn’t have to fake a headache.
Both of you need to work on communication and anger management.
Less that he should be able to save something, more that she and he should know what they can and can't afford if actually making an effort, IMO.
It's possible, although unlikely, that she doesn't know what his exepenses are or how much he's taking home. It's not like he's college educated or in a trade. If he's making 40K or less, it can be hot to save, and that wouldn't immediately make him a bad partner in the current economy.
What’s the problem. It was before you started dating.
I investigate the possibility of a threesome or foursome.
When your given lemons make lemonade.
No feedback! He just wasn’t feeling it.