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Date: October 26, 2022
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The first year of a relationship is usually like this, both still getting to grips with the change of being in a relationship and not having the freedom to do what you want when you want. She’s entitled to go on her trips for the rest of her life, as are you. I agree that she has been quite insensitive, but who is saving to settle down after being together for a year? You should both be enjoying your time together and apart, the first year of a relationship should be exciting and new and full of new experiences and adventures. Perhaps plan a trip with her! There’s no rush to settle down and be serious yet, if you don’t have adventures together and make memories then both of you will only start to look back before the relationship and the fun you had when you were single.
You have profound psychological issues so no I can't. If you're really interested in change then you need psychiatric help and you shouldn't enter somebody else's life until you've got it.
I really hope you do, both for the people you might hurt and to help yourself to become more human instead of a character. Good luck.
Seems like there’s pieces to the puzzle that are missing.
If I had to guess, he is cheating and playing dumb when you try to talk to him.
And you’re coming off a little bit controlling because he obviously doesn’t want to talk to you about whatever the things are that you’re trying to get him to open up about emotionally. You can’t let it go because it’s bothering you.
What does your gut instinct tell you? if it wants a bunch of answers, it’s because there are questions and uncertainty.
Either trust him let him be who he is without getting angry that he’s not changing as you dictate or move on it’s simple. nothing will build in the future except resentment if you continue like this.
Good luck
You’re just upset that he blocked you, you don’t give a dam about “helping” his girlfriend. Just move on.
Yeah you would probably get it, if you had seen his post history lol ?
How did that arrangement come to be? Did you have an adult discussion about you wanting your own bedroom and her preferring to sleep with your kid or what happened?
Yeah man, I guess you're right. I see what you're saying
No that’s not what I’m saying. Of course she has, it’s not about the actual excuses it’s about the phrasing. Also not all people are neurotypical, smdh. That’s why I mentioned rejection sensitive dysphoria. I have a family member who is also an adult, but despite being a logical person has difficulty interpreting reasonable requests when they perceive it to be a rejection of them specifically. Then it completely short circuits their logic and becomes all about emotion. Usually when this happens, employing different phrasing, tone, and reassurance immediately resolves the issue. It’s like a switch in the brain.
All you guys on Reddit are just so ready to accuse people of being abusive and controlling for displaying a single bad behaviour without considering that other possibilities exist. OP stated that this is really the only thing they argue about. But yeah, I guess he must just be a controlling and unreasonable adult.
Sleeping with someone else while you guys aren’t exclusive is not cheating