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Date: October 23, 2022
People*** don’t listen when they’ve been allowed to continue behaving as though there’s nothing wrong with how they on-line, which there wouldn’t be, if they lived alone. Living together is a partnership made of many compromises.
Once upon a time, I lived with someone for around 4 years. I knew this person for around 5 years prior to that, and they had never lived away from their mother, gods bless her, who was a registered nurse. She is lovely, but what how she kept things at work is how she kept things in her home, which meant that this person I was with had never had to pick up after themselves.
The relationship lasted 4 years, but it should’ve ended after 1.5 or so. We both worked the same hours, at the same company, though I got home an hour after he did. Dinner? Never once made. Not even a simple spaghetti and sauce, which would take 10 minutes. Nothing. Laundry? Strewed all over. Hair shavings? Fused to the sink with chalky toothpaste residue. Retelling this story gives me the worst firsthand secondhand embarrassment, for myself. I asked if he would make dinner once in a while, “it wouldn’t be as good as yours” laundry, “I’ll probably mess it up and again things”, cleaning…well.
The straw was when I stopped cleaning and he lamented having his friends come over, because things had gotten so out of hand. I only made my side of the bed, stored all the spare dishes away except for 1 of each plate/bowl/cutlery. He asked if I wanted people over with the house “looking like this, it’s embarrassing” and I told him he can have people over if he cleans, because he should be embarrassed, since the only reason it looked that way was because of his inaction.
I could speculate, but you should probably tell him everything you've said in your post. That's the only way to know for sure.
Yes, it sounds like it was intentional. And it could be for any number of reasons
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Somewhere along the line your relationship has turned into something deeply unhealthy.
I get that you want to save it but honestly the only hope you have of this relationship going the distance is if you take your power back and stop grovelling.
Your husband is bullying you and youre letting him. He asked you to do something by a certain date and you did… so now he's making up bullshit reasons why that still isn't good enough after all?
Thats a him problem not a you problem.
I'm 100% ADHD. I've been taking medication for about 6 months now. I notice a big improvement in concentration but not a lot of help with defensiveness.
I've been feeling a lot of shame my whole life about being confused so the defence mechanism is really really entrenched.
I don't want to identify as a victim, I'm looking to be accountable but I do worry that this is organic and I can't change 🙁
The only issue, would be if and when you have kids.
Do not get her back OP!
This woman told you, in so many words, that in order to be with her you have to let her do and say whatever she pleases, whenever she pleases and are not allowed to have any feelings on the subject! So you have to accept her totally but she doesn't have to reciprocate, in fact you're supposed to be what she wants you to be.
Let her go and find someone who doesn't mind being irrelevant in a relationship, find someone who respects you and doesn't expect to have their cake and eat it.
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He lied to you, RED FLAG, I would ask him how was your coffee at ??????? Place, I hear the women are pretty sexy. See what he says and if he lies to you again call him out and walk away
Laweyr up now! There is no coming back from this.
He has a history of lying. He isn't going to tell the truth.
Actions speak louder than words. Prove it to him instead of just making promises.
You could make a tally of how many times you've told him you're not into it, but not say anything about what it is until he asks. Leave it somewhere like next to the light switch, so he'll be sure to see it. When he finally asks, tell him that this is all the times you've told him no but he keeps trying to pressure you into doing something you don't want to do, you know, like a rapist would.
I'm so glad you're feeling a bit better Andy ❤ How'd the second appointment go – did they get into the cause/rule things out?
I'd like that too ? Sorry for the late response…I get tired of Reddit sometimes ?
I don’t think that it’s that he doesn’t see you as worthy, and I’m sure he is extremely grateful for everything that you do. Both of you should get to know eachother extremely well before making a commitment like marriage and there is no harm in waiting if you are in a serious relationship. You’re both young and you have only been together a year.
Hell, I would have slowly and cautiously rode Paul Newman's dick right up til the end.
He wouldn't do this without my permission if we are still together
And everyone in this thread tells you that they will do whatever they want.
Again: decent friends or partners don't talk about having sex with each other behind your back.
See a lawyer ASAP and get it in writing what you want to give to your children. If he outlives you your children will be shit out of luck.
It isn't, at least for me
It is hard to aim though, makes for annoying mornings half the time trying to not spray in between the seat and also not dip my boner in the water
Then I have to do some stretching or think about Rosie O'Donnell or something to make it go away
But me and my 4 decades of having a dick must be wrong
You pushed him away and now that he's met someone who fulfills him and makes him feel loved, you want him back? You're like a selfish child who doesn't want to share their toys.
Stop being so cruel and let him go so he can finally be happy. Maybe learn how to be happy and less cruel. You have been a bad wife to him and that will be a naked pill to swallow. The fact you can't even see how callous you've been further proves that you truly see yourself as the victim and you are excusing your behaviour.
That man deserves to find happiness and he isn't finding it with you. Accept that.
Lmao she wasn't a “hard kid” you were a bad parent. I wish I could feel empathy for you but frankly I don't even feel like you deserve it. You abused the shit out of her and ruined her chances at having a decent life. You blame it on being young and for being left but you didn't have to keep your kid.
