She wouldn't “let” him go on the vacation, so she had to come along as a “compromise”? Why does he need to get her permission? He's an adult, he can make his own choices.
Personally, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who has to get permission from their mommy before doing anything.
I know you said you’re not religious, but what does your religion say about this situation. Running and hiding is pretty dishonourable no matter what your culture is.
I imagine it’s common that when one party reacts to physical abuse by hitting back it can feel like it’s less the instigators fault. But if you hadn’t hit back, he’s still hit you. And he’s done it before. And he’s not even treating you like a partner without that. It’s time to get divorced. Before the shared house, before children. Just get out. Do not make this your life.
No, get a life.
She wouldn't “let” him go on the vacation, so she had to come along as a “compromise”? Why does he need to get her permission? He's an adult, he can make his own choices.
Personally, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who has to get permission from their mommy before doing anything.
I know you said you’re not religious, but what does your religion say about this situation. Running and hiding is pretty dishonourable no matter what your culture is.
It's a paternity test. It tests paternity. He wants proof the baby is his… ergo…
I imagine it’s common that when one party reacts to physical abuse by hitting back it can feel like it’s less the instigators fault. But if you hadn’t hit back, he’s still hit you. And he’s done it before. And he’s not even treating you like a partner without that. It’s time to get divorced. Before the shared house, before children. Just get out. Do not make this your life.
No, you're not asking for too much. In fact, it's healthy to have some social activities outside of the relationship.
Weaponized incompetence for sure, he’s trying to make OP feel bad for daring to make him do something other than sit on his ass.
Aka. He’s a little bitch.