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Date: October 24, 2022
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See, and i felt it was in a manner of mitigating some expected blowback that would be had, had she not explained his general way of thinking since he otherwise comes off rigid and malicious
Try not to project something you're sensitive about on every situation, it could very well be different
Good luck only you can make the decision of staying or going. Take time to think about what you want then develop a plan to make it happen which ever you decide.
Trust & loyalty are gone. Those are two important relationship foundations for a strong healthy relationship. Idk about you but for me it’s a deal breaker. I wouldn’t be able to trust at all & to live! like that every day is not something I’d put up with.
I am worried about you.
What he is saying is absurd. Even if everything else about him were perfect (and it isn't or you would not have decided to friend-zone him after one date) this request demonstrates a complete lack of maturity and intelligence.
Do you know what kept you from immediately telling him to lose your number?
The danger of the indoctrination is the mindset, and the compleye lack of critical thinking skills being thought.
If you're okay with the kids saying “Oh you supported Trump, so you must be racist”. Then you're teaching them that it's okay to say “You don't want to date a lesbian, so you must be homophobic”.
I sure as FUCK would remove anyone from my life for addiction, no matter who it was.
I followed too many people down their black holes of addiction to ever do that again. From my junkie ex who was the worst addict I've been close to (dead) to my ex husband who wouldn't stop drinking, (dead) and another ex who loved women a little too much (not dead, but has a lot of kids) I'm all done with forgiveness and turning the other cheek. They have problems, they can figure it out on their own time, not mine.
I'm not saying that you have to do anything different, just that having a different reaction to addiction is okay, too. And not that you said it wasn't, I'm basically just making a counter point for others.
Good advice thank you
Thanks for answering and the support. Yes you are right
He is definitely not a psychologist, at least he does not know how to use psychology in his relationship. He is driving you away with his know-it-all attitude and comes off as arrogant and narcissistic.
So tell him he should go off and learn about relationship dynamics before he tries to have a relationship with you or anybody else.
And you definitely do not want to have children with someone who does this. Even the children will not want to a have a father who does this.
Is your daughter staying with the sister a possibility? Have you spent any real length of time with your daughter previous to this? Have you spent any time taking care of a child before this? Has your wife even met the child? If you don’t love your wife and are ready for a divorce, just tell her and get it over with. But recognize that taking care of a child as a single parent is nude. If you actually want the possibility of keeping your wife (still no guarantee that she won’t leave – frankly I would) you should consider allowing the daughter to stay with the sister while you start with short visitations and allowing your wife to meet the child to see if it’s something she can or wants to emotionally deal with. Then you should send your wife on vacation and take care of the child by yourself for two weeks. Make sure you can hack it before blowing up your entire life. Because it would be bad for everyone if you take in that child and ruin your marriage, and then give her back to the sister or foster care because it’s too hot.
Its mothers day?
Yep, we will stay tuned for that saga. He ignored everyone about the threesome. In this post he’s wishy washy and went on and on about why he is considering it even though it’s all been manipulated by dishonest means. He’s about to find out which stupid prize he is going to win, playing this stupid game. Or, we might see the wife on here whining about how her affair partner and hubby are way too close for her comfort. Either way, fools game.
It’s too soon. Way too soon. Give it a couple more months, then see.
There are two scenarios:
1) He is just “love bombing” you to get you back so he can get back to the status quo to control you.
2) He is feeling remorse
If you ever feel that he is actually showing remorse, then he has to prove it for many months and not just a week.
Go see a lawyer and see if separation is thing in your state and if you can get him to move out.
Tell your husband that the control and abuse is too much and if he truly feels remorse and wants to change his ways he needs to get therapy and prove that you and the children can be treated with respect for a year before you have any interactions with him. If he is truly sorry he will be happy to do anything he can to get you all back. But I suspect he isn't. He doesn't want to pay child support or cook his own food or get a worse place to live! or look bad.
ouhhhh didn't think about that part
Two grown ass working adults can't put together $1500 a month?