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The impulse you get to “over share” is caused by a desire to feel accepted, wanted and fully seen. This desire is appropriate, but this method is not.
Over sharing is a response to past trauma. It is a sign that we have not developed a strong sense of who we are, or of accepting ourselves. It is not a moral failing or a character flaw, it simply is a sign that means you need to attend to this part of your growth.
Listen to me now. Only your best friend should hear about your sexual escapades, but even then, details are not needed. ZERO of your sexual partners should have access to this information. Ever. Before you decide to share information with someone, always ask yourself 3 questions as a guide.
“Is it true? Is it helpful? Is it kind?”
In this case, the details may be true, so that’s a check mark. But it is not helpful to give your partner details about your past sex life. For the love of god don’t ask about his. It is also not kind, to disclose private and intimate details about an experience you had before you even met. It had great potential to cause miscommunication and hurt feelings for no reason at all.
Your boyf should not be seeking this information either. It’s ok to give a new relationship “your number” bc you’re still very young yourself and learning what to do. But as you mature this will become of little to no importance to you or your partner. The quality of the person and relationship are what give it value, not the persons past.
If I could recommend something to you, it would be to read the book “Why Men Love Bitches”. As I said, overhearing is a trauma response. A sign you need to work on your inner confidence and power. This book can help you fake it till you make it. Read it to help give you some power back immediately, bc you are giving it away and don’t realize it yet.
Practice self compassion as well. My dad used to say “that’s not a mistake, that’s just information.” (He’s a scientist). There is no “mistake” you made with your past. There are only experiences, and most people don’t care for all the experiences they have ever had. They care about a handful. Focus on your handful of meaningful experiences and call the rest “information” about things you’d rather not do in the future.
Can you imagine what a boring, obtuse, small human you would be if you never tried anything new to discover what you liked or didn’t like? You’d have to stay under your covers locked up in your room for the rest of your life to avoid it!
Start reading books and articles about healing yourself and restoring your personal power and confidence. Therapy if you can afford it. You’re a lovely young woman and smart to seek advice. That means you’re ready to hear it, and on the right path for self growth. ❤️ get to it dear.
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Lmaoo deleting your post is a pussy move, you know what you did wrong bro accept it.
I want to go back and take care of little kid you ?
Again she can't report them. She doesn't have proof of them doing anything on company time. Do you really think HRs are going to talk to a spouse about things going on at the company? No, they won't. They have a duty to the company.
Your reading comprehension is terrible. Lana is not changing her skin colour, she's just tanned ffs
oh yeah, screw this guy. If he doesn't even want to make plans with you FIVE MONTHS from now, and has shown no interest otherwise, in seeing you, or even make efforts for you to feel loved, you are no longer in a relationship.
That makes perfect sense. You can’t fix her though.
So if not in bars where?
I'm surprised you guys are surprised. In the companies I worked for, the cheating sleazebags kept all the cheating stuff on their work emails because it's the last thing spouses look at because it's work, it's boring job stuff – supposedly.
There are over 7 billion people in the world. We all don’t get along with everyone. It happens.
So you just have to accept it. Take whatever lessons you’ve learned from the experience, remember the good times and continue on your way.
It’s only a waste if you’ve learned nothing from the experience.