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I think honestly the issue here is accountability. Op is already unable to deal with the life she. Add to that the totally idiotic way she and her boyfriend handled their contraceptive choices and you have a situation in which it seems highly irresponsible to bring another child. To put it mildly. If I’m straight forward this is trashy situation with some pretty dumb fucking people with no business adding to the world’s population further.
She's guilt tripping you because she's ashamed for telling her parents to stay shorter amount of time. She doesn't want to be THAT daughter who appears 'unkind' toward their parents.
She doesn't want her parents to feel as if they're a burden and feel like they're trespassing. She's just trying to be the 'good daughter.'
Realistically thou? They are trespassing on your privacy. But Chinese…culture is so different that we often don't see things like that. Even if we do, we will not say that to our parents, because they are the elders.
I don't recall the term in English for that, but there's a term for that.
Although, now that I'm married to an American man, I kind of get the whole 'needing privacy' bit and I got to say, I don't know if I can live with my parents for 6 months straight. We have talked about letting my parent move in one day when they can't take care of their house, and our plan is to buy a big land so they can online in the same land but different properties LOL.
Your parents prefer to enable your brother in order to “keep the peace” in the family, while also doing the opposite by ignoring your concerns and preferences. They can't have it both ways.
Since it is their house they can call the shots with who stays over, and I think you renting a place from your friend while he's in town is the best decision. You've already been clear with your mom with your issues with your brother and your intentions with the holidays, and she's hoping you'll reconsider to continue to “keep the peace.” It's your call whether you want to do that, but YOU won't be the one causing the peace to be disrupted by deciding to stay elsewhere for the holidays. Your brother and parents did when they discounted your feelings.
I'd recommend sticking to the plan you had already, and don't be vague but be firm with your mom on what your plans are.
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I’m so glad you’re alive because all of this reads like a nightmare. You literally could have been unalived meeting this stranger that no one in your life knows exists. A 29yr has no business speaking to a 15 yr old – he is a predator and a creep. You’ve put yourself in so much danger because you’re hung up on “being nice” and not “hurting his feelings.” This person should never have known where you online. Please tell someone.
I think honestly the issue here is accountability. Op is already unable to deal with the life she. Add to that the totally idiotic way she and her boyfriend handled their contraceptive choices and you have a situation in which it seems highly irresponsible to bring another child. To put it mildly. If I’m straight forward this is trashy situation with some pretty dumb fucking people with no business adding to the world’s population further.
She's guilt tripping you because she's ashamed for telling her parents to stay shorter amount of time. She doesn't want to be THAT daughter who appears 'unkind' toward their parents.
She doesn't want her parents to feel as if they're a burden and feel like they're trespassing. She's just trying to be the 'good daughter.'
Realistically thou? They are trespassing on your privacy. But Chinese…culture is so different that we often don't see things like that. Even if we do, we will not say that to our parents, because they are the elders.
I don't recall the term in English for that, but there's a term for that.
Although, now that I'm married to an American man, I kind of get the whole 'needing privacy' bit and I got to say, I don't know if I can live with my parents for 6 months straight. We have talked about letting my parent move in one day when they can't take care of their house, and our plan is to buy a big land so they can online in the same land but different properties LOL.
No one gets addicted to weed. I mean… right? I don't smoke it, but like, that's not a thing.
Your parents prefer to enable your brother in order to “keep the peace” in the family, while also doing the opposite by ignoring your concerns and preferences. They can't have it both ways.
Since it is their house they can call the shots with who stays over, and I think you renting a place from your friend while he's in town is the best decision. You've already been clear with your mom with your issues with your brother and your intentions with the holidays, and she's hoping you'll reconsider to continue to “keep the peace.” It's your call whether you want to do that, but YOU won't be the one causing the peace to be disrupted by deciding to stay elsewhere for the holidays. Your brother and parents did when they discounted your feelings.
I'd recommend sticking to the plan you had already, and don't be vague but be firm with your mom on what your plans are.
Someone really hurt you huh?
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I’m so glad you’re alive because all of this reads like a nightmare. You literally could have been unalived meeting this stranger that no one in your life knows exists. A 29yr has no business speaking to a 15 yr old – he is a predator and a creep. You’ve put yourself in so much danger because you’re hung up on “being nice” and not “hurting his feelings.” This person should never have known where you online. Please tell someone.
Well isn't that what all wives do?
If you're not mature enough to tell your boyfriend to bring condoms and you're not mature enough to buy them, you're not mature enough for sex
I would like to get information on how you made a prenup to help protect yourself incase of a divorce? Any links to templates or helpful information?