You don’t have to accept his past sexual behavior. Particularly where it indicates he will likely not be a faithful partner. Your feelings are justified.
Non-monogamy works in the way that you agree on what it means to you and yo you as a couple. Some people say “no feelings” others “only one night stands” others say “tell me everything”, others don’t want to know anything. Some only do it as swingers together and would never meet up with others alone.
Everyone has their own limits for what counts as cheating.
For me, personally, this definitely counts as cheating (sleeping with an escort once) if he had agreed to be honest and he wasn’t. The sex isn’t the main issue – the lying is.
This is something that they should really explore with help from a therapist I'd say. Because the rest of the post shouts of immaturity, in particular the attitude that abstinence will harm his mental health. Dude has two hands and his own bedroom to look after himself while they work this out.
Then I think it should be fine. Maybe since you heard him talking with a friend you could try to listen in and find something to ask about/bring up as a conversation starter.
Not your fault. Cheaters are cowardly. Anyone that could betray you after being together that long instead of just breaking up before fucking someone else isn't anyone ud want to waste time on. They have no morals and loose character. Like have a conversation but no its easier just being a lying POS
I understand
If it wasn’t normal for women to have hair then it wouldn’t grow in the first place.
Find a man that treats you right.
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I’m sorry to say but it’s probably time to go out and find yourself without him.
Your wife is a complete bitch. How dare she ban a relationship due to weight. Is this just an excuse for another reason.
You don’t have to accept his past sexual behavior. Particularly where it indicates he will likely not be a faithful partner. Your feelings are justified.
Non-monogamy works in the way that you agree on what it means to you and yo you as a couple. Some people say “no feelings” others “only one night stands” others say “tell me everything”, others don’t want to know anything. Some only do it as swingers together and would never meet up with others alone.
Everyone has their own limits for what counts as cheating.
For me, personally, this definitely counts as cheating (sleeping with an escort once) if he had agreed to be honest and he wasn’t. The sex isn’t the main issue – the lying is.
This is something that they should really explore with help from a therapist I'd say. Because the rest of the post shouts of immaturity, in particular the attitude that abstinence will harm his mental health. Dude has two hands and his own bedroom to look after himself while they work this out.
Then I think it should be fine. Maybe since you heard him talking with a friend you could try to listen in and find something to ask about/bring up as a conversation starter.
that was my first impression, but this has been with the exact same person dating back sense 2010 which is why it’s strange
Not your fault. Cheaters are cowardly. Anyone that could betray you after being together that long instead of just breaking up before fucking someone else isn't anyone ud want to waste time on. They have no morals and loose character. Like have a conversation but no its easier just being a lying POS