I think it’s important to marry somebody who treats others well, and not just because they treat you well. He treats you well now, but you have seen, multiple times, that he is capable of really ugly hatred and behaviour with no remorse. Why do you think you’re safe from being treated the same way he treats others?
I mean, do you consider scratching an itch in your crotch sexual? If it's not bringing sexual pleasure, it's whatever the heck she wants it to be. Bodies itch. Just because you could also use that body part for sex if you wanted doesn't make touching it inherently sexual. Smh. Next you're gonna try and convince her pap smears are a sex thing.
She told you she didn't want to hear it, and you kept pushing it down your throat. Apologize to her and figure out why it bugs you so much that a woman's genitals can also just be body parts sometimes.
Yeah, you’ve already gotten good advice generally in this thread. But also. You are never required to be in a relationship that is literally unsafe for you. This dog bites you. Your boyfriend hasn’t fixed the problem. You say you don’t want to break up with him over this, but your physical safety being threatened is 10000000% enough to break up over.
A lot of folks are talking about the dog, and that makes sense. But honestly I’m sitting here thinking about how your bf is completely fine creating a situation where you are regularly injured. I’m just dumbfounded that someone who presumably says he loves you just sits around while you’re continually physically hurt by the environment he’s created.
The fact that worries me is not that that shes upset about the time, what really worries me is that shes upset that you and your gf are trying to live together. She should be happy for you! That to me is a red flag on your sisters behavior.
I was in a LDR (we’re now married). In the three years we were LD, my family complained once or twice about me spending too much time calling or texting, but they never gave me real grief and didn’t attack me not being around sometimes. Your sister possibly has serious issues, and she needs to get into therapy for it. Hell, you probably need to accompany her to a session to tell them whats going on.
Best of luck in your LDR, hope it goes as well as mine has!
Make a reservation for the spa only for you and do things on your own. The more you try to get him to engage, the less he will engage.
He is an asshole for protecting his daughter for being a brat and trying to ruin your wedding. Do not condone his behavior! You have to show you that you will not put up with it. So start doing your own things right now alone.
I would give this 3 months and fucking divorce him if he acts like this. I think his daughter got her bad behavior from him. He is acting like this for attention and so that you grovel and do what he says/wants. Don't fucking do that!
To be fair, you're more than “partly” to blame, unless you feel this unprotected sex was against your will. But, yeah, no one you've only been dating for 3-4 months is going to be “ready” to have a baby with you. The decisions you make going forward need to be about what's best for you and you only. He wants no part of this. He will not change his mind and suddenly want to be a family with you. He's out now and you have to face this on your own. So if you have the means; both financial and in terms of family support to be a single parent you might decide to keep the pregnancy and the baby. If not you'll need to consider termination or adoption. It's unfortunate, but next time don't take “I forgot to buy condoms” as an excuse.
i’m just not sure if she’s trying to hint at she wants something more or not and i’m just missing it
I think it’s important to marry somebody who treats others well, and not just because they treat you well. He treats you well now, but you have seen, multiple times, that he is capable of really ugly hatred and behaviour with no remorse. Why do you think you’re safe from being treated the same way he treats others?
I mean, do you consider scratching an itch in your crotch sexual? If it's not bringing sexual pleasure, it's whatever the heck she wants it to be. Bodies itch. Just because you could also use that body part for sex if you wanted doesn't make touching it inherently sexual. Smh. Next you're gonna try and convince her pap smears are a sex thing.
She told you she didn't want to hear it, and you kept pushing it down your throat. Apologize to her and figure out why it bugs you so much that a woman's genitals can also just be body parts sometimes.
No because when I go shopping, I look for the particular item I’m shopping for
Yeah, you’ve already gotten good advice generally in this thread. But also. You are never required to be in a relationship that is literally unsafe for you. This dog bites you. Your boyfriend hasn’t fixed the problem. You say you don’t want to break up with him over this, but your physical safety being threatened is 10000000% enough to break up over.
A lot of folks are talking about the dog, and that makes sense. But honestly I’m sitting here thinking about how your bf is completely fine creating a situation where you are regularly injured. I’m just dumbfounded that someone who presumably says he loves you just sits around while you’re continually physically hurt by the environment he’s created.
The fact that worries me is not that that shes upset about the time, what really worries me is that shes upset that you and your gf are trying to live together. She should be happy for you! That to me is a red flag on your sisters behavior.
I was in a LDR (we’re now married). In the three years we were LD, my family complained once or twice about me spending too much time calling or texting, but they never gave me real grief and didn’t attack me not being around sometimes. Your sister possibly has serious issues, and she needs to get into therapy for it. Hell, you probably need to accompany her to a session to tell them whats going on.
Best of luck in your LDR, hope it goes as well as mine has!
So you didn’t not give consent and just laid there? Why are people saying this is rape? Lmaooo this sub is a joke.
Make a reservation for the spa only for you and do things on your own. The more you try to get him to engage, the less he will engage.
He is an asshole for protecting his daughter for being a brat and trying to ruin your wedding. Do not condone his behavior! You have to show you that you will not put up with it. So start doing your own things right now alone.
I would give this 3 months and fucking divorce him if he acts like this. I think his daughter got her bad behavior from him. He is acting like this for attention and so that you grovel and do what he says/wants. Don't fucking do that!
YES
That idea was thrown around. She was actually the one who pulled out, not me. I was down for the equal exchange.
To be fair, you're more than “partly” to blame, unless you feel this unprotected sex was against your will. But, yeah, no one you've only been dating for 3-4 months is going to be “ready” to have a baby with you. The decisions you make going forward need to be about what's best for you and you only. He wants no part of this. He will not change his mind and suddenly want to be a family with you. He's out now and you have to face this on your own. So if you have the means; both financial and in terms of family support to be a single parent you might decide to keep the pregnancy and the baby. If not you'll need to consider termination or adoption. It's unfortunate, but next time don't take “I forgot to buy condoms” as an excuse.
How can I be honest when im literally terrified to even have the conversation?