Do you plan on having children? If so, this is not the man to be a father. My father is also obsessed with football, although not nearly to this level, and growing up any family time or events on Sundays always revolves around when his team played. It was a constant point of contention. The additional screaming and things this man does will add another level of emotional trauma to your kids, because they will be scared to be around him.
Even if you have decided to be child free, I’m not sure this is a relationship that is going to be fulfilling and healthy for you in the long term.
Girl…the signs were there. This is why I will never put my money let alone all of it into a joint account for NO MAN. Make a plan and gtfo. Your fiancé is abusive.
If your goal is to rekindle your relationship with your brother, your first step shouldn't be to ask him to watch the two people who betrayed him the most get married (and thus, of course, give his public approval).
It should be you, one-on-one, begging for forgiveness.
Well well well, if it isn’t the consequences of your actions. Suicide would be the selfish and the cowardly way out. You are a coward. You weren’t worried about what was gonna happen when you were banging your SIL, own that shit.
Let's be factual. It's NOT her husband's niece. They are totally biologically unrelated. The child wasn't even his brother's stepchild because they were unmarried.
If went over to someone's house and they had my same rug that I got from a cheap store, I would literally be like “Oh hey! I have the same rug!” and I would absolutely expect a response in return along the lines of like, “Oh yeah? It's a good one. I like it.” And that would be it. That would be the whole conversation about the rug. We would move on. I wouldn't think about it after that.
Don't stress. If it's from Target, it's even more likely that in their head they will be like 'Oh they have that same rug from Target, must be popular' and probably won't even mention it aloud. It's a Target rug, not some hundred dollar Persian masterpiece. They're not going to be inspecting it. They're probably going to be concentrating on how their dog is acting in a new space with other dogs rather than on your furniture. Stress less.
Do you need more reasons to leave?
She is out. You need to get serious ( not alert her if possible) and get attorney and affairs in order
Do you plan on having children? If so, this is not the man to be a father. My father is also obsessed with football, although not nearly to this level, and growing up any family time or events on Sundays always revolves around when his team played. It was a constant point of contention. The additional screaming and things this man does will add another level of emotional trauma to your kids, because they will be scared to be around him.
Even if you have decided to be child free, I’m not sure this is a relationship that is going to be fulfilling and healthy for you in the long term.
As someone in their early 20s who's seen a lot of elderly people act ridiculously selfish… some people even get worse with age.
You know this is going nowhere, get rid. The only thing I’d add is that you don’t need grounds for a break up. If it’s not right it’s not right.
Girl…the signs were there. This is why I will never put my money let alone all of it into a joint account for NO MAN. Make a plan and gtfo. Your fiancé is abusive.
If your goal is to rekindle your relationship with your brother, your first step shouldn't be to ask him to watch the two people who betrayed him the most get married (and thus, of course, give his public approval).
It should be you, one-on-one, begging for forgiveness.
Could be fake, but tbh you'd be surprised how many people use their work e-mail for personal shit.
Haha yes. Appalling is what I ment to write. Thank you.
Yep. This is exactly what I was thinking. How can you go into a marriage without being told something so important?
Well well well, if it isn’t the consequences of your actions. Suicide would be the selfish and the cowardly way out. You are a coward. You weren’t worried about what was gonna happen when you were banging your SIL, own that shit.
Let's be factual. It's NOT her husband's niece. They are totally biologically unrelated. The child wasn't even his brother's stepchild because they were unmarried.
If went over to someone's house and they had my same rug that I got from a cheap store, I would literally be like “Oh hey! I have the same rug!” and I would absolutely expect a response in return along the lines of like, “Oh yeah? It's a good one. I like it.” And that would be it. That would be the whole conversation about the rug. We would move on. I wouldn't think about it after that.
Don't stress. If it's from Target, it's even more likely that in their head they will be like 'Oh they have that same rug from Target, must be popular' and probably won't even mention it aloud. It's a Target rug, not some hundred dollar Persian masterpiece. They're not going to be inspecting it. They're probably going to be concentrating on how their dog is acting in a new space with other dogs rather than on your furniture. Stress less.