We’ve been dating for almost a year. I struggle with this even when he’s not overseas. He’s not very good at texting or calling people and he keep saying he will try. Its not the first time im communicating this to him but the answer is always the same “i’ll try to be more consistent” “i’ll do my best” “give me a chance to try”. Im getting tired of this honestly…
She’ll still be able to have the child you both would desire for the reason you suggested. I’d talk to your SO first about your feelings because therapy DOES NOT fix generational/targeted racism. It may also be its own can of worms when your child (if done through these methods) still receives racist comments because you’re their father.
It’s going to be challenging with newer possibilities depending on the ignorant people around you and your children. Something you will need to sit down and talk to them with.
Then tell her what's up.
We’ve been dating for almost a year. I struggle with this even when he’s not overseas. He’s not very good at texting or calling people and he keep saying he will try. Its not the first time im communicating this to him but the answer is always the same “i’ll try to be more consistent” “i’ll do my best” “give me a chance to try”. Im getting tired of this honestly…
Being compatible is not just what matches up with your body Emotions and Intellect
but also your Intuition which is the keeper of your beliefs, hopes, ambitions,
goals and methodologies……..all the things you hold tightly to but do not
actually have evidence to support your position. Couples who match closely
in this area rarely have issues concerning what direction they see the Bond
going. Such life-changing events as having children naturally proceed from the
Bond almost effortlessly. OTOH, “Power Couples” are tightly connected, but
perhaps more along the lines of Business and Career.
IMVVHO, and based on whats been reported, I would conclude that this couple
is an Intuitive Mis-match. In fairness it may be worthwhile to have an intimate
“sit-down” to compare notes. However, if there is no ambition to address
Life Management, I would not hold much hope for an authentic participation
in the Sit-down. Just sayin……
This is honestly the best answer OP.
She’ll still be able to have the child you both would desire for the reason you suggested. I’d talk to your SO first about your feelings because therapy DOES NOT fix generational/targeted racism. It may also be its own can of worms when your child (if done through these methods) still receives racist comments because you’re their father.
It’s going to be challenging with newer possibilities depending on the ignorant people around you and your children. Something you will need to sit down and talk to them with.