If you met a 30 year old woman, would you be ready to marry her and have kids in the next 2 years? Because that’s likely what many ~30 year old women want. And they probably think they’re not gonna get that from you.
lmao he wants to get his fuck on not ask her to invest in a startup, if he wants to bag and tag his own jizz that's his prerogative as weird as it is. We don't know anything about OP, so we can't start character assassinating.
Revictimization can be (emphasis on CAN) a symptom of PTSD. That's not an excuse for his behavior, just context. The humiliation is not okay, and you're entirely within your rights to need space to process what happened. I'd be angry if my partner peed on me without any warning, too.
He was manipulating you from day one. He’s playing sugar daddy and showing everyone his young trophy. He has nothing in common with you except bank rolling playtime with you as his toy. Now he’s bored with his toy. Instead of completely discarding you in case the other women don’t work out, he will have you as a fall back plan in the guise of an open relationship. Overall even without the age gap, you are not compatible and you’re the one that will get hurt.
I suggest you and he agree on a penalty for being late. One that is as playful as punitive, but punitive enough that he'll seek to avoid it. One that must be paid quickly or at once, not later, no IOUs. The idea is conditioning, not punishment or humiliation, not fear of your wrath, just this silly thing that reminds him that lateness has consequences.
My mum tended to hold things over my head if she helped me financially in the past, so I am reluctant to go down that direction. And yes, Australian. I think I’m going to move into my mums for a bit to give us both some space.
Again I think he’s just hoping for quick results and this is a good way to jump start the conversation
If you met a 30 year old woman, would you be ready to marry her and have kids in the next 2 years? Because that’s likely what many ~30 year old women want. And they probably think they’re not gonna get that from you.
I read the full paragraph and agree
Shut up.
lmao he wants to get his fuck on not ask her to invest in a startup, if he wants to bag and tag his own jizz that's his prerogative as weird as it is. We don't know anything about OP, so we can't start character assassinating.
Revictimization can be (emphasis on CAN) a symptom of PTSD. That's not an excuse for his behavior, just context. The humiliation is not okay, and you're entirely within your rights to need space to process what happened. I'd be angry if my partner peed on me without any warning, too.
Yeah this is clearly a waste of your time
So the guy came and picked her up , yeh that's just a big fuck you right there
Your pain stops when you finally say enough , she is 33 and still playing stupid games , leave her to them.
Serial AKA in series AKA multiple times. Twice is multiple times.
But the wife disagrees. But that’s ok since he’s the one dealing with her!
How long has he been in therapy?
He was manipulating you from day one. He’s playing sugar daddy and showing everyone his young trophy. He has nothing in common with you except bank rolling playtime with you as his toy. Now he’s bored with his toy. Instead of completely discarding you in case the other women don’t work out, he will have you as a fall back plan in the guise of an open relationship. Overall even without the age gap, you are not compatible and you’re the one that will get hurt.
I suggest you and he agree on a penalty for being late. One that is as playful as punitive, but punitive enough that he'll seek to avoid it. One that must be paid quickly or at once, not later, no IOUs. The idea is conditioning, not punishment or humiliation, not fear of your wrath, just this silly thing that reminds him that lateness has consequences.
My mum tended to hold things over my head if she helped me financially in the past, so I am reluctant to go down that direction. And yes, Australian. I think I’m going to move into my mums for a bit to give us both some space.