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Sounds like what you think it is. Give him a chance to tell you but have your facts to hit him with. If he needed to sleep after the party and wanted to go to a hotel because he was so inebriated it would have been more than 5 hours of sleeping and he would have messaged you.
While the other dude was in OPs GF’s guts.
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Hang on – this post is about how he wants to on-line. But what do you want to save for? Is there a happy medium for you two? If you want to start a family, you can do that any time if you know he wants the same. That doesn't mean you need to stop doing the fun stuff because you have decided that is what yoy want, ask for a split of interets. For now, put xxx percent of money into savinga highlighted for famiky and put xxx towards the next adventure.
Every couple does it differently, if he's taking his lead from toy as to next steps then make a decision that benefits that next step.
As long as he understands that once your family has been started then the percentage for family savings to travelling savings need to be flipped in the family's favour. Until then, you're both making memories and having experiences that won't be possible with kids in tow.
What do you want to do? Plan the next year out in a practical sense with him. If you need to get his mum involved do so! (I've just handed my husband to his mum, he's being unreasonable about something and I've tried everything. Only a mum an help sometimes!)
No one is expecting her to treat OP's other kids better than her own with him. But, just as you said that HER kids are her priority, HIS kids are his priority. And half of his kids are with his ex. The current wife needs to accept this fact, and butt out.
Oops its actually 57F Mom ?♀️
Sometimes people say things to be mean (or perhaps in this type situation to put someone off wanting to have sex with them) without meaning it or it being true. Drunkenness doesn’t always equal honesty like some folks believe. Drinking to blackout levels very much removes you from reality.
I have really tried to ask him to work on his communication and regulation of his anger, because for me, no matter what, the way he reacts to stress/fits of anger doesn’t work for me. I don’t like the feeling of walking on eggshells when there is something wrong with him. I have tried to ask him to go to individual therapy, couples therapy— it’s usually the same thing of “there is nothing wrong with me. therapy is for people who have issues, I don’t have issues.” I have tried to grow with him and try to figure out what is wrong, but it feels like a really complicated puzzle.
I will check out the book you suggested. Hopefully it gives me insight.
I did not know that tactic had a name, but I looked it up and it’s exactly that. Thank you for your comment, it helps to put what im feeling into words. I know that what he is doing is wrong, I just don’t know how to explain it. Thank you also for your sympathy, I appreciate it.
Here’s the thing. She can or doesn’t need to do something that she is uncomfortable doing. But, she also doesn’t get to trap you into “wanting her to do something that hurts her” by twisting the narrative. The end goal is that those muscles don’t tighten and hurt her anymore by working them out. It’s like, you go to the gym every day and push yourself more and more until you’re fit and strong. Do you leave feeling exhausted, sore, uncomfortable? Do you still have to go back every day (or whatever your schedule is) and keep working to IMPROVE? Yes. It’s the same idea.
As for advice. The best I could give is to seek relationship counseling or therapy and work through this with a third party who won’t put words in anyone’s mouth.
Welcome to the rest of your life.
Or not. Your choice.
I honestly don't think you have anything to worry about. It was probably the path of least resistance to get out of that situation
I need to make sure he's taken care of since I agreed to this arrangement
You mentioned feeling like you are the only functioning adult in the relationship. I want to propose that your taking care of most of the 'adulting' has actually enabled him to continue living like a teenager, and he has never developed adult skills because he has never had to.
Instead of jumping straight to divorce, would it be an idea to suggest a separation, so that you can travel and pursue the things you want to do, allowing him the space to prove that he can support himself, and then reconsider a few months down the track if you are actually happier solo, or if there really are good things about the relationship that you miss?
Or would that just be dragging out making a decision?
The thought of staying with the status quo seems to be driving you insane, so something absolutely has to change, and he obviously sees no need to – what he says he is going to do and what he actually does are two different things, so you know if you stay, this is how it's going to remain.
It honestly sounds like you don't even like him any more. Do you like who you are when you are with him? If he is snarky and nasty with you, maybe you aren't good for each other any more.
I hope talking it out here helps you crystallise what you actually want – out of life, and out of this relationship.
No, you didn't need anything. You WANTED his company. You asked him. But he had responsibilities that were more important than babysitting you.
I became pregnant at 19 by my (22) boyfriend (I am almost 25 now) he was working at Starbucks and I at a bakery. We had no idea what to do and we’re struggling and didn’t think we could do it. We now have a 4 year old and another baby on the way❤️ he is making good money and I’m a stay at home mom. It doesn’t work for anyone but if he is anything like my fiance then keep that man close. Good luck?