The thing OP seems to have completely missed is that she HAS given consent.
You touched on after four years having some idea of what your partner is like…. I can't believe that OP is going down the rabbit hole with this. She has consented to surprise head, OP wants a signed contract for fear of being charged with assault. No wonder the g/f has called him out. He's being rediculous.
Funny how he would expect you to pay half when you make 30k less. That way he can build a nice nest egg while you scrimp by. In the end he will dip for someone else. Best to find out now.
Knowing what I know now, I’d be done with him for even trying to be cute about this. This just isn’t what men do. Males yes, but men don’t.
Sorry for the confusion. I know I’m in a dating app but no intention of a relationship, I made it clear in my profile that I’m not looking for anything but friendship. I don’t know if I will be ever ready for another relationship again
Still, the bigger issue is that she's aggressive and controling
The thing OP seems to have completely missed is that she HAS given consent.
You touched on after four years having some idea of what your partner is like…. I can't believe that OP is going down the rabbit hole with this. She has consented to surprise head, OP wants a signed contract for fear of being charged with assault. No wonder the g/f has called him out. He's being rediculous.
No it is not ok. Name calling is a very unhealthy way to deal with conflict. And this guy has doubled down on it.
Your friends are right. If he is so sure about you why does he need to give her a “Fair shot”? That doesn't even sound logical.
I think she lost 7 lbs after she ruined her life
Stay single. Honestly you don't sound ready for any stability, you'll know when you're ready to settle with someone.
Funny how he would expect you to pay half when you make 30k less. That way he can build a nice nest egg while you scrimp by. In the end he will dip for someone else. Best to find out now.
Knowing what I know now, I’d be done with him for even trying to be cute about this. This just isn’t what men do. Males yes, but men don’t.
Sorry for the confusion. I know I’m in a dating app but no intention of a relationship, I made it clear in my profile that I’m not looking for anything but friendship. I don’t know if I will be ever ready for another relationship again