Yeah, I think it’s because as a woman I’ve resented the times I’ve had to fake having a boyfriend/husband just to get flirty guys to leave me alone because they respect another man’s “claim” more than my own choice and disinterest.
If the coworker was a man would you feel differently? The fact that she’s a therapist makes it seem practical to do. Also I assume he was honest with you and that’s why you know about it. I think you need to discuss your mistrust (and possible paranoia) in your next couple’s therapy session. Don’t search for additional things to worry about. Focus on the underlying reason why you two are in therapy in the first place.
I've made comments that to me were in jest but were really hurting him.
What comments did you make specifically?
What’s a cooker? Genuinely asking
The man needs recovery time.
Physically go to him, jfc. Being so wishy washy and looking for a ‘safe’ way to be a good person and fucking tell him is exhausting.
Yeah, I think it’s because as a woman I’ve resented the times I’ve had to fake having a boyfriend/husband just to get flirty guys to leave me alone because they respect another man’s “claim” more than my own choice and disinterest.
Make sure you’re doing at least 50% of the baby care when you’re at home.
yes. that is called being a parent.
If the coworker was a man would you feel differently? The fact that she’s a therapist makes it seem practical to do. Also I assume he was honest with you and that’s why you know about it. I think you need to discuss your mistrust (and possible paranoia) in your next couple’s therapy session. Don’t search for additional things to worry about. Focus on the underlying reason why you two are in therapy in the first place.
I'm thinking this is at the root of it.
Ding ding ding