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It will sting. I wish I could say otherwise. But what’s clear to me from your post history is that he did things that no one should do in a relationship. Period. It doesn’t matter who you are, what you’re like, how you behaved. His behavior is on him. He seems like he has some deeply ingrained, toxic ways of relating to people.
Toxic patterns like that don’t happen overnight and (as much as some abusers will argue otherwise) they don’t magically develop in the presence of one certain partner who MaDe ThEm dO iT. Again, that stuff is on him.
Love cannot make someone cease to enact toxic patterns. Sometimes love can be a catalyst that helps to drive someone’s decision to begin the work necessary to truly change. But ultimately, the decision to change comes from within. It’s a matter of a person’s character.
Change is scary, and uncomfortable, and inconvenient. It’s also a very, very long road. So, most people find it more comfortable to stay put. They might not even realize that they need to break out of toxic patterns. Either way, they probably find it easier to blame others for their problems and stay comfortably, safely, toxically the same.
Which, again, is not on you. All of this boils down to who he is and how he operates in the world.
Thank you! It’s good see some validation of my fears! And that’s my plan to make sure I have everything in place incase I do need to move back.
A trailer? You can do better
Can you afford couple's therapy? Would she mind trying that? This is something that someone who has experience dealing with these kinds of situations should intervene if you want to solve it
To clarify, I've never heard God “speak” to me or have had thoughts that he is telling me to do bad things or really anything at all. To me, it's just like following your intuition or an inner knowing and my faith has guided me so much over the years + gotten me through things that before, I wouldn't have been able to overcome such as suicidality. Also, as I said in my original post, 3 of the encounters I've had were shared with other people which is why I think I can safely rule out hallucinations but I was also re-evaluated after all of these experiences for my own sanity.
I'd avoid those drama mamas, they're addicts
Tell him to grow up and stop being so wildly insecure and then dump him so he has space, time, and motivation to actually grow. He still probably won’t but that’s not your problem. You can just go on with your life without someone holding you back from basic things let alone important things.
You can’t help someone that’s made it clear they won’t help themselves. It’s not your responsibility to be the parent that was her job which I can see she failed miserably. It’s sad but I would suggest establishing boundaries or limiting contact.
Yeah, she probably likes multiple dicks just as much as you do. Fucking asshole.
Why are you with him? It sound like he will cheat or move on quickly.