You sound mentally ill and what is currently happening to your daughter is your fault. And you're still making excuses for it. There's NO excuse for it. Being young, being broke, being mentally ill, being a single parent – NONE of that excuses the horrible way you treated your daughter. You shouldn't even call yourself a parent tbh.
If she doesn't want to talk to you I can't blame her. You can apologize to her, ideally in a way that takes actual responsibility – not this “hard kid” bologna. You can start trying to be a parent, too if she wants you to be one. If she doesn't you should respect that and get yourself into therapy and start working on yourself as it's really the least you can do.
If these are the jokes he's making a short while in, this is who he is and what his sense of humour is, and that's either acceptable to you or not, but asking or expecting him to change it for you isn't fair.
Not really
If you currently don't like her and that feeling has been growing each year, and rightfully so, then you don't have many choices.
You can start documenting, and plan to divorce. I wouldn't be able to come back from her abusive treatment, but if you think you could, you can separate and each seek individual counseling.
Either way, you are going to have to be more confrontational, or continue not speaking, she needs to be put on serious notice that you and your son are no longer going to be abused. If you're paying for daycare to protect your son, she needs to get a job. Don't continue to fully support her to the extent you have been.
I’m going to assume that a calm conversation with her isn’t possible? If yea, this is a terrible and j healthy environment for you and especially your son. Add a layer to know your options, prelate an exit plan. She’s sounds very unhappy and may react in a hostile manner when you inform her you want to end the marriage. Change all your passwords on everything. I’m sorry, I hope you and your skin end up in a better place.
One you need to confront and tell her and 2 it’s better to rasie a child ina home where the parents don’t hate each other then having a home we’re their is constant doubt and trust issues
Honestly, I’d leave before I ended up pregnant. Life is too short to spend waiting on a lazy, unappreciative man that you resent. You probably have another 50 years on this planet, I sure wouldn’t want to spend it like this.
In the meantime, get yourself dinner on the way home. Just yourself. And continue doing so until he gets off his ass and contributes.
Ok but how do I bring it up without making him feel bad or pressured? I’ve been sexually pressured before and I don’t want to do that to someone else. I want his interest in me to be genuine and rooted in his own desire, not just to satisfy me
You know he thinks you're dumb right? And he's kinda right if you believe this BS
I remember being one of the many to ask for more info and Jesus. If I were you, I'd just end the relationship. It's clear he doesn't understand that work priorities you have and that you cannot control. He doesn't sound like a very supportive partner in general if he knew all of this happening that night. I couldn't imagine having a partner in your field and not checking with them often ” Hey how are you holding up? ” because dealing with trauma patients is EXHAUSTING on all damn levels.
I'm sorry to hear about the little boy, please know you tried your best. I appreciate the work you do, it's not for the faint of heart. Make sure youre taking care of yourself, mentally, physically and emotionally ?
It feels like your wife has responded out of her frustration over two things
1) She invites your parents to lots of events, they always decline, then they point out on social media that they wish they could have attended. The fact is they could have attended, they chose not to attend, yet they pretend on social media that they 'wish' they could have made it, but they don’t' say why, which can be seen as a dig on your wife and an request public request for an invitation next time.
2) Your parents are prioritizing your sisters kids over yours. Your wife senses this, and it makes her feel protective of your children, who will eventually figure this out at as well.
I do think you should stand by your wife on this, because your wife is standing by your children.
I do not think you should get in the middle and stir up something that is currently quiet, but clearly simmering below the surface since they are not talking
But eventually your mother will reach out and ask you to 'speak' to your wife, when that happens, simply state the 2 points above to your mother and do not chastise your wife.
Next time have your mom post, 'thanks for inviting us, we're sorry for missing it but we went to spend time with your sisters kids instead'
Wait, you mean like 16 minutes and 1 hour? I'm confused.
Either way, this person is messing with people. Their story doesn't add up in the slightest.
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But the thing is this is how can my son determine weather josh is good or not he's barely known him and I think he's just shy to have another person in the house
I hate to be the Redditor who jumps to “well, break up,” but if your girlfriend can't respect your boundaries, then the relationship is worth keeping up in my opinion. It's up to you what to do. However, if my partner didn't respect my boundaries after I clarified them and continued to do so after reminders, they wouldn't be my partner any longer.
He and K's bf are her only support system, if he asks K to leave it'll be way harder for her to get housing and provide for herself. I can on-line comfortably on my own, she can't.
“I didn’t want to blindside him”
So I decide to ambush him at our home with zero warning……
Do you understand what blindsiding means?!
Your partner has gone no contact with his mother because she repeatedly put him in toxic and dangerous situations. He gets to decide how to deal with that. Your job is to love and support him. Not decide what YOU think is best and force him to confront that issue. You massively failed and show zero remorse or accountability beyond not wanting him to leave you. You messed up! Your entire post is you trying to justify what you did, and defend his mother….. yikes!