If you've talked to him this issue and he refuses to make a change or put in any effort to fix the issue, tell him you want marriage counseling.
I'd be tempted to stop him mid sex and tell him he can finish himself off. Petty? Sure. Some people only lear through experience. and at this point what motivation does he have to change? He clearly doesn't care if you feel sexually satisfied. He's getting what he wants, he assumes he'll just keep getting what he wants, he has no reason to change. Sex is something he does to you, he couldn't care less about your experience, your feelings, your fulfilment.
All utilities get moved into his name effective your move out date. Storage gets moved into his name at the same time. Your name is taken off everything but the lease, and make sure you put it in writing that you are not renewing at the end of your lease.
Him having a bed or any of that extra stuff falls into a “His problem” bucket. Don't worry about those things.
I would talk to him and voice your issue in a respectful manner.
If you don’t, you’ll continue to resent him and he’ll have no idea why.
It’s a double edged sword but sometimes you need the willpower to do something many won’t to have a chance at something great again.
If you've talked to him this issue and he refuses to make a change or put in any effort to fix the issue, tell him you want marriage counseling.
I'd be tempted to stop him mid sex and tell him he can finish himself off. Petty? Sure. Some people only lear through experience. and at this point what motivation does he have to change? He clearly doesn't care if you feel sexually satisfied. He's getting what he wants, he assumes he'll just keep getting what he wants, he has no reason to change. Sex is something he does to you, he couldn't care less about your experience, your feelings, your fulfilment.
This is my motto! Michael is a life changer hahaha
All utilities get moved into his name effective your move out date. Storage gets moved into his name at the same time. Your name is taken off everything but the lease, and make sure you put it in writing that you are not renewing at the end of your lease.
Him having a bed or any of that extra stuff falls into a “His problem” bucket. Don't worry about those things.
Very good point.
Does one of you tend to be more dominant or more submissive in the bedroom?