Try going with him on some of these family events. Also, your boyfriend sounds insane. If my cousin ever had sexual relations with a kid, i would at least acknowledge my gf if she told me not to hangout with him.
what I want is that she comes clean but she has not. She has also searched train connections to the city where the boy lives which I have a proof of. Again she makes up stories when questioned. If she cant come clean I want a divorce , pretty clear
So while you're wife is working the big hours, you do have to pick up the household duties. It's just how it is really.
I don't mean to sound harsh (I'm also part time in our company hubby does full-time long ass hours and I'm full-time at home with 2 kids with high needs so I get the stress) but someone always has to take charge in the house and that's usually the partner that works the least or has the most flexible job.
I have no doubt you are tired and stressed and I also have no doubt that your wife knows it but you can't afford to lose income from either source. But this always ends in an imbalance of domestic duties.
Maybe look into some sort of budget for a cleaner to at least relieve some of that stress and remind yourself that it's ok to leave the dishes sometimes or have cereal for dinner or let the kids have a pj day!
Post partum hits everyone differently, especially c sections, I was fine with it. Because I love my partner and don't find connection through sex. Each to their own.
I’m in no way stuck, I have a decent job at the moment (working part time) and did go to university. I know I could support myself and my child if we separate and wouldn’t need to depend on family. I also don’t regret getting married that young, I feel it was the right thing for me personally. And to clarify, we met when I was 18, got engaged (religiously married) when I was 19 and moved in to on-line with each other when I was 20. It wasn’t as creepy or weird as you’ve mentioned
Try going with him on some of these family events. Also, your boyfriend sounds insane. If my cousin ever had sexual relations with a kid, i would at least acknowledge my gf if she told me not to hangout with him.
what I want is that she comes clean but she has not. She has also searched train connections to the city where the boy lives which I have a proof of. Again she makes up stories when questioned. If she cant come clean I want a divorce , pretty clear
Going to? They’ve probably already been at it
So while you're wife is working the big hours, you do have to pick up the household duties. It's just how it is really.
I don't mean to sound harsh (I'm also part time in our company hubby does full-time long ass hours and I'm full-time at home with 2 kids with high needs so I get the stress) but someone always has to take charge in the house and that's usually the partner that works the least or has the most flexible job.
I have no doubt you are tired and stressed and I also have no doubt that your wife knows it but you can't afford to lose income from either source. But this always ends in an imbalance of domestic duties.
Maybe look into some sort of budget for a cleaner to at least relieve some of that stress and remind yourself that it's ok to leave the dishes sometimes or have cereal for dinner or let the kids have a pj day!
Post partum hits everyone differently, especially c sections, I was fine with it. Because I love my partner and don't find connection through sex. Each to their own.
I’m in no way stuck, I have a decent job at the moment (working part time) and did go to university. I know I could support myself and my child if we separate and wouldn’t need to depend on family. I also don’t regret getting married that young, I feel it was the right thing for me personally. And to clarify, we met when I was 18, got engaged (religiously married) when I was 19 and moved in to on-line with each other when I was 20. It wasn’t as creepy or weird as you’ve mentioned
Ask him to quit drinking. If the answer is no , then leave.