so when your MIL snatched your baby from your arms, you wouldn’t say anything to her…you’d instead passive aggressively post some tik tok criticizing baby snatchers clearly directed at your MIL?
Ok fun ! So , my son is terrified of spiders. We on-line in a country where spiders are never going to be a danger . We have educated him on this , and he rationally understands the factual information that said tiny spider is not of any risk to him . And yet ,he demonstrates emotional responses that make no rational sense. are his emotional responses rational and reasonable in a way that will make his life better ?
I understand that to say in an academic sense that emotions are irrational is to suggest that they have not hit their intended target therefore all emotions from academic perspective are therefore rational , but the reality of normal human behaviour ,in particular trauma response , makes this less academic approach less than useful in a day to day existence context . For OPs partner , the rational response would be to use his words to explain why this upset him. But his emotional response , formed from his lived experience was different
I see. I hope he takes care of you now. So, tell him straight away that these sorta things making you feel insecure and all. It's better if you ask him the questions you wrote jn the previous comment.
Keep in mind that you guys are 18 and it's kinda common for guys to look through porn. So, make him understand where you feel annoyed and afraid. I hope he is a good guy and responds well.
What does your therapist say when you tell them you don't think you deserve to be in a relationship?
so when your MIL snatched your baby from your arms, you wouldn’t say anything to her…you’d instead passive aggressively post some tik tok criticizing baby snatchers clearly directed at your MIL?
That's cool. We never had anything left, though LOL
Well, at least you can learn from it and move on. We all make mistakes and bad decisions. Just apart of life
Ok fun ! So , my son is terrified of spiders. We on-line in a country where spiders are never going to be a danger . We have educated him on this , and he rationally understands the factual information that said tiny spider is not of any risk to him . And yet ,he demonstrates emotional responses that make no rational sense. are his emotional responses rational and reasonable in a way that will make his life better ?
I understand that to say in an academic sense that emotions are irrational is to suggest that they have not hit their intended target therefore all emotions from academic perspective are therefore rational , but the reality of normal human behaviour ,in particular trauma response , makes this less academic approach less than useful in a day to day existence context . For OPs partner , the rational response would be to use his words to explain why this upset him. But his emotional response , formed from his lived experience was different
I see. I hope he takes care of you now. So, tell him straight away that these sorta things making you feel insecure and all. It's better if you ask him the questions you wrote jn the previous comment.
Keep in mind that you guys are 18 and it's kinda common for guys to look through porn. So, make him understand where you feel annoyed and afraid. I hope he is a good guy and responds well.