I see a therapist weekly, exactly because I don’t want to ‘burden’ my friends with my shit. I lucky to be able to afford it and I know not everyone can. It sounds like you’re active and that’s good for mental health. I guess I don’t know what it is you feel you’re lacking from life?
She is helping you cheat with the full knowledge she is doing it. She had no qualms about being the other women or breaking up your relationship. She is actively trying to do it and you are playing along. Do you really want to be with someone who has no respect for relationships. Do you really think if you left your gf and went with her that she would respect your relationship or would she just do it until the next new guy came along. You are giving up a girl who had been faithful to you for a girl that would screw another girls man. Wtf?
Tell your gf and let her leave and find a man that deserves her. Someone who knows what faithful means.
I once walked completely naked in front of my partner while he was playing WoW and begged him to f*** me. He was like, “move, I'm raiding.”. THAT is too much gaming. Once every two weeks is not.
I wonder if its a combination of scoring big as you said, but also wanting to “catch and tame” an, in their eyes, an unobtainable woman. Like , “I was able to lock down this amazing woman, now I'll have an even bigger ego boost to bend her to my will.”
I mean she should be allowed to have time for herself. But to call his trips sneaky is weird. He isnt insisting she doesnt come along with his trips, while she is
I wouldn't paint with that broad of strokes, there's shit people in every group. It's just that when you place people into such a rigid moral structure it makes anything that goes against that exotic and exciting.
I see a therapist weekly, exactly because I don’t want to ‘burden’ my friends with my shit. I lucky to be able to afford it and I know not everyone can. It sounds like you’re active and that’s good for mental health. I guess I don’t know what it is you feel you’re lacking from life?
She is helping you cheat with the full knowledge she is doing it. She had no qualms about being the other women or breaking up your relationship. She is actively trying to do it and you are playing along. Do you really want to be with someone who has no respect for relationships. Do you really think if you left your gf and went with her that she would respect your relationship or would she just do it until the next new guy came along. You are giving up a girl who had been faithful to you for a girl that would screw another girls man. Wtf?
Tell your gf and let her leave and find a man that deserves her. Someone who knows what faithful means.
I once walked completely naked in front of my partner while he was playing WoW and begged him to f*** me. He was like, “move, I'm raiding.”. THAT is too much gaming. Once every two weeks is not.
I wonder if its a combination of scoring big as you said, but also wanting to “catch and tame” an, in their eyes, an unobtainable woman. Like , “I was able to lock down this amazing woman, now I'll have an even bigger ego boost to bend her to my will.”
This might be the time to give him that gentle push towards therapy.
If he likes them, it might be wise to give him a puzzle. Not too easy but not too difficult either. It’s hot to do a puzzle when you’re tipsy.
Also, what kind of job works 15 days a month?! I would love one of those!
I mean she should be allowed to have time for herself. But to call his trips sneaky is weird. He isnt insisting she doesnt come along with his trips, while she is
I wouldn't paint with that broad of strokes, there's shit people in every group. It's just that when you place people into such a rigid moral structure it makes anything that goes against that exotic and exciting.