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Date: October 26, 2022
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Yes, I would want to know. Tell her in an short but caring message, you wouldn't want this to happen to you either
Your feelings are natural. They're a result of being a young human male, and not the result of some defect in you, or some problem with your relationship. This fact is one reason why young men stereotypically struggle with monogamy.
Don't be that guy – if you decide (and it's a valid choice) that you want to explore these impulses and be promiscuous, don't chest on your partner – end or modify the terms of your relationship first.
It's also perfectly valid to choose not to indulge these impulses. You're a person, and you get to make that choice.
Telling your partner is a good idea, but it has to be done with care and forethought, so she doesn't hear “I no longer find you attractive and I want to cheat on you”
Does your girlfriend have a difficult time taking about or processing negative feelings? She might have needed to sit with this thing for a while by herself. It's not fair to you and you have every right to be upset. But maybe give her a little grace.
One word, LOYALTY. One of the most important attributes a spouse and especially a woman will show her man. He is probably just not saying it in the sophisticated way you wish to hear. But clearly, his actions speak louder so please listen to that and don’t sabotage a good thing.
Are you sure about her mom and needing permission to go to the movies? I mean she’s not 9 years old.
From your narrative that is nowhere in the post or history?
They had a deep conversation about their relationship, he made it clear that her feelings are inapproriate even if she doesn't have control over them. He set some boundaries and she made the choice to stay with him because she thinks he's the better option for her life. She feels “stuck” because she still has some feelings for you. The best way to letting those feelings dissapate is to go low contact with you (soft ghost) or she's just respecting her fiance's boundaries.
If you're in love with her and you're serious about wanting to pursue a relationship with her then now is your chance to tell her how you feel. Its a life altering decision so choose wisely. Its fucked up for the fiance/close friend. Take into consideration of your character and where your moral lie but ultimately do whats best for you. If she says she still loyal to her fiance, you have to cut them off because you.
If you don't have any feelings and are just worried about your friendship, it sucks, but you have to respect their boundaries. If she distance herself completely then you have to respect it and move on.
I think these comments are trying to be helpful but it’s making me feel a bit icky how infantilizing they are towards OP’s wife. Like suggesting the onus is on him to find her a hobby or something to distract her while he gets his own time.
Everyone is allowed some alone time and it sounds like OP is trying to do his best to balance his time. It’s common for mothers to lose their identity especially once they have kids. She needs to be her own person and if she is struggling with that maybe some therapy would help. All your free time still won’t make her happy if she isn’t happy as an individual.
I mean this in the most sincere way she needs to work this out as I’m sure she wasn’t always so reliant on OP socially. Does she have friends? Family? You can’t be her one and only adult friend because that’s how you burn out. Not saying she is a bad person at all btw.
Is he one of these guys that thinks a toy will “stretch you out” & ruin it for him?
He might belong in /r/badwomensanatomy
Does he exhibit any other controlling behaviours? such as tell you what you can & cannot wear?
And together only 4 months. ?
How about being appreciative that you have a roof over your head provided by your in-laws. Spoiled much.
“that's fine, have a good life”
in the end you are lucky this happened now and not after you wasted half your life on her…
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
Tell her what your budget is and if she wants something more expensive than that, she can chip in on the difference. ?♀️
Or realize you’re dating someone who doesn’t align with your level of fiscal responsibility and think about that real very hot. Is she always going to want to spend your money and blow the budget?
Divorce him, get what money and property and alimony/child support YOU would be entitled to based on him being married to you and being the father of your children before proving that the other kids are his so his obligations to you and your children aren’t diminished by other interests. His obligations might get recalculated later, but get as much as you can as quickly as you can and get out of this train wreck of a marriage.
I love her to death and this has been absolute hell for me
Fixed it for you.
What you should be doing is realizing how toxic, and unstable this person is.
All she has done is break up with you, cheat, lie, and come crawling back to you.
She unblocks you so she gets your attention, and then taunts you with how happy she is.
The reason question here is… why have you not blocked her in return?
This girl is no good for you. The history between you two proves it.
Do you think this:
right now I feel exhausted and anxiety ridden to the point I just don’t care about anything anymore
Is any way to live! life?… its not. And she is the source of it.
You deserve a healthy relationship elsewhere. Its time to stand up for yourself, block her and never look back.
I know it may be hot at first, but I promise you, long term it will be the best decision you ever made. Leaving a toxic person behind and having a genuine healthy love elsewhere.
He told me he got his heart broken when he was 16, the girl he loved had sex with another guy in front of him. I guess there is no hope for him?
Thank you all for the advice, my flatmate telling me I’m an idiot was not enough and I needed to hear it from 100 other people. It was too good to be true and I wanted to believe it.
Why did you lie about being 21?
Your dad is a 22yo m and you're 21? Something doesn't math.
It honestly sounds like she just wants to break up with you and put the blame for the breakup on you.
It's a very dumb lie (I mean, if your father was alive, you could just ask him), but cowards who don't want to look like the 'bad guy' in a breakup have come up with dumber things.
Getting her side of the story isn't a bad idea, but I don't think you will find anything of value. There will either be more lies, deflection or, if she is actually honest, a guaranteed 100% idiotic reason for her behavior (wanting to control you, wanting have a reason to break up, whatever).
Also I am sorry for your loss. You're having a rough time right now and I hope you can get through it somehow. I lost a parent, too, and it's not easy.
We had all the pictures saved in our chat which keeps it from getting deleted which is why im a little conflicted even though i get where youre coming from.
Why the fuck would I agree with people whose answers are based off of assumptions?
You mean like assuming that you communicate with your wife the way you communicate here, which is an endless series of tedious rants and interrogations until someone tells you what you want to hear?
All these people telling you to abandon the cat have clearly never had one!
I am probably a little unpopular here in that I think you shouldn’t ghost here. It’ll likely be expensive, depending where you online you might run into each other anyway… in my experience you’ll need to end up having the conversation.
I think you need to think on this. Not for long but don’t have a conversation when you’re tired or when she is half asleep. You won’t get what you need from it.
It sounds to me like she needs something you aren’t giving her. She needs to sort that out herself. While she is doing that, can you leave or tell her she needs to leave or whatever.
You deserve to be loved by someone who respects you. Your girlfriend is currently too much in her own head for that.
Finally, if you are worried about a big fight, ask a female relative or friend to be there when you have your discussion.
All of this for misreading a date on a Calendar
You're making really bad choices here. Choices that make you look like a jealous, controlling child. And your prize is a person who can't respect your relationship. What are you doing?
I hope you see how amazing you are without being dragged back by someone else OP
I wish you so much happiness ✨
I would personally not expect people to stop watching porn for the sake of a relationship.
If you don't want porn in your relationship I suggest you look for somebody who simply doesn't watch it.
Of course the bigger issue with that is that as you see, a lot of people lie about it.
I don't envy your position on porn. Seems like a pain in the ass.