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Well, it sounds like you two still have some walls between you.
You're confused about the distance between you two, wondering what it means. How can we provide that information for you? You need to be capable of having that type of conversation in your relationships, you're missing a layer of depth with your partner here.
You should talk with her. Be brutally honest in how you feel. That is what you need in a reletionship. After you have that conversation, that is when you decide what is best for you. You don't make this decision based on nothing. You need her side of things and honesty to have clarity here.
Why would she be leaving the door open to meet someone else? That’s weird. I’d admit to the test but break up asap. It’s like she’s waiting for someone better to come. Essentially “wants her cake and eat it too”
“Hey, look, I think it’s great that you guys want me there, but this weekend will be about you two catching up and you’ll be able to do that much better if you don’t have to involve me in things.
I’m not interested in going to a casino, they are too noisy and crushed with people and I will just be anxious all the time. You go, and have a great time without having to wonder how I’m feeling all the time”.
So he's supposed to stay in a relationship that doesn't work for imaginary points from society for being “mature”? That's emotional immaturity and really horrible for a child. Trust me, my parents stayed together because that's what you did. I ended up dreaming they'd divorce
I keep coming back to this post. It’s too funny.
This comment has me dead.
Dude really thought he had something there.
Went through my comment point by point with ever escalating crazy nonsense.
Spooky.
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No no. It’s just other women he thinks should be forced to give birth. Not me!
Well, it sounds like you two still have some walls between you.
You're confused about the distance between you two, wondering what it means. How can we provide that information for you? You need to be capable of having that type of conversation in your relationships, you're missing a layer of depth with your partner here.
You should talk with her. Be brutally honest in how you feel. That is what you need in a reletionship. After you have that conversation, that is when you decide what is best for you. You don't make this decision based on nothing. You need her side of things and honesty to have clarity here.
Why are you acting like the house is worth more than 20k? It could be an absolute shithole
Why would she be leaving the door open to meet someone else? That’s weird. I’d admit to the test but break up asap. It’s like she’s waiting for someone better to come. Essentially “wants her cake and eat it too”
“Hey, look, I think it’s great that you guys want me there, but this weekend will be about you two catching up and you’ll be able to do that much better if you don’t have to involve me in things.
I’m not interested in going to a casino, they are too noisy and crushed with people and I will just be anxious all the time. You go, and have a great time without having to wonder how I’m feeling all the time”.
Something like that.
Wouldn’t waste the effort on you.
That’s very different.
Constantly explained my indifference to your results.
You should know already but you made life decisions with zero information. Not wise.
Who cares what he thinks is my question? It was a boundary you defined. He did it again, and you’re sticking around?
To answer your question (what should I do?), you leave him.
Just go no contact and wait for her to come to you
So he's supposed to stay in a relationship that doesn't work for imaginary points from society for being “mature”? That's emotional immaturity and really horrible for a child. Trust me, my parents stayed together because that's what you did. I ended up dreaming they'd divorce
Doesn’t matter. Shut it down. It could become an emotional affair if she’s allowed to contact him.