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Date: October 26, 2022
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This should have been something you are upfront about on a first date. You kinda screwed your self on this one. Tell him maybe he will take it well. But if he doesn’t lesson learned for you.
You're literally offended by anime
Dump him
100% this. It’s too early in my opinion
To be fair, I knew she was lewd before we got together but I thought it might slow down in a relationship.
So you knew what she was like and hoped she'd change? Dangerous assumption/hope.
When I’ve brought things up she says things along the lines of “I didn’t know that would bother you”. And then stops for a while but something similar occurs after a while.
Well that's far from unexpected it seems. Given you knew what she's like and chose to get in a relationship with her that's a fair statement from her as well?
It's like getting in a relationship with a Fireman and being shocked they need to go fight fires and saying you don't like them doing it.
This girl seems to literally use sexuality as a part of her personality – it's all about the sexy. If you're expecting this to change, well you've raised with her about it and it keeps happening.
Sit down, have a very honest conversation about how it makes you feel and ask her if she can consistently tone it down going forward or if this is something that is part of “her being her” that won't change. Her being honest and your acceptance of the answer matters.
If you can't handle it and she doesn't want to change? She doesn't need to, you and her are not going to have a future together, plain and simple.
Just because you agree to one type of relationship in the beginning doesn’t mean you don’t have the right to change your mind. It also doesn’t mean he has to be on board.
If you want more than casual now, tell him. If he still doesn’t, you can either be okay with that (make sure you actually are okay with it or resentment and anxieties will eat you alive), or you can move on.
Learning what you want and don’t want, your boundaries and needs within any relationship are crucial and can take time, but once you know, it’s important to communicate and then act accordingly.
Is cheating not a boundary? Cheating is something my partner does not me. Am I being controlling if I don’t want my partner to sleep with someone else?
Is cheating not a boundary? Cheating is something my partner does not me. Am I being controlling if I don’t want my partner to sleep with someone else?
Thank you, that's helpful.
Like I said, there's no way for anyone here to tell what's actually going on.
But from both of your posts, regardless of which one of you is telling the truth, it sounds like this relationship needed to end a long time ago. If her version is true, it needs to end. If yours is, it needs to end. And if neither of your versions are true, the fact both of you are even writing this content on both ends means the relationship needs to end.
It doesn't sound like this will get better. At all.