That’s not true at all. People absolutely can and do change. Sometimes divorces Dre avoided by said change. But change takes a lot of time and naked work and introspection and being willing to admit that you’re wrong. Not everyone (including op’s fiancé, by the sound of it) is willing or able to do that.
The toxic one here is her. She wants to hang out with a ex FWB, then she wants to invite him to your wedding, and gets pissed and accuses you of being toxic when you push back and say you don't want him there.
This is how your relationship will go for the remainder of the time. It won't matter what you want or how you feel, only what she wants, and if you don't allow her to have her way, then you are toxic and the bad person.
Yeah it's not hormones. Your husband has sucked so astronomically throughout this whole process and literally given up nothing. You should divorce him and find a partner, not stay with the unhelpful overgrown man child you're with now.
Then why does my actions affect him so much?
His dick is do big it has two time zones.
How has her relationship with her daughter been this whole time since some guy was mining for diamonds in her?
That’s not true at all. People absolutely can and do change. Sometimes divorces Dre avoided by said change. But change takes a lot of time and naked work and introspection and being willing to admit that you’re wrong. Not everyone (including op’s fiancé, by the sound of it) is willing or able to do that.
Sounds to me like you need to lose the husband instead. Coming from a husband.
This bugs me because why bother wasting your time if he thought your genes weren't ideal.
It sounds like he likes controlling you.
Bake a cake for him in a flavour you know he likes. That's something that makes me incredibly happy. Also a letter of appreciation maybe?
Give it back and break up. If you can't bring yourself to break up, give it back and refuse to discuss this further.
My advice is don't get married
The toxic one here is her. She wants to hang out with a ex FWB, then she wants to invite him to your wedding, and gets pissed and accuses you of being toxic when you push back and say you don't want him there.
This is how your relationship will go for the remainder of the time. It won't matter what you want or how you feel, only what she wants, and if you don't allow her to have her way, then you are toxic and the bad person.
Why do you want to marry someone like that?
Thank you ?
Yeah it's not hormones. Your husband has sucked so astronomically throughout this whole process and literally given up nothing. You should divorce him and find a partner, not stay with the unhelpful overgrown man child you're with now.
You’re kidding surely?
Do these weekends away include you sleeping with others?
If I didn’t have bad luck, I wouldn’t have luck at all.
Not quite how it works. High is just mens you’re processing things faster so what happens is your brain skips a couple steps ahead of itself.