She needs to get her priorities figured out. You don't have to fund her move, either. If she moves there without you, what's the point of staying married?
As soon as one of them doesn’t want it to be platonic anymore it will quickly change to sexual. There are endless posts on reddit of these situations and it always involves stress and headache. Do yourself a favour and leave them to it.
Of course she would think that. If I saw another man’s face at the top of my wife of 25 years phone messages, I will ask her to hand me the phone immediately. We don’t negotiate on something like this. Listen, there are no secrets in a marriage if you want it to last. She’s untrustworthy.
Did you sit down and decide to separate cooking/cleaning as a team? Because reading this, to me cooking includes dishes if she’s doing the bulk of the other cleaning. If not, I would start there and see if she feels that it’s unbalanced.
Otherwise, I would let her be since she could be going through something she’s not wanting to talk about.
Give him an ultimatum, either he learns to be nice to people and speak to you with respect, or he can die alone and miserable. He’s a grown man, it’s his choice.
Your mom may be a saint in your eyes but you me it sounds like she let him walk all over the both of you your whole life, and that’s not something you want to emulate. Grow the backbone that she never did and take charge of your life.
Get really good at oral.
didn't even see that lol still fucked if true
my temper always rose up
What are you doing about this?
Haven’t you posted this before?
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She needs to get her priorities figured out. You don't have to fund her move, either. If she moves there without you, what's the point of staying married?
As soon as one of them doesn’t want it to be platonic anymore it will quickly change to sexual. There are endless posts on reddit of these situations and it always involves stress and headache. Do yourself a favour and leave them to it.
Of course she would think that. If I saw another man’s face at the top of my wife of 25 years phone messages, I will ask her to hand me the phone immediately. We don’t negotiate on something like this. Listen, there are no secrets in a marriage if you want it to last. She’s untrustworthy.
Did you sit down and decide to separate cooking/cleaning as a team? Because reading this, to me cooking includes dishes if she’s doing the bulk of the other cleaning. If not, I would start there and see if she feels that it’s unbalanced.
Otherwise, I would let her be since she could be going through something she’s not wanting to talk about.
Give him an ultimatum, either he learns to be nice to people and speak to you with respect, or he can die alone and miserable. He’s a grown man, it’s his choice.
Your mom may be a saint in your eyes but you me it sounds like she let him walk all over the both of you your whole life, and that’s not something you want to emulate. Grow the backbone that she never did and take charge of your life.
casual relationship
Should mean even easier to talk about these things