I'm asexual , I see no value in sex besides pleasure to some people or procreation. I am fine with what happened, this just solidified that I'm sex-repulsed. No biggie, I don't mind that we arent sexually compatible as much as I mind his fantasizing
I have no problem w my wife going out w her friends etc. never have. however the difference in your situation is her immediate defensive attitude, the new guy & the texts and shutting down over it all. When all you said is you’re uncomfortable w this.
Has she ever acted like this before? Is this behavior normal character for her or is this suddenly new?
There has to be something different w her because of your gut feeling. You’re concerned for a reason.
How about tell her you need to talk to her and she doesn’t have to say anything just listen but you want her to know how you feel. Tell her that her being defensive, shutting down and refusing to talk to you is hurtful and you don’t understand why she can’t talk about it w you. Just tell her you feel she’s dismissing your feelings and if she doesn’t want to talk at least she knows exactly how you feel. Tell her how you’re having trouble concentrating at work and you just want to know what she’s acting this way.
It’d be hot for me to continue day to day knowing my actions or inactions were hurting my wife. It just seems she doesn’t care how you feel about this work thing and has dismissed you. It just doesn’t make sense.
She’s never given you a reason to doubt her until now in my opinion. Her evasiveness & attitude to something that doesn’t require it is deafening loud to me.
I have no problem w my wife going out w her friends etc. never have. however the difference in your situation is her immediate defensive attitude, the new guy & the texts and shutting down over it all. When all you said is you’re uncomfortable w this.
Has she ever acted like this before? Is this behavior normal character for her or is this suddenly new?
There has to be something different w her because of your gut feeling. You’re concerned for a reason.
How about tell her you need to talk to her and she doesn’t have to say anything just listen but you want her to know how you feel. Tell her that her being defensive, shutting down and refusing to talk to you is hurtful and you don’t understand why she can’t talk about it w you. Just tell her you feel she’s dismissing your feelings and if she doesn’t want to talk at least she knows exactly how you feel. Tell her how you’re having trouble concentrating at work and you just want to know what she’s acting this way.
It’d be very hot for me to continue day to day knowing my actions or inactions were hurting my wife. It just seems she doesn’t care how you feel about this work thing and has dismissed you. It just doesn’t make sense.
She’s never given you a reason to doubt her until now in my opinion. Her evasiveness & attitude to something that doesn’t require it is deafening loud to me.
Oh boy. My PhD holding professor bf had better hand in his terrible towels.
She does not sound like she knows how life works. Anywhere.
I don't want time away from my kids. Always wanted a family. But yes.. I understand everything else.
Please please please OP a divorce is going to cost you more than this 50k ring ever will. RUN RUN RUN
I'm asexual , I see no value in sex besides pleasure to some people or procreation. I am fine with what happened, this just solidified that I'm sex-repulsed. No biggie, I don't mind that we arent sexually compatible as much as I mind his fantasizing
I don't understand the question… I've been jnvited to the weddings yes… And sort of like the bridesmaid for one of those
He knows how manipulative his mom is though! That’s what I don’t understand, he knows that she does the victim card!
So, you haven't been together for a year and you've been having issues for a year.
This guy is not a keeper.
Do you think its an ego thing? Like he’s above you or something?
I have no problem w my wife going out w her friends etc. never have. however the difference in your situation is her immediate defensive attitude, the new guy & the texts and shutting down over it all. When all you said is you’re uncomfortable w this.
Has she ever acted like this before? Is this behavior normal character for her or is this suddenly new?
There has to be something different w her because of your gut feeling. You’re concerned for a reason.
How about tell her you need to talk to her and she doesn’t have to say anything just listen but you want her to know how you feel. Tell her that her being defensive, shutting down and refusing to talk to you is hurtful and you don’t understand why she can’t talk about it w you. Just tell her you feel she’s dismissing your feelings and if she doesn’t want to talk at least she knows exactly how you feel. Tell her how you’re having trouble concentrating at work and you just want to know what she’s acting this way.
It’d be hot for me to continue day to day knowing my actions or inactions were hurting my wife. It just seems she doesn’t care how you feel about this work thing and has dismissed you. It just doesn’t make sense.
She’s never given you a reason to doubt her until now in my opinion. Her evasiveness & attitude to something that doesn’t require it is deafening loud to me.
I have no problem w my wife going out w her friends etc. never have. however the difference in your situation is her immediate defensive attitude, the new guy & the texts and shutting down over it all. When all you said is you’re uncomfortable w this.
Has she ever acted like this before? Is this behavior normal character for her or is this suddenly new?
There has to be something different w her because of your gut feeling. You’re concerned for a reason.
How about tell her you need to talk to her and she doesn’t have to say anything just listen but you want her to know how you feel. Tell her that her being defensive, shutting down and refusing to talk to you is hurtful and you don’t understand why she can’t talk about it w you. Just tell her you feel she’s dismissing your feelings and if she doesn’t want to talk at least she knows exactly how you feel. Tell her how you’re having trouble concentrating at work and you just want to know what she’s acting this way.
It’d be very hot for me to continue day to day knowing my actions or inactions were hurting my wife. It just seems she doesn’t care how you feel about this work thing and has dismissed you. It just doesn’t make sense.
She’s never given you a reason to doubt her until now in my opinion. Her evasiveness & attitude to something that doesn’t require it is deafening loud to me